Singles & Dating - 25 October 2007

he called after he got mad with me. well this has been ongoing for 3 yrs. when he does something to me its no big deal. when i do something which is after he has done something to me all hell breaks loose. im tired of him and its over.he bought me a ring but i pawned it. but he broke his promises and i called it off. he didnt do what he said he would. i think he wants to argue some more about that ring. well he said i could keep it , so i did what i needed to do. i had no money for me and my daughter. its over far as im concerned. should i ignore him completely. what would u do. or would u give back the ring even after he told i could have it. but its in pawn shop. ill get it out later when i have the money. he seems like hes more upset about the ring then the break up. hes a controller when it comes to money and he lies alot. i thought he was going to change. he said i should have had enough money to do what i needed. why is he trying to keep u with what i have in my purse?

2007-10-25 19:51:44 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

What should a man wear to impress you?

2007-10-25 19:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your some how famous in any aspect please tell me.

2007-10-25 19:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 hes 19 and hes got a 2month old son. Now b4 you starting thinking well ur too young, the girl he had the baby with was my age 15. Im glad hes got a son kinder i just dont like the fact that its with another girl. is it normal to have these mixed feelings. i no that him being a father and all comes first and i respect that but he moved away from his son 7 hours away to be exact. i love him alot and want to be with him but when ever i think about him i think of his son is this just a stage im going through or wat coz i dont want to drop him for having a son awwww man if any of this made sence please help.

2007-10-25 19:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering if flirting is the same as cheating?

2007-10-25 19:36:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have made promise with my god, and parents nothing sexual(any for of touching, hugging, kissing..) before marriage and I believe if I do God will punish before I die and after I die... whenever I have disobey God I have ended up getting hurt somehow someway and I truly and honestly fear God and won't do anything major to disrespect him btw religion is something I have taught myself so may not rit about everything... but it is a promise made and it is wrong to break that promise... my friends say you will die alone because u have to be a gf before you get married and no guys going to agree with your rules... the will all end up thinking you are just a cold heart bit@h and if I am speaking to a guy and he touches me on my arm or hand my body does respond positively to it... it just ruins my day and makes me very upset I don’t want to die alone I look forward on having a marriage and being in love with my husband... taking care of him... being a good friend to him... always being there for him... and he would be completely devoted and in love with me... always trying to make me smile... traveling around the world together alone... and I find it very hard to fit the idea of having sex in the picture of what it means to be married even if he is married to me Most of the guys I meet the compliment me on my figure... and says they loves having sex... I really want to date and have a bf and build a good relationship to carry it on into marriage
p.s. I have a few a lot of guy friends who wants to go out with me and I almost had 1 bf but always had this same rules I am 21 who looks 30 and my parents are over protective of me with a military style and says if any guy put his hands on me we will both die in hill and God hates sl@ts

2007-10-25 19:33:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a bit shy when it comes to the bedroom. I don't really have alot of experience. Help please.

2007-10-25 19:31:42 · 19 answers · asked by tout petite 2

k whats the next greatest thing besides sex??? girls what do you think??? guys what do you like??? i mean i haven't done much with a guy before so i want to know what will be fun... be realist yet creative and HONEST!! thanks a billion =]

2007-10-25 19:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

a friend and i were having some drinks in the club.we were a little tipsy.after clubbing, we went back to my house and starting to make out and who knew, one thing happened after the next. the next morning, it was really awkward. what should i do? i don't want our friendship to be ruined

2007-10-25 19:09:20 · 5 answers · asked by wipeywipedout 1

I chew and spit my food out almost all the time, or i just don't eat, or eat a lot. If I do eat i feel guilty, and feel like I did somthing wrong. Do i have an eating disorder? I don't want to talk to m parents about it, they wouldn't understand. Should I talk to my big in my sorority, she had an eating disorder once.? We're really close and we think of each other as a real older sister & real little sister. But I'm scared and I don't kno what I should do, or how they will react? I don't wan't them to send me anywhere I just want to know if I have a problem? U kno what I mean?

2007-10-25 19:08:03 · 15 answers · asked by DDsororitychick 1

When selecting a man for a long term relationship I think the most important things are for him to be are smart, Hard, honest and a good provider. What Points should a woman have? I think a woman should be smart, sexy , a good cook and honest. What do you think?

2007-10-25 19:07:11 · 4 answers · asked by Green Genius 4

I dated this girl for 5 years. We broke up because she "wanted to see who she was by herself" its a long story. She supposivly moved on and now has a new boyfriend. I moved on in the sense that i want nothing to do with her. She calls me once a week at least. Sometimes she "misses me". Sometimes she thinks she'll "never have a guy like me" but she says she dosnt still like me or anything and its just cause she wants me as a good friend. I dont care like i said earlier i really dont want anything to do with her, but im gonna be nice to her nonetheless. She asked me to go to Chicago with her for the night on sunday because she dosnt want to go by herself. I'm gonna go with her. I know this might be kind of weird but im not sure if its a big mistake or what. Also what do you think her intentions are? I'm really not sure about this girl anymore. anyone got advice? or anything to say that could help me?

2007-10-25 19:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by cheese_84_99 2

No details, just answer the question please. :)

2007-10-25 19:00:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 18:59:12 · 12 answers · asked by luciavanhuynh 1

2007-10-25 18:51:48 · 18 answers · asked by KATY 3

It is a fact that my boyfriend is smart. Very smart. We're both in college and he has never dipped below a 4.0. Right now he is struggling in deciding what to do with his life (because he has so many choices) I'm an average student who tries my very best. I'm trying to decide what I want to do with my life with what I CAN do.
My boyfriend has never mentioned this different between us out loud exactly. But I know he knows. Quite often we will be talking and he'll bring up a topic I do not know or say something I do not understand.I feel like an idiot because he like thought provoking conversations and too often I have nothing to offer. I like to talk about other topics in order to get to know each other better, and he usually says he would rather talk about something that is more thought provoking.

Should I sit down and talk to him about this? It is the only insecurity I have in our relationship. In my mind, I feel he will eventually get bored with me and leave me. What should I do?

2007-10-25 18:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by hopes&dreams 4

I know he is sayin im too young to have a relationship with, but not too young to have sex with? My question is what can be the down falls in life that can be so bad just because of 18 year age difference?

He says "your 19. what kind of relationship do you think we can have? **** do you not see it?

2007-10-25 18:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not the dream type of girl every guy wants, blond hair and blue eyes. I hate how I look, my face and my *** are flat and my eyes are always black and blue(i no surgery won't fix that). I get teased all the time about how I look. Now that I'm brain washed so bad thinking I'm ugly and seeing that I am, I want to get plastic surgery to have my needs to feel better about myself. Also the hair on my back, I hate it so much. My body ruined my life so much, it's a nightmare I'm living. My boyfriend saids "You're the most beautiful girl in the world." then he checks other girls out, and it makes me feel I'm not as beautiful as he saids I am. I'm not getting it done for anyone else, I just want to be pretty. I know looks won't get you far but i just feel really ugly and it's really sad. I just want to be happy.
Christina

http://a902.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/102/l_2bd1211c788636b74db7e0ee9b6d2775.jpg

That's a picture of me so u can see what I'm talking about.

2007-10-25 18:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ya it was shocking cuz i heard it in class and she just ignored it but the guy was taunting her with a pencil in his mouth

2007-10-25 18:40:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend works 80 hrs/wk and I work 40 hrs/wk plus I am taking 16 hours of classes. We are both super busy but try to see each other as much as we can (pretty much every night) he is usually really romantic and Tuesday night he told me "I am going to love you forever." But the wknd before last he said he would call me and he didn't call me because he got off at 1:00 in the morning and was really tired. Then the following wknd he said the same thing and he left early but he didn't have his car and said his brother never came and his friend had to take him home. Then last night he said he would call and come by after I left work and he didn't come because a guy that sold him his car said he was going to take his car away if he didn't pay for his plates to be changed. My dog died today and I was really upset and I blew up at him. I told him that I was tired of him saying he would call and then he doesn't. He is really tired a lot and I'm usually understanding but today I had it

2007-10-25 18:35:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanted to give flowers to a lady whom I haven't dated yet even once but her family knows me and I already visited her once in their home?is it a good point?I plan to give it personally once i visit her again. Any thoughts?

2007-10-25 18:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by superman003 1

i act all happy, but in the inside i want one, i dont act desperate, but i want one. haha, that was repetition. but i have turned two guys down in the past cuz i was afraid of commitment, but now im not. and i have moved to another city. what can i do? im a junior in high school

2007-10-25 18:22:22 · 26 answers · asked by sunny 4

Would you approach them or not?

2007-10-25 18:19:45 · 10 answers · asked by getatjayr 2

2007-10-25 18:14:09 · 24 answers · asked by Tiger Lily 3

K I think Im a pretty cute girl, I used to model and work out 5 daysa week to stay shapely.
But I am very confused by a guy I LIKE so much.
he has been married before. divorced for ayear.
So he has to be straight, right ?
And he comments about how hot his exwife was and how he finds drew barrymoore and jemma jameson hot. so again he has to be straight, right ?
Well here is where is gets weird:
he told me he once got a lower leg massage from a gay massage therapist for fun.
he gets manicures/pedicures/fakebake tans/loves designer clothes/has spiked fauxhawk hair but says he is just a metrosexual.
we have made out twice and both times frenched. but he would french me and then stop after just a minute or two. then each time he was on top i NEVER felt any kind of arousal down there on him.
every other guy ive ever dated has gotten a good h@rd on after making out like that.
also he tells me how much he respects me and after 3 months still isnt pressuring me for sex.
strange ?

2007-10-25 18:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1

Ive asked the girl for lunch this weekend. I'm just wondering what places are really good for lunch. No crapy places like BK. I was thiking of Olive Garden or Friendlys but I dont want it to be too fancy because Im getting to know her in person for the first time. So what places are best available to go out for lunch with a girl for the first time? so that they'll go along with you perhaps for a long term realtionship afterwards?

2007-10-25 18:02:14 · 2 answers · asked by soil03 2

My boyfriend works 80 hrs/wk and I work 40 hrs/wk plus I am taking 16 hours of classes. We are both super busy but try to see each other as much as we can (pretty much every night) he is usually really romantic and Tuesday night he told me "I am going to love you forever." But the wknd before last he said he would call me and he didn't call me because he got off at 1:00 in the morning and was really tired. Then the following wknd he said the same thing and he left early but he didn't have his car and said his brother never came and his friend had to take him home. Then last night he said he would call and come by after I left work and he didn't come because a guy that sold him his car said he was going to take his car away if he didn't pay for his plates to be changed. My dog died today and I was really upset and I blew up at him. I told him that I was tired of him saying he would call and then he doesn't. He is really tired a lot and I'm usually understanding but today I had it

2007-10-25 18:01:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

About half a year ago, I started hooking up w/ my best guy friend. After we started hooking up, he began treating me like a girlfriend. He would call, text, im, everything...all the time. He'd even get worried that I might meet someone else. He always picked up on my emotions and did the right thing. Despite all of this, when I asked him why we aren't dating, he said he doesn't think he is ready because he doesn't know where he's going to be in the future. I've tried to break things off a few times, but he never lets me go. He contacts me a lot and says hes fine with just being friends. But everyone tells me that I can do better than him and that I should ditch him. Consensus is that he is not boyfriend material for me. The problem is that I don't know if I can do that because I feel like i am in love with him. Plus, I am his best friend and one of his only close friends. He doesn't really have anyone else. Do i just stop hooking up or do I eliminate him from my life?! What do i do?

2007-10-25 18:00:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know if it is me, but I guess some younger woman likes me.

I haven't dated for years, lazy, out of shape, not much social contact, don't know people, don't know how to read people, a slob, haven't been laid in years, hard headed, I don't know myself blah blah blah.

And to top it off, a complete disorganized, irresponsible, immature idiot to boot.

What am I supposed to do?

2007-10-25 17:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by Doesntstayinvegas.com 3

Theres a girl i rhave known for past 5 years, i think im in love with her, but i am unsure of her feelings. i am scared to go further incase i distroy a nice relationship as it is. How can i found out her feeling towards me, perhaps she just likes having a male freind and does not want any more. perhaps im looking for something that just is not there. help.

2007-10-25 17:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous