well me & my boyfriend have been together for 4 days but we've been friends for a year.he asked me on the second day we were going out would i let him hit. i said eventually. so today he asked me again when is our first time together going to be. i said asap because i dont wanna lose him. we are both 13 but age shouldnt matter right? and i do want to do it and he does too so shouldnt i just do it?
2007-10-25 09:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer would be a definite YES if you wanted to get pregnant, have a baby at 14, drop out of high school, forfeit your future education, end up on welfare, divorced, raise a kid by yourself, and stay tired all the time.
It that what you really want?
2007-10-25 09:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, he just wants sex, you will really regret just giving it up like that, trust me! your going to want to save it for someone your truly in love with when you get older. You are too young, I know you don't want to hear that but it's true you both are not mentally or emotionally ready for that. NEVER let a guy pressure you into sex. It will be the biggest regret of your life, so much responsibility comes with sex, and young kids don't understand that. Sex is for mature people although morons engage in it, it isn't something to do just because you can or you want someone to stick around. He doesn't love you, especially if he's pushing for it. Have self respect sweetheart.
2007-10-25 09:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! NO! I could go on and on, but NO! Starting at this age will only lead to heartache for you. Age does matter. If you start now, by the time you are REALLY in love and ready to have a true relationship, you won't have anything "special" to give that person. As I write this, I know you won't listen, but be prepared to take the responsibility for your actions. STD's and pregnancy are only part of the problem you are going to create for yourself.
2007-10-25 09:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by sixftrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young, and if he asked you this on the second day then it's pretty obvious he just wants to pop you:S:S(I) but I understand how you can be so naive being that ur 13 and all but it's not my choice. I'm just telling what I know from being a former 13-yr old horndog.
2007-10-25 09:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Starias5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 yrs old!?! That is sick! Sweetie you are just too young,trust me!! You have been together for 4 days. forget how long you have been together.
So what culture are you from?
You shudnt be underpresure to have sex with him knowing that the same guy will leave you after getting the 'goods'.
Are we even sure he can get his wee-wee up and hard like that?
2007-10-25 09:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mma Matlhale.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, these kids are so funny! babygirl, you will regret it if you do it. Don't let him talk to you into doing anything like that. You are too young to be thinking about sex. Do you even know where your vagina is? Do you even know what you're supposed to do.. I mean, are you physically and mentally mature to see a naked boy, and less to mention act like you're an adult?
You shouldn't do it. You have too much ahead of you to waste on some pathetic horny boy who seems to only want you to lose his virginity to. I'm sorry for being so blunt but you really have to hear it.
2007-10-25 09:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nanx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should so wait now its not the time and ur way to young i know u sayin and think that no ur not but trust me i was ur age too at one stage and should not be pressure thinkin this is cool or its the right time, u start early u start makin mistakes early and theres no joy in that:) :) goodluck and u should really wait for another 2 yrs at least to gain wisdom and stuff:)
2007-10-25 09:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so bloody stupid. You'll have plenty of time to have sex when you're over 16. There are many deseases you could catch which could affect you in later life. Also you could get pregnant. Grow up
2007-10-25 09:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by spanish stroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not as you will come to be sorry for doing so later on in your life. Safe yourself for when you are more mature and in a real relationship, rather then in a puppy love relationship attempting to act all adult like.
2007-10-25 09:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no you shoudn't and if he keeps pushing you should seriously cut him off...you're 13 and that kind of stuff you shoudn't even have to be worrying about your so young and guys will come and go....i hate to break it to you but that relationship isn't going to last forever i'm not trying to be mean thats just the truth enjoy it now though just if he keeps trying to get in your pants he doesn't respect you and if he doesn't respect you he doesn't deserve you
2007-10-25 09:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by shockw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋