Singles & Dating - 28 October 2007

2007-10-28 23:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really thought he liked me, I seriously did. He's been ignoring me for over a week now. He asked me out. On Saturday I saw him in the night club and he ignored me there too. I'm so hurt. I lost my virginity to this guy and now i'm being treated like this. All the money I spent on him. Well I wanted to buy him things so I blame myself for that. But how can someone do this to another person?

2007-10-28 23:50:16 · 14 answers · asked by FIERCE 2

Sorry, really, for contributing to all the BS romance questions on this site. But I need some help! Please! Thanks.

I have a girlfriend who I really like, and who I also love. She is very pretty and we get along well. Recently while drunk I left a very cynical message on her answering machine, which brought to light a disparity between our understanding of the relationship.

She "must be with someone that is always completely sure they love me with their whole mind body and spirit every moment of their life." I don't believe that's possible for anyone to do to anyone else; love is just molecules, there are other things in life that distract you from it sometimes. But I believe that I can come close enough to treating her like that so that she won't know the difference.

Here is the question: do I tell her that I really can't do that, even though I believe that I can come closer to that ideal than anyone else, or do I tell I can, even though I don't think anyone can?

2007-10-28 23:49:37 · 10 answers · asked by Mikezilla 2

Ok, so there's this guy at work, and a few months ago we got mad at each other and stopped speaking to each other. We'd been pretty good friends until that point.

Then we started being polite to each other again, and we had a staff dinner coming up. The guy asked the whole staff to come over to his house for drinks first, and asked me to come too. Well, he drank more than he realized I think, and was drunk before he even got to the restaurant.

I had to drive him and another guy over. I didn't realize that I was driving and didn't clean out my car, and there was a pair of hose in the back. He picked them up and started holding them up at them and grinning, and didn't stop until I yelled at him to put them down.

When we got there he drank even more. After a while he put his hand on my knee under the table and grinned like he won the Super Bowl!

The next morning he didn't remember what had happened but he thanked me for taking him home with a silly grin (someone else did)

2007-10-28 23:45:12 · 16 answers · asked by Jane T 2

I see so many women talking about how they never want sex, or their partner wants it too much etc etc. WHY? Don't they KNOW how good it is? What is wrong with them, how can they go through life without sexual pleasure? I pity them so much. Also they are annoying, they need to educate themselves, I think, but can anyone tell me WHY someone would be this way, it doesn't make sense!

2007-10-28 23:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by myleslr 5

You? or Your partner?
For example at the restaurant, coffee shop, and movie

2007-10-28 23:41:10 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah 1

I moved to N/Y aba a year ago and i have been dating this boy
from my country for some time now... its like a long distance relationship thingy. I like him alot n i no he likes me too..... the thing is he doesn't call me or contact me at all. I always do the calling and sometimes send him messages and stuff like that n he doesn't even bother to REPLY! This kinna creates some doubts in my mind....
Do you think I'm over reacting?

2007-10-28 23:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-28 23:33:02 · 21 answers · asked by 5050 1

I have known my boyfriend all my life.He just went through a horrible devorice. We have been together for about 9 monthes now he wants some "space" to find out whats out there. I dont want to rush into a nother marriage either but this sounds like a head game to me!

2007-10-28 23:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by kjd;lkgj;lsdkfjg;lsdkj 1

Ok, here's my story with girls. I've dated on and off since I was about 17. Back in 2001 I met the most amazing girl on the planet, Shanna. There really isn't one word to describe her: perfect is an understatement by every measure. We clicked right off the bat and spent alot of time together. We never officially dated since she had a boyfriend but I know where her heart truly belonged. Now, I'm moved away and though I constantly think about Shanna and wish everything would have worked out I"m fairly certain she's in my past, which tears my heart to shreds thinking about it. I love that girl more than life itself and I would gladly die to protect her. So, very girl I think i might be interested in now I automatically compare to Shanna (and of course, in my mind, they dont compare). How can I stop doing this?? I've tried, I know its not healthy for dating but I can't help it. I've almost resolved myself as being single forever. Help!

2007-10-28 23:17:47 · 8 answers · asked by ethereal_slumber 2

do you think its possible to meet some over tha net, nd fall in love with them over a space of 2 months. like never meeting or anything, but yeh...

2007-10-28 23:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by Ebony F 2

i just met a guy. he sent me an email which ended in "xox". he is practically a stranger and we dont have any relationship. i know this is a common way for girls to sign emails and letters, but what about guys?

any thoughts?

2007-10-28 23:14:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

well you see the thing is i recently went overseas...and i have a cousin and shes pretty good looking. she fell in love with me and made it obvious and i liked her aswell so i decided to ask her out..dont ask me why i was stupid and was pressured by others and yeah..do you think this is wrong?? she says she felt weird about it at first but shes ok with it apparently were not the only ones...is it normal?

2007-10-28 23:01:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now.
We are moving, and his room at his mothers is a disaster area. We are getting married soon and it needed cleaned.
He's upset because I found condoms stored in his room that he used with another woman, and I tossed them in the garbage. Then I found a picture of his ex (a different one) and her kids and I tossed them in the garbage.
I also tossed some candles that came in a pack with some 'love lotion' that he got from one of his girlfriends.

He says that he should now be allowed to toss anything he wants of my previous relationship including pictures of my kids.

I don't think that is appropriate and I told him so.
I feel that I am in the right because I've asked him over six months ago to get rid of these things and have asked him several times.

Its not like I just went on a rampage. I feel I gave him suitable time to get rid of this crap and I think it should not have been there for me to find to begin with.

2007-10-28 22:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by FawneMine 3

he says" when" i get pregnant he has to help start the flow of milk... (ya know what i mean).. is this a weird fantasy of his? do men like this?

2007-10-28 22:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by SGPearlGirl 3

2007-10-28 22:23:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

pls. introduce urself...thanks!

2007-10-28 22:15:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a black guy through blackcentury.com and we chat and talk with each other online. Now he want to meet me face to face. I am not ready to do that and most of my friends told me there are lots of difficulties in the interracial relationship. Should I meet him now? thank you for your advice.

2007-10-28 22:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did some time back and some of my friends said I was harsh on him. I have nothing against that lifestyle but I like masculine men. It's just my personal taste.

2007-10-28 22:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by Vee 3

ok, im 18, and i know i know there more fish in the sea, and i know he's not the only guy on the planet, im bery aware of that... but i dont know anymore... we've only been together for 4 months... and we've broken up about 3 times. but its more then that after we had been togetehr for like a month and a half i found out i was preg by him and he took full responsiblity for it and was going to marry me, and take care of his baby any everything, when a week ago i foud out that i lost it... so he thought i was lieing about the whole thing... we've BOTH cheated on each other, both where when we hated each other (fighting) though... but its not just bad times, its just the way when im tired and he's fully awake he'll take little naps with me, and how he always reminds me of everything, and how he just seems so perfect, we seem to connect so well, i'd hate to lose that... i've never had it befor,but i just don't know if its worth it anymore... PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-10-28 22:05:40 · 15 answers · asked by sassydylan16 1

2007-10-28 21:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so i am straight, and i never really had a boyfriend before, and all my friends have had tons of boyfriends & they are so comfortable around them and stuff, and right now i am talking to this one guy and i like him and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet, and i dont really ask guys out.. but the thing is like i dont really know how to kiss or anything & i'll probley be very shy because i just act very different around the oppisite sex. but when it comes to my friends who are girls like i'll do anything and i don't care. I mean i like boys, but everybody thinks i am a lesbeian. But i dont like girls like that. & i guess i am just shy around boys, like im not just going to throw myself at them like some girls do.. but please i need advice here!!!

2007-10-28 21:46:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this girl since the 6th grade and i liked her since the first time i started talking to her. I am currently in the 11th grade and i still have not told her my feelings for her.I am afraid to tell her cause she might no talk to me anymore but then i want to tell her before she finds someone else and decides to spend her life with them. sometimes it feels like i have fallen in love with her and im not really sure what to do. I talk to her alot and we are good friends. Someone please give me advice on what to do.

2007-10-28 21:43:56 · 3 answers · asked by HavasU King 1

we know each other. but many times when we bump into each other in school, he will just switch his eyes away (look somewhere else) when he sees me coming. i realised this more than once.

i just started showing a little interest in him lately. recently, my friend made fun of me openly and embarassed me when he was around, and he knew about my feelings already.

least to my greatest fear, he didn't avoid me. instead, he seems approachable and gives a feeling like "he's alright and willing to catch my fall"..(based on some things which happen. lazy to elaborate here.)

Question is: is there likelihood that he already showed interest in me even BEFORE he knew that i like him?

2007-10-28 21:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!

2007-10-28 21:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..

I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted

do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or what do you think about this ?

2007-10-28 21:37:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-28 20:49:49 · 24 answers · asked by Voss 3

Saturday was my homecoming, and I went with my boyfriend, and my best friend/sorta bf. We were all together from 4:30 to 1:30, and I was with my bf most of the time, the only time I wasn't, was parts of the dance. After we went to a friends house and we watched a movie and just cuddled, kissed some, but not like major. Then when me and my best friend and I left I got really sad/lonely and missed him already. I sorta forgot about it, since I was busy today(well sunday) and like an hour ago got REALLY lonely and depressed. I had no clue, and finally he signed on to AIM and we talked and he knew something was wrong. I finally told him and he said he felt the same way. Why did I feel like that...I've gone longer without seeing him, and haven't missed him that much...why?

2007-10-28 20:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Laur 3

I have this friend. I met him in my first year at school and we have been friends since then. When I was broke he brought me dinner every day, and when I'd party too hard he'd always bring me home. We've been throught so much together. He's always been there for me but I never wanted to have a relationship because I wasn't attracted to him. Lately thought, things feel different. I'm starting to want him, and I think I'm starting to love him. What should I do?

2007-10-28 20:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lost my first love and due to some unfortunate circumstances we never consummated our relationship.

Now, I am seeing another guy that I don't like as much as the first one. I am afraid I am going to sleep with him out of hurt and desperation.

I am 25, so don't give me the "wait to loose your virginity till you are older".

My ex was also good in bed (don't ask how I know this!), which this guy isn't.

I just feel very vulnerable at the moment.

What should I di?

2007-10-28 20:29:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous