Singles & Dating - 25 October 2007

i love this one boy and i really do care about him but his X girlfriend wont let him go. so he's tied up with her. all she does to him is give him stress, and my brother dont like him because theres a rumor going around saying that he asked me and this other girl out while he was going out with this one girl. but none of that is true. and my brother wants to fight with him. what should i do? i know i can be a better girlfriend for him. help me and i'm 16 years old and never had a boyfriend so please help!

2007-10-25 09:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today, me and my friend Brooke beat my boyfriend and this other guy in doubles tennis. I mean we didn't just barely beat them but we really creamed them in all 3 sets we played! Anyway, my boyfriend got all mad about it saying we cheated which is impossible and acting like a pouty baby! I mean what's the big deal? Besides, he should have known we would beat them since we are both on tennis team and he isn't. What is with guys?!

2007-10-25 09:27:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does it feel to take a step away from a relationship thats over a year long?

2007-10-25 09:25:25 · 1 answers · asked by youngson141 2

I just started dating this guy who is so sweet...likes to cuddle, give backrubs, sweet texts throughout the day, and emails, etc. But I just do not have that butterflies feeling. We've slept together and it was just eh but he's inexperienced for his age...maybe he just needs practice? But he doesn't take to the guides that I give him. Do you think that I would know right away if this was something special? I just don't want to throw away a sweetheart just because the physical side is less than earth shattering. And I'm sorry if this is an over-share, but afterwards I just want to jump up and get in the shower which I think is a pretty bad sign (but don't know if this would change as a deeper relationship evolves). And I don't want to lead him on while I try to figure out how I feel- he's already pretty smitten and I don't want to hurt such a guy. Thank you so much! And yes I know jumping into bed so soon was stupid...already vowed not to do that again.

2007-10-25 09:22:02 · 21 answers · asked by Future Cat Lady 3

well me & my boyfriend have been together for 4 days but we've been friends for a year.he asked me on the second day we were going out would i let him hit. i said eventually. so today he asked me again when is our first time together going to be. i said asap because i dont wanna lose him. we are both 13 but age shouldnt matter right? and i do want to do it and he does too so shouldnt i just do it?

2007-10-25 09:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 09:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by . 7

girls if a guy asks u out nd u wanna say yea
wht do u say?

2007-10-25 09:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm like only 13 and came out about being bisexual last year. Recently I've found that I'm more attracted to older women, around 16-23. I think its got something to do with the fact I've always got along with people older than me. Is this strange?

2007-10-25 09:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by lil_chaz_2k7 1

im going out with this boy that i really like, but another boy whos nicer to me and likes me alot asked me to our schools winter ball what should i do?

2007-10-25 09:14:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Boys? What color lingerie says sexy, or playful, or innocent? And describe what you would like me to wear? Up to the task?

2007-10-25 09:13:26 · 12 answers · asked by luvbev2 4

She's a coworker of mine. She always asks me to go out with her and the others from work. I always say I can't, or I don't know if I can go. She always says that it would be good if I go. The problem is I don't really want to go out with her and the others from work. I just want to go out with her. I would go out with them, but she always ends up leaving early and then i'm stuck with a bunch of people I don't really want to be with. 1. Why does she always ask me to go, when she knows that I never go. 2. I really don't like the rest of the people that go, so am I doing the right thing by not going?

2007-10-25 09:13:06 · 24 answers · asked by mama a 1

So I have a great boyfriend. He's sweet (although he can be insensitive about certain things like most guys). He gets really jealous if I hang out with other guys, and loves to hang out with me constantly.Well, my gay friend just met my boyfriend of 9 months and he told me he thought he had gayface and it's been bugging me ever since that now I'm thinking, wow, could my boyfriend be gay? My gay friend is also cheating with a man married to a woman and that's freaking me out too. And now I'm starting to get this feeling that my bf might be too! And if you ask me why I think he might gay, I can't come up with one answer! Is that crazy? My boyfriend cooks me dinner (at the beginning). He flew to Europe to be with me, we have sex alot (usually me on top) and he watches me and plays with my boobs and only lasts a couple minutes. He loves video games and sports. He gets hard if we talk about getting married or having kids.
I'm so paranoid now that I would break up! What's wrong with me?

2007-10-25 09:11:43 · 4 answers · asked by KM! 1

well ive liked a couple guys and none of them really ever liked me back i know why because they all told me cuz im different and not in a good way, they think im wierd and kind of creepy, not stalker creepy just the things i like, my question is are there any guys that would actually like a girl thats different the way i am

2007-10-25 09:10:57 · 29 answers · asked by mokèlé mbèmbé 2

I know too often in a "friends with benefits relationship" the girl is the one to become attached
while the guy views it as nothing more than sex, so I pose this question: I have been friends with a guy for six years, 3 of which have been with benefitsI feel like the fact that this sort of relationship has lasted so long is rather impressive, thus it must mean something, so what do you think. Am I delirious or what?

2007-10-25 09:09:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so i went to visit my sister whos in college in Chicago and we went out with some of her friends. She told me that this one guy was a complete ho and he did come onto me . He spent the night flirting with me and when we got back to her house he said i was beautiful but then he went home soon after. I messed up because I dont have much experience with guys and I wanted to ask him to walk me back to my hostel but was too nervous. I saw him in the distance this morning but he didnt come over .Im going back there in 2 weeks and was wondering if you think he really liked me ?

2007-10-25 09:08:55 · 36 answers · asked by actingout 1

Im in my first year. I find it hard making friends.. i dont know why. iv made a few, and i am in some societies.. i want to make loads of friends but dont know i find it hard... any help would be really appreciated!

2007-10-25 09:08:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. Are you one of those people when in an agruement, you'd want to be right and be the last one that says something?
2. If so, do you think that is a good way to communicate?

For weeks now I would settle arguments with my girlfriend by using the "Girls are always right" - card by not arguing back. Its gotten out of hand now. We had an agruement recently and with usual actions, she now thinks of me as an incompetent person who can't comprehend anything.

3. Shall I continue with this downward spiral by continually using the card ("believing" shes always right) Or shall I slap the ***** and go over ALL of the stupid things SHE would say and let her have It like: not knowing that you have to put bottles in the recycle bin not just paper, Osama bin ladin and Barack Obama are two different people, debit cards are different from credit cards, and to not give out your email address when filling out a form that asks for shipping address?

4. Is there anything ELSE I can do?

2007-10-25 09:07:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 09:05:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is a teenager and he smokes weed and smokes cigarettes and he told me he would try to stop just cuz he doesnt want to ruin our relationship and he would only do that for me not for any other girl cuz he rlly likes me. and like hes been tryin but he cant. he never wanted to do it from the begginin he was under alot of peer pressure cuz hes friends with alot of older guys. and like only me my bestfriend him and his best friend no thats it. and i can only talk to her bout it i dont want to tell him how i feel cuz its really botherin me and im in so much pain i dont want him to get harmed i care bout him wayy too much. :[ and im under so much pain that im starvin myself. please help i need adviceee!!!!!!

2007-10-25 09:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im only 16

2007-10-25 09:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by sexy_pink_tiff 2

his g/f is a beautiful muslim gurl, and wears scarf when leaving home!!!...i kinda found it weird!..which made me ask this question

2007-10-25 08:59:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 08:58:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this boy and i love him with all my heart but my brother dont like him and the boy that i like is in the hospital. should i go and visit him or what? but my foster family wouldn't know about me going there to see him?should i go or should i just let him go? he had a concusion, he fell into a coma,and now he has eternal bleeding in his brain? help me please!!

2007-10-25 08:54:04 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 08:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by brokensword 2

I workout 4-5days per week, i always watch my food closely, and I am pretty muscular with good definition. My girlfriend though is just FAT now. She started off kinda chubby, which was fine, but now she's fat...

How do i get her to lose weight? I was thinking i'll just continue going to the gym and getting in UBER shape so that she'll feel insecure around me and be motivated to lose weight herself. Will this work?

2007-10-25 08:50:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy bet me that he could stay standing after a kick in the nuts. I want to know how I can ensure that he drops because Ive never done this before!! Any girls have advise. If I lose I have to streak through my fron yard which I dont want to do.

2007-10-25 08:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I am going crazy here...So I known this guy for about 6 years now? Recently we have really been hanging out...Well this past Monday we took our friendship to a whole other level. Since then I haven't heard from him. When I try calling him I get no answer. What the hell man. Do you think that he really just used me? We known eachother for way too long for that right?

I even met his dad (which he never lets anyone meet) and he was real eager to meet my family. What is going on?

Help

2007-10-25 08:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by ilovejada06 1

Would you rather be told that your girlfriend is staying with you out of pity and and then let her go, or would you rather not know and have her stay by your side?

2007-10-25 08:44:52 · 9 answers · asked by surfagirl 6

My boyfriend of one year did not give me anything for sweetest day. He says it's a made up holiday. So, we were wondering how much people actually celebrate it? And if you do, what did you do for that day?

2007-10-25 08:42:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ayy soo it been lyke 5 months since me n diz gurl been goinqq outt
Butt we juss havnt kiss yett...umm jus wondernqqq is the relantionshipp goinqq well 0r goinq nott so good??..wat should i Do??

2007-10-25 08:41:51 · 19 answers · asked by Masta 1