Im very shy, and i see girls that I would like to approach, but am too scared to. Im always thinking that they dont want me to approach them. Im wondering how can I approach them without having that awkardness of having to put urself out there. I want to approach them just as a friend and let the girl decide from there. If anyone has any tips please help! Thanks
2007-10-25 16:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my wife says i am not good enough to answer this
2007-10-25 16:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by blackrealty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay for one forge the shyness! You must be confident! Bold! Unless you like a girl that likes your type of shyness then it looks cute on you. Start up a random conversation with her. Like say if you were in high school or if your younger and middle school it could be about homework or classwork or maybe P.e. If you work with her or something then complain about something. Be funny or have a CD or something out or your iPod and ask her if she likes the same music as you do. In your case be laid back, don't pull that macho crap. Just be yourself and don't come onto too strong. And when you talk to her don't make it seem to random. What I mean is don't just walk right up to her and go "Hi I'm blah blah blah and I like you." Get into a situation where your physically close to her like leaning against a wall or something or waiting to go somewhere and turn to her and start off saying something. You can do it, good luck!
2007-10-25 23:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by alexzandra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence!! Just casually walk up to a girl and be like, "Hey, how are you doing today?"...Just start a random conversation, but dont be "weird" about it. Girls dont like shy guys, so definitely dont be shy. Sadly enough, you will be rejected alot in life, so dont let "rejection" stop you, you will eventually find your girl :)
2007-10-25 23:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by kimberly_frye06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are im 14 almost 15 and i like a guy to smile at me then i dont know i guess start talking.
2007-10-25 23:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by donielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men who approach when the girl is alone and a friendly voice
2007-10-25 23:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a Great Smile, and a nice Hello, then say whats your name, if she likes you she will start talking, and you go from there.....
2007-10-25 23:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yo Mama wassup, I'm Martin, wanna hook up?
2007-10-25 23:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first smile at her, and if she smile back then make 2nd. move, go up to her and start a conversation, at the end ask her for her number......
2007-10-26 00:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by brightstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with a sincere compliment. :) like her perfume, or her beautiful eyes. Or even the color of her finger nail polish!
2007-10-25 23:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start singing a song and see if she comes over.
2007-10-25 23:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋