Singles & Dating - 25 October 2007

Well there is this guy that I like and im way to shy to talk to him. He's VERY popular, me, not so much. I do talk to him a bit, but only in class when we are working on projects. I stand no chance . . . although, he has chosen me for every single project in our first hour class. im slightly confused and i dont know what to do. Im trying to focus more on school . . . HELP!!!

2007-10-25 17:28:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I know that you guys aren't psychics.. but yesterday i wrote this guy that stares at me all of the time a short note... He stares at me all of the time and will not look away for anything. I even noticed that he followed me once to watch me get into my car...(he's not the stalker type)..lol I just think he was sneaking a peek before I left.

Anyways, I think he is kind of hot and I decided to take matters into my own hands and wrote him the note that basically told him that I would like to talk w/ him face to face.. and that I look forward to him calling. I also told him to take his time calling if he needed it..(he seems really shy). The only thing that bothers me is that my friend gave him the note this morning and he still HAS NOT CALLED!

I was sure that once he got the note thta he would call me on break or after work.. and he didn't! I feel really stupid right now, but I know that the signs that he gave me were all positive ones.. whats his deal?

2007-10-25 17:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by Vanessa ♥ 1

Well i'm feeling kind of discouraged. I go to the mall or anywhere for that matter and well i know when a guy is checking me out or eyeing me. I'm single, i'd really like to go out with someone. I dont know if the guys who check me out just want to look,whether they just dont like making the first move, or whether i just look unnaproachable!

Can anyone possibly help me out and tell me which one of these it is or whether i should just make the first move?

2007-10-25 17:19:55 · 29 answers · asked by Nise 2

went on a date with this guy from my band class. A week later he asked me to homecoming ball. At homecoming ball at the end of the last song>>he spun me out and then spun me into his arms<<. At 3 marching band competitions he "suspiciously" ended sitting right behind me on the bus all 3 times.
My friends say that whenever I am not around and I am the subject in conversation he blushes and his face turns red and he smiles.
He isnt usually shy.
He also talks to my friends alot; he teases them; but he doesnt tease me.
Whenever I have my camera out(on the way to a band competition on the bus)he takes it and will just take picutres of me.
I can feel that he likes me. I'm guessing I'm right.

What do you guys think I should do?
I'm not sure what to do next?
Sometimes we talk, but we are like really shy when we are in group of friends but when we are on a date we aren't nervous to talk at all. what should I do?

2007-10-25 17:18:04 · 2 answers · asked by fresh start. fresh chance. 2

i was in a relationship my senior year in hs for a year and some months. we broke up in a horrible way and it took me pretty much my whole freshman year of college to get over him. i don't get why i havent found someone else since its been so long. im sick of being single

2007-10-25 17:16:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 17:06:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been talking for 2 months..

2007-10-25 17:02:33 · 3 answers · asked by ralph 1

2007-10-25 17:01:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not sure if he works at the regeister or not i know he cooks but the grill is close so he can see me

2007-10-25 17:01:12 · 7 answers · asked by donielle 7

2007-10-25 16:58:17 · 5 answers · asked by abhi_hmr 1

I've been having a sexual relationship with a friend, but we have talked about how neither of us need or want emotional commitment -just physical connection. We have only slept together once and its one of the first type of experiences like that for me w/ just a friend. What I don't understand is why he isn't just screwing me then getting over with it, instead he will kiss my hand and tell me how nice it is and hold me afterwards. I just really don't understand I always thought that if you weren't in a serious relationship -and just had sex- men would just have SEX and keep it not so cuddlely. Are the rest of you dudes like that? =] seriously..you confuse me. Let me know.

2007-10-25 16:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Being an actor and voice over, I usually have good answers to most common questions, but what do YOU say if your girlfriend's parents asked "sooo what are your intentions with my daughter?" that one gets me stuck.

2007-10-25 16:51:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 'almost' boyfriend is coming home from iraq next week. Im on the road for my job so I wont be able to set up a surprise party up or anything like that - but I just want to let him know how happy I am that he's home. I dont have a lot of money either... any suggestions?

2007-10-25 16:50:16 · 22 answers · asked by linzwitasmile 1

2007-10-25 16:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by brightstar 1

Im very shy, and i see girls that I would like to approach, but am too scared to. Im always thinking that they dont want me to approach them. Im wondering how can I approach them without having that awkardness of having to put urself out there. I want to approach them just as a friend and let the girl decide from there. If anyone has any tips please help! Thanks

2007-10-25 16:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 16:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by samantha_smith_vt 1

okay me and this guy are in drama together and he is always letting me lean on him and kissing me on the head and letting me sit on his lap and he has a girlfriend and me and my friends who know this stuff thinks that he should dump his girlfriend and go out with me but he wont and i am getting real confused about it becaus ehe even said that he liked me better then his girlfriend and he still wont break up with her and i like him a lot and i want to be his girlfriend really bad but he wont dump his girlfriend and go with me.

2007-10-25 16:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by jessy d 1

My brothers friend is 7 years old then me, and i really like him but i dont know how he feels about me.How do i talk to him to find out if he likes me??What do i say so i dont look like im stupid.I say age doesnt matter but since he is older he might.I hope not i really like him its not just puppy love.Just because im young doesnt mean i dont know what love is.

2007-10-25 16:38:09 · 2 answers · asked by Jordayn 2

How soon after your relationship begins should you introduce your new love to your family? He and I are in our 50s, and live hours away from my family.

2007-10-25 16:32:17 · 5 answers · asked by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7

im 14 almost 15 and today i went to mr hero today and i just smiled at a guy not really to flirt but i smiled at a guy and he started flirting with me alot like starring and smiling. ive never had a boyfriend and have barely been flirted with. so what i want to know is do i look stupid to go up there again tomorrow to get food? i like the food alot. i also want to flirt again lol. so how long should i wait before i go up there again? and what are some more ways to flirt??????

2007-10-25 16:27:44 · 4 answers · asked by donielle 7

Just wondering how can I show I'm interested in a girl when I'm shy. We talk a bit, but don't really know each other that well (just through friends). Any tips would help!

2007-10-25 16:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i completely love my boyfrienddd; wee pretty much had a good relationship, the usual with up's and down's. I completelyy trustt himmm becausee preetyy much he earnedd my trust I ...a feww daays agoo onee of his exes, told me that he was cheating on me..whichh I foundd totally ridiculousss & pay no attention to it...until the day after she showed me a picturee of himm kissing anotheeer girl..
i want too trust him, thinking that th picture might be oldddd...but deep insidee i kno that there is a chance that is trueeee....todayy i couldnt see himm cause he saidd he sis had a modeling showw soo he could be with me & not to text him or call him, I tottally feel like if that was a complete liee & that he really is cheatingg on mee, i love himmm but might treust for himmm is completelyy gonee...I havent talk to him abou t causee i want to do it personally...tommorow im going to see but i dont what shouldd i doo ??
what wouldd youu guyss do in my place ?
please & thanx

2007-10-25 16:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by CRAZYINLOVE! 1

I'm in my late 20s. Been through a couple of very long term relationships. Just focusing on my career right now and don't have the energy to date anyone. So, I have a lover I see once or twice a week (we've been seeing each other for a month or so). I like him as a person and we are very compatible as lovers. Things are very natural and comfortable right now. Normally I just meet him at his place and leave right after. A couple of days ago, I slept over for the first time. Do you think I may get emotionally attached if I spend more time with him hanging out or sleeping over? I'm a little worried. (I know people will comment on this, so I'll answer first: of course we practice safe sex!)

2007-10-25 16:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 4

O pious of the heart, I am lost in a love, so great
O pain the hidden secrets will become open debate.
Shipwrecked we just float, O favorable wind arise,
May we one more time gaze upon that familiar trait.
Passage of time and the stars, are but what we fantasize
For compassion and kindness, it is never too late.
In the circle of wine and roses, nightingale’s song is prize
With the aroma and the wine your senses satiate.
O Thou compassionate one, life giver and the wise
One day bestow thy grace upon this mendicant’s state.
For peace of this world and the next, understand what I advise
Magnanimity the lot of friends, and with foes try to relate.

In the land of repute, our passage they will dispute
If this will not suit, don’t stay mute, and transmute dictates of fate.

When destitute and in need, let your love and passion breed
Life’s alchemy, essence and seed, unimagined wealth shall create.

If unruly with pride, with a candle’s zeal your flame will rise
Beloved turns stone to lava, and molten wax manipulate.
The Grail contains but wine, if only you realize
Then the Kingdom of the world, at your feet prostrate.
The good and wise Magi, forgivers of lives and lies
Bearer bring good news, drunkards’ wine consecrate.
With this wine stained robe, Hafiz would never disguise
O untainted pure Master, exempt us from this fate.

2007-10-25 16:03:09 · 1 answers · asked by ahmad p 2

Hes my manager, hes married and I have a bf of 2 years.
I desperatley need these feelings to stop, but Im finally got a big raise and a good position at my job and I dont wanna quit.
Adam (manager) likes me too. We had a talk about it today and he told me to just keep everything a secret and so will he. Its just, hes such a sweet, good natured person. Hes so gentle and caring with me and for a guy he is so sensitive. I mean, I accidently hurt his feelings because I didnt pity him when he had a headache lol! and the way he looks at me drives me wild, its like he wants to tell me something but he cant. He never has tried anything sexual with me, all the feelings we have are emotional feelings. Im attached to him and its so wrong.

How do i make this stop? I just wanna tell him everything one day and tell him I cant handle the feelings for him anymore and see what he says. This is killing me so bad and I have to keep it such a secret that I cant tell a soul who knows me

2007-10-25 15:56:34 · 35 answers · asked by steph 2

2007-10-25 15:55:17 · 3 answers · asked by donielle 7

It is normal for a guy to do that? and he has gotten hard quite a few times so i kinda believe him. but how can i tell if he is really big or if he just has a really big ego?

2007-10-25 15:49:48 · 22 answers · asked by pear~bear 2

how can I look smarter and hot at the same time.
im not willing to sacrifice looks for intelligence but I want both.
heres what I already do so dont tell me to do these.. think of new ways

. Pretend to read big books ( i just stare at them and flip pages)
. make facial expressions during conversations that make me look like I know things
.wear trendy glasses
.read newspapers and like magazines and stuff
go to the library and stare at books



any more suggestions?
luvs you

2007-10-25 15:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i live in dorms and on tuesday (two days ago) we went on a sort of date. it wasn't actually a date, but i'm pretty sure he likes me and i like him and he hinted about further dates. anyways, i didn't see him yesterday and i messaged him on facebook but he didn't respond, he doesn't usually respond to anyone on facebook. i haven't seen him yet today, should i go over to his room right now? or would that be too pushy?

2007-10-25 15:40:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could say one thing to your ex being totally honest, what would it be?

Mine would be "I want you back"... but I know I'll never get to say it

2007-10-25 15:32:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous