Singles & Dating - 28 October 2007

Ok I have been friends with this guy for 2 years. I'm 21, and hes 19. We both realize we have feelings for each other but I knew he'd be going to school 4 hours away this year and didnt want him to worry about a g/f. He came back on break and he told me he still feels the same. I guess im scared bc I have been hurt really bad in the past but what everyone keeps telling me is the best relationships start as a friendship. Do i take the chance and is the age difference too much?

2007-10-28 13:58:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had plenty experience with both being single and having a girlfriend, and I have to say that personally, I like being single WAY better, because it only has one con and at least a dosen pros.

CON: you don't get laid as much

PROS:
1) you have your space
2) no drama, no drama, no drama
3) you don't have someone calling and texting you 5678 times a day
4) you don't feel guilty when having feelings for or getting intimate with another woman.
5) more variety in sexual terms
6) you'll never get cheated on because you're not committed
7) YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT, WHENEVER YOU WANT!!!!
9) you don't have to deal with her annoying *** hating *** best friend/s

I'm sure you can think of many more, especially if you're currently in a relationship.

So what do you guys think? Do you personally think it's better for a young guy (20 - 30 yrs) to be single or in a committed relationship

2007-10-28 13:57:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love good girls, shy, quite, gentle, friendly, and polite.

But these days I often encounter with umm "not really" good girls. You know those types of girls who often talks about boys, who likes to bad mouth other girls, who always caring about their looks, carrys all their accessorys, have no self control, talk talk talk, uses bad words, wears half naked clothings (even in winter), doesn't care about education, .......... I can go on but I'm sure you get the point. Where can I find a good girl? The girl who I loved is married and she doesn't even know me. I want a fresh start.

2007-10-28 13:44:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... I like this guy and he likes me. And ever since we've met we've basically been inseparable. However he always seemed like he never wanted to make "that move" you know. So when I asked him he told me flat out that we couldn't be together because he only believes in dating to get married and we couldn't get married (hypothetically) because his religion doesn't allow him to marry outside of it or they'll basically disown him. So after he tells me this he still is really acting like he wants to be with me. Of course I'm not going to deal with the heartache of falling even more for him, so I told him that we needed to spend some time apart so I could try to get over it. So he didn't really take this well and everytime I saw him afterwards he looked heartbroken. Now he treats me so weird and it's like he trying to drive me away. He even told me that he want's to make this easier for me. What should I do? And I'm not converting because I'm grounded in the Christian faith.

2007-10-28 13:42:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright so i went on a trip during the summer and i became rly rly rly close with this girl like we spent every second together problem is she had a boyfriend back home she wanted to do everything and anything with me but stayed loyal but she was very close to doing sutff with me and we both miss eachother a lot and there is a trip reunion in about a month and a couple ppl are staying at her place but we had something for sure and i think she was very conflicted on choosing me or her BF and i dont know how to act when im there or if i should talk to her about what im thinking need some advice please help i cant figure it out (shes also a year older if that means anything) o ya and i live in toronto she lives in new york city but we talk almost everyday and shes pretty damn smart so im pretty sure she already knows how i feel but ive never rly said it how i wanted to say it any help????

2007-10-28 13:39:58 · 8 answers · asked by joe b 3

We're friends... but not real close. She knows I'm interested, and for I while I thought she might be too, cuz she was always happy to see me and acted very 'flirty'.
Ever since she found out that I like her she's been a little more stand-offish. And I'm not asking if she likes me, cuz i know for a fact that she doesnt right now.... i want to know the best way to try to get her to like me.

A little more about the both of us...
>I play football and she's an athletic trainer. We don't have any classes together, but sit together at lunch. I've known her all throughtout high school (we're now seniors), but i never got close.... We're both fairly popular, I'm pretty sure that she's a virgin and fairly religious... and I'm fine with that becuz i am too.
She's really pretty, and might think I'm only interested becuz of her looks.

2007-10-28 13:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by d h 1

First and formost id like to say im at no way bragging. I need some advice. ast time I was with my girlfriend I slept with her and took her virginity. The problem is that my penis was so big it hurt her to have sex. It wasnt because her cherry was popped as it was popped before that in gymnastics. For the next few days she was sore down there and bled. We havent had sex in months because we are in a large distance relationship. She is going to be coming for another visit soon and im worried about this. Is it going to be fine cause I stretched her out? Or would I dont know lube help? Or is there any other suggestions? Im just worried about her cause I love her and dont want her to hurt. Thanks in advance for any advice

2007-10-28 13:33:21 · 2 answers · asked by friend_from_hell6666 2

i have a bf but we dont see each other that much only on week ends and i lke him but dont know how long are relatoinship will last i mite dump him cause were kinda getting bored of each other i think but i need a better reason,HELP!!!!!

2007-10-28 13:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by julia_1o1_cool 1

2007-10-28 13:30:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

who has 2 daughters who are 4 and 6 years old? Him and the mother are divorced but hes dated 2 other since then

2007-10-28 13:27:34 · 43 answers · asked by Jessica's advice 2

love dating marriage confuse me.

2007-10-28 13:24:35 · 5 answers · asked by baby_rost 3

I am a radio personality in NYC and a single mom of a 10 month old girl. I'm pretty, funny, smart and to be honest, rich, so why can't I meet a nice guy to love me and my daughter?

2007-10-28 13:21:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ima Propose Christmas Day But I Need A Gift For Before I Do, But Its Still Gotta Be Nice!

2007-10-28 13:20:49 · 1 answers · asked by Mucsle Manicack 1

2007-10-28 13:20:18 · 5 answers · asked by morgan h 2

he is my best friend too and he told me that he likes me he has a girlfriend now but he says that he doesnt want to ruin our friendship and my relationship with my boyfriend but i kinda feel weird about it and i tell my boyfriend everything but i dont know if i should tell him this

2007-10-28 13:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 3 weeks ago this guy who I didn't really know asked me to homecoming. I said yes because He was funny, cute, and nice. I went with him, and we had a good time. He asked me to be his girlfriend about 3 days later. I said yes. We dated for around 3 weeks. I found out that he has 13 felonies against him, he's on house arrest, he drinks, smokes, and gets high. THis is going to sound crazy, but I still like him even though I broke up with him for flirting with other girls. (one girl in particular) He didn't seem upset, but I think he was putting on an act so that I wouldn't know how upset he was. I was happy when I was with him. Everyone was always telling me that I could do better. I don't know what to do. I miss him so much. I saw what other people didn't see. What should I do? How can I get over him? I know I can do better, but I just don't know how to forget him.

2007-10-28 13:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by Rowgirl15 1

Ok ladies, us guys are very insecure about a lot of things.
The main things are
1: height
2: penis size (length and girth)
So, my question is, what would you women consider the "perfcet guy" in those 3 areas ad how important are those things to you?
Also, personally, I am 5"11 ...I am 21 so I wont grow any more...guys "aim" to be over 6 feet, not that we can control any of these things, 6 inches in length and 4.25 in girth...In these areas, would you consider that normal, above or below average?
a lot of people say "put the ruler away" which will make us more sane but we are obsessed about pleasing you - our partners, guy to guy we dont care, it is about you, hence why I am asking you women and ladies out there to answer to answer this question. I am dead serious about this to, so please answer for real, in the past people give silly or moronic comments in topics such as this. So, I am looking to get inside the psyche of a woman here. Any and all answers are appreciated!!!!

2007-10-28 13:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He broke up with his girlfriend 5 weeks ago bc they were arguing over pointless things. We hooked up 2 weeks ago at a party. What bothers me is 3 weeks is very soon to get over somone you were in love with. I am sure they arnt friends and have no contact however he displays lots of photos of the two of them together on facebook. He says he hates how things ended bitterly. I asked what he liked about her and he said that he could be completely himself around her. I just fear once his anger for her is gone and if she calls to say things will change, he'll just go running to her. What do you guys think?

2007-10-28 13:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by liz 1

I go to a prep school. When i go out with my friends somewhere guys come up and ask me for my number and stuff...but at my school...none of the guys like me...What do I do??? Is it because i'm not a skinny albino chick??
I'm 13 and the guys that usually ask for my number when my friends and I go out are like 16 or above...i don't understand how they can like me, but not guys my age from school. If i do wanna go out with a guys who's 16 or 17 everyone says they're waay to old for me!

2007-10-28 13:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this girl at my job always talks to me, sits on my lap durin break sometimes. Whenever she goes out to lunch or goes upstairs to get coffee she asks me if i needed or would like anything. She doesnt talk to the other coworkers like the way she talks to me. She says that she is a serious person and takes things seriously. We text msg one another everyday, we have gone out to lunch a few times. the other day she sent me a text msg sayin that I like u alot. does this mean she likes me just as friends or possibly more than that. Im starting to liker her alot as well. What should i tell her? Should i ask her out? What do i need to do next.? thanks H

2007-10-28 13:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

give serious answers or I will report you

2007-10-28 13:07:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my boyfriend thouht i sent pics to my ex boyfriend when our lil situation started.i didnt and it seems like he dont belive me.

2007-10-28 13:05:28 · 6 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2

there have been a few men they just were turning me on and i started flirting and to ma surprise they flirted back. and so this has become a habit of mine, but the sad part is that the guy im dealing with now is a friend of the family. and the worst part is that he's married. but i can't control my self around him. i'm just worried that one day i will let this go to far.

2007-10-28 13:04:11 · 32 answers · asked by iluvhim 1

2007-10-28 12:56:35 · 39 answers · asked by Joe Kim 2

Okay so my friend Joey told me that the guy i like Thomas said he likes me a little bit.. and i didnt belive him 'cuz the day before i was like hey thomas and he was like what's up and turned around and kept walking in front of me.. he completely blew me off! so this is the story
they were walkin in the hall and thomas went up to joey and was saying how ppl keep coming up to him n tellin him that i like him..
and joey was like well do you like her and he was like um a little bit.. and then joey told me that thomas told him that he had to talk to me this weekend but he deff. hasn't
and well friday at the football game my friend kelly told me that thmas was deff. lookin at me like an interested look..
so idk i called him last night.. and we only talked for a bit 'cuz he had been up early that morning..
but like i tried talkin to him today he seemed like he didnt want to ...
idk wat 2 think?
THIS HAS BEEN GOIN ON FOR LIKE EVER..
but this is the 1st time he's ever said he liked me

2007-10-28 12:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by Callie Ann 1

He's pretty sick. He didn't come to school today, and he is usually tough, so it means he feels like ****. We are 13. Would it be weird to go visit him at his house? I don't know which of his family members would be there. If I do, what should I bring, and if I dont visit, should I call or something??

2007-10-28 12:46:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this girl at my job always talks to me, sits on my lap durin break sometimes. Whenever she goes out to lunch or goes upstairs to get coffee she asks me if i needed or would like anything. She doesnt talk to the other coworkers like the way she talks to me. She says that she is a serious person and takes things seriously. We text msg one another everyday, we have gone out to lunch a few times. the other day she sent me a text msg sayin that I like u alot. does this mean she likes me just as friends or possibly more than that. Im starting to liker her alot as well. What should i tell her? Should i ask her out? What do i need to do next.? thanks H

2007-10-28 12:43:12 · 3 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

2007-10-28 12:42:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a beaky nose which is hideous but not nice at all and is unnatrractive. I have always been told i am a very attractive girl because of my other features and even my boyfriend of 4 years tells me I am beautiful and loves me for me even with my nose (cos it could be worse).

Although I did decide recently that I want to have my nose fixed as I believe this is my only serious flaw and I will feel so much more self confident and will stop hiding behind my hair or sunglasses, to feel content.

My boyfriend and I were discussing this last night and I was saying would he think differently of me or feel strange if I fixed it, would he leave me cos I was different (for the better) and he said 'no way, I would only leave you if things between didnt work out etc', He also said if I had it done that would mean "I could have any guy I wanted"

What does he mean, is he insecure?? I'm confused.

2007-10-28 12:41:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, when me and my boyfriend have sex, he uses a condom that has a spermicide in it. When he does, it burns extremely bad when he's inside of me and I really just can't focus anymore.

Could I be allergic to latex? Could I be allergic to spermicide?

I mean, the only time it ever does burn is when we have sex. Whats going on?

2007-10-28 12:36:28 · 13 answers · asked by lilpeaches0315 3