Being an actor and voice over, I usually have good answers to most common questions, but what do YOU say if your girlfriend's parents asked "sooo what are your intentions with my daughter?" that one gets me stuck.
2007-10-25 16:51:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you answer it seriously and dont make any jokes because then the parents will not like you
2007-10-25 16:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by chanelbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cant be honest you arent worthy of her.
Do you know what you want with her? Is she a one-night-stand, a short term thing, your I-dont-know before college, your I-got-her-pregnant-at-homecoming,... what is she?
In 10 years when they look back at you, what are you most likely to be?
If you cant answer that question then why in Gods name should you have any access to her heart, and her life? If you are the train-wreck they have a right to know, so they can flinch when the let down happens. If you are one in a long string it would be nice to tell them so they can know not to remember your name. If you are something more the least you could do is give them a tip ahead of time. A little hope, and a little vision is good.
Its written on a fathers heart to pass the torch of guarding, nurturing, and providing for his daughter to a worthy man, a man who will do the task nobly and well. Its a sacred duty.
If you as the bf receive the torch and drop it, and stomp on it, then the father has the moral responsibility to knock your teeth in. If you, as the bf receive it and treat it well, then he will give you the highest honor he has written in his inner self, he will treat you as an equal and as one who belongs.
You better well know that before you reach out to touch his baby girl, and leave fingerprints on her heart, and other parts. You cant not touch her life, so do it for the better, or not at all.
2007-10-25 17:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just laugh and tell them that that's a question deliberately designed and phrased to have no good answer, and to ask you another one.
It may seem a bit rude, but they totally deserve it if they are asking you that question in the first place. Also you girlfriend should stand up for you here, so if she doesn't, get a better one.
2007-10-25 16:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on how long you have been dating. A great answer is. Make her as happy as she makes me and live each day to the fullest. Not to be forward Mr and Mrs ? But that is a personel question not to be rushed with out considering her feelings on this subject.
2007-10-25 17:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by ictracers2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that your intentions are to knock her up and then desert her. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-10-25 16:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ned F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... I was thinking a movie and dinner, if thats all right with you sir!
Not like you can say, well we're gonna leave here and find a dirt road and jump in the back of my car, where i'm gonna do things to your daughter, you could never imagine.
whats he thinkin? duh
2007-10-25 16:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by charm1936 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"sir.....we are just having a good time right now. dont really like to put pressure on myself but wether or not it gets serious, KNOW that i will treat your daughter right."
gl & peace!
2007-10-25 16:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say well i wouldnt mind having a relationship with her and we'll see how things go from there.
2007-10-25 16:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on her parents if they have no sense of humor or you don't want to use humor say that your intensions are to date it see where that takes you
2007-10-25 17:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by jon_acs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile and say "good ones, I hope!" It's a ridiculous unfair question and they should know it.
2007-10-25 16:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋