Would you rather be told that your girlfriend is staying with you out of pity and and then let her go, or would you rather not know and have her stay by your side?
2007-10-25 08:44:52 · 9 answers · asked by surfagirl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has does nothing wrong, but he has had a hard life, I do care for him but I do not love him, yet I cannot give him no indication, it would hurt him too much
2007-10-25 09:08:44 · update #1
I think I'd rather know. It'd be sad, but a loving relationship is a two-way deal. It one doesn't love the other, they should talk about it. Hey she might still stay after the talk, but it's best, although can be painful, to get it out into the open.
2007-10-25 11:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by dweebken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I told you this will happen didn't I. He's the weaker of you two, you're always having to protect him, I thought it was suppose to be the guy protecting the girl. where are his Ba**s?! He's got none, sooner or later you will find someone with all the passion and wit that will sweep you off your feet, it just not going to be with this guy. Aole Pilikia, oh wahine, aole aole, just wait, oni pa a, Nana ka maka; ho`olohe ka pepeiao; pa`a ka waha.
2007-10-25 10:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I am getting sex out of the deal I'd rather her stay with me out of pitty. This way I get sex at home. I can always go out and find another woman who will appreciate me more, but if I could have sex with both my girlfriend and the girl who actually appreciates me I'd rather my girlfriend stays.
2007-10-25 08:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would rather know the truth, no matter how difficult it may be to hear, than to have dishonesty.
2007-10-25 08:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather know and then break up...because if the relationship is fake i want no part of it.
2007-10-25 08:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Evan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree just break up with him! Human hearts are not toys!
2007-10-25 08:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by rotfwbimf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely break it off--it's better for both of you to move on to something better.
2007-10-25 08:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by short round 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third option: be honest and break it off, clean. He'll get over you.
2007-10-25 08:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing better than giving to charity
2007-10-25 08:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋