Singles & Dating - 28 October 2007

Is it possible for a 21 year old guy to be in a long term relationship (2 years) with someone that he considers "the love of his life", "his future wife" and his "soul mate" only to later on feel confused about what he wants?

My ex and I had, what seemed to be, an amazing relationship. I was his first love and he was mine. We were very close with each other's families, and spent alot of time together. We had a strong bond from the very first day that we met, and we also had an amazing sex life. (he said it ALL the time...I'm only mentioning that because I don't think that was an issue)

But after he started to meet new girls that were showing him and immense amount of attention, he is now confused about whether he is ready for a serious relationship or not. We are now broken up.

I am deeply hurt because I thought that we really loved each other. I feel that if he was truly honest about what I meant to him, he would not have the desire to be physical with others

2007-10-28 04:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2

There's this guy (isn't there always?) who I met through a class. We never really talked (we're both very shy), but his partner for class was friends with my partner and we all sat together about a semester ago. Well now I see him every now and then and I happen to see him this past week. I was walking with a friend down a sidewalk and he was riding his bike talking to a friend on the opposite side. Our eyes met, we both smiled, and I looked away. When I turned my head his direction, he was still staring at me and naturally, I blushed and quickly turned away again. I'm not used to anyone staring at me and I know little about the opposite sex. Does this mean anything or was he just staring? Since I wasn't walking right in front of him, he had to turn his head to the side to look at me.

2007-10-28 04:14:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is girl at my skl whom i really like, she in grade 10, iam not a great looker, im one of those big muscular kids in skl, and the girl whom i realllly like has crush on my little bro he's grade 9, and hes the good looker . So am confused dont know wat to do. {and this is kinda making me hate my bro plz help!!}

2007-10-28 04:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, well this is kinda weird but i need a little help....

how can i keep from getting a b o n e r when im hanging out and doing stuff with my gf/crush?
I think its really emarrasing, even if no one notices anything, so can anyone help me out?

2007-10-28 04:08:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everything was going fine between the two of us in the beginning. After maybe about 6 months, it started going downhill. He is always questioning me about where I am, what I'm doing, who I'm with, what time I'll be home, etc. But they're all specific questions, like he wanted to know once how many guys and girls I was with and what their names were. I'm so frustrated because I really love him, but when he does these things, I really just want to leave him. We've had countless talks with each other. We work it out, but then it just goes back to the way it was. I know that some part of it is my fault, but for the most part, he is very paranoid about things. He says he trusts me, but by these questionings, it really doesn't seem like he does. I'm so confused, what should I do?

2007-10-28 04:05:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

today i am babysitting my boyfriends daughter at his home, answerd the buzzer to a caller, he askd 4 my boyfriend i explind he wasnt here, i asked who was calling and he then said i cannot diclose that information 2 you, any 1 hav any ideas who it cud b becuz im a bit confusd, ur supposd 2 have these buzzers 2 stop people geting in2 your building by asking whos there before alowing them in, any ideas ??

2007-10-28 03:53:06 · 1 answers · asked by stacey c 1

Yesterday a bunch of us went to a bar and finally this girl I like from my university also went. Struck up a conversation, got her digits and may have noticed a bit of interest on her part. However, this is not the issue. We're talking and she tells me its time for her to go. Now comes the goodbye part. Normally this wouldnt be a problem but this group is VERY diverse regarding nationality; so now i dont know the appropirate goodbye: handshake? head nod? single kiss? double kiss?

In a split-second decision i go for what is normal to me: the "sort-of-hug-single-kiss-in-the-cheek". But something goes wrong and I give the "sort-of-hug" but the kiss ends up in her shoulder (dont ask me why i was nervous & wasnt drunk)

My question is: should i call today, say hi & use the opportunity to kinda let her know that if she notied somethig wierd it was beacuse i was nervous? Or should i pretend nothing happened and see on monday, by her attitude towards me, if ended screwing it up.

2007-10-28 03:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by JJR Keit 1

guys there this girl my school and i hate her and i think i am falling in love but i like onother girl what shal i do help.......?

2007-10-28 03:49:40 · 4 answers · asked by jeffrey 32 1

Well my gf of two weeks just broke up with me. Just random really. I don't want to go in details. We have talked about it and I think that I understand although I never fully understand what happened and why it happened. Well now I miss her and I felt like it was going to last a long time and it sucks seeing her at school and all. damn I really miss her so how should i get rid of the pain she has caused and how should I move on. Or should I even just wait a few months and ask her out again before prom comes along

2007-10-28 03:26:20 · 8 answers · asked by running08 1

his style is sorta gangsta.. he's 14.. ive been with him for 4 months

2007-10-28 03:19:59 · 9 answers · asked by F r A n * 2

Ok this is my freshman year in college and this junior guy is talking to me since i entered, we see each other all the time and we started making out for the last two weeks but he doesn't say anything that he likes me, but he is very affectionate, do you think i should do something about that...like what should i say, im really starting to like him. : / Thanks a lot!

2007-10-28 03:14:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will you help me look for it?

2007-10-28 03:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Something went wrong last weekend and I just can't figure out what, he says nothing happend and that he is just precoccupied and busy as he has almost deminshed any contact with me. He has stopped sending me txt like he used to or calling. He even vanished for two days without any news. When I enquired he said he was out with friends. I am really scared about my relationship's future, am I just thinking too much or is he legitimately bored with me, please advise. :'(

2007-10-28 03:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by pabalu.. 2

physically fit,intelligent,intuitive and a great guitarist musician.

2007-10-28 03:10:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so we've met three times now. Originally met him off myspace. We talked for 5-6 weeks before meeting the first time.
Anyway, I went to him on Thursday night after we talked for like 4 hours. He only lives 8 miles from me. Now, before we met Thursday we did a lot of "sexual" talk. We are both adults and he was talking himself up like how long he could last and blah, blah.
Anyway, I went down on him Thursday night as a "warm up" and he did his thing and COULD NOT get it back up! We tried and tried but he told me he had taken Vicodin. Anyway, I could tell he felt stupid after talking himself up. I left and yeah I was a little disappointed but oh well I like the guy.
I hear nothing from him Friday and when I get online last night he didn't say a god damn word to me! NOTHING. That's not like him at all. He always talks to me. I didn't say anything to him either but wanted him to.
So this morning I get on and his little IM icon was "offline" and it now says xxxxxmiller@hotmail.com

2007-10-28 03:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He was turned on and I really like him.
On the way home he said he liked the look of me and not to be offended.
Did he dislike my personality?
Also he was going to take my bra off and i wasn't protesting or undressing him but he changed his mind?

2007-10-28 02:58:30 · 3 answers · asked by Genie W 1

10 points will be awarded to a thorough non-plagiriser!

2007-10-28 02:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by wifgh567 2

There is this middle-aged man who goes to my church. He is extremely smart, is in good shape (physically) and he's very personable as well.
He has a deep, sultry voice, he dresses nicely and has great eyes.
He also has a comb-over.
With all of these attributes and qualities, I am just wondering how many of us would look past that and consider him to be "dating" material.
(And if middle age is too old for you, just pretend he's w/in three years of you for answering purposes). lol.
Ladies, would you date him?

2007-10-28 02:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by YSIC 7

Do men like big boobs, small boobs, or fake boobs.. please tell the truth.. thanks much !

2007-10-28 02:41:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year, all year I was in love with this absolutely amazing boy. Just to give you a quick sketch of him, he was extremely gorgeous, superbly kind, an amazing athlete, and really, really smart. We went to a tiny school (only twenty-five of us) and I wasn't the most out-going person in the world...anyway, it became clear that he "liked me" or whatever, and so we started going out. I loved it--i felt infallible. We went out for a little more than a year. I think we had ultimate trust in each other, I think I was really in love, or at least with the feeling that he gave me, of being perfect, beautiful etc. But then, in the beginning of last summer, it had to be sort of broken off, as I was going away all summer, and he was going to be at boarding school when I got back. Anyway, It wasn't all that hard this summer, because I was away from all my friends and his friends, but now that schools started again, I'm a wreck. I'm heartbroken and think Im still in love. What do I do??

2007-10-28 02:41:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-28 02:28:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you manage to keep your pride intact?

2007-10-28 02:15:16 · 5 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

2007-10-28 02:06:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend so much. We've been going out for a while and I like how things are going. He's had a lot of girlfriends, broken up with them. But he and I are meant to be. But my friends hate him and they're disliking me cause i'm going out with him. People are making up rumors and they say I shouldn't go out with him because he'll end up breaking my heart which he's done to all the other girls. But this love is true and I don't know how to make them see that. He makes me so happy and it's like i'm having to choose between my happiness, and the happiness of my friends.

2007-10-28 02:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by tobelovedx32 1

This is so much longer than I expected it to be, so bear with me. Some background info on me first... I'm in the US military, and currently stationed in Germany, but I'll be separating soon, and heading back home to the states to go back to school. I was married a few years ago for two years, and it ended in a divorce that I didn’t want. Since then I’ve been afraid to give myself to someone. Until recently, I had been single for about two years. I'd been out on plenty of dates, and hadn't met anyone who I felt a connection with. I recently came back to Europe after a four month deployment to the Middle East, and I decided a few months before I left that I was not going to date anyone before I headed back to the states, because I didn't want to leave Europe with any regrets.

Life sometimes doesn't agree with the choices we make for ourselves. I met someone while I was deployed, and initially had no interest in giving him a chance. It took some work on his part, but I opened up, and now I have found someone who I have an amazing connection with. He is in the Royal Air Force, lives in England, and I’ve known him for about 4 ½ months. We decided 2 ½ months ago that we wanted to be exclusive. At this point we have a long distance relationship (we are both back in Europe now), something I promised myself I would not do. For now, it’s rather easy for us to see each other, since flying in Europe is cheap and easy. But in a few months, when I move, I just don’t know what is going to happen.

Let me just say, I KNOW that we have not been together long, so don’t need anyone to tell me that. But that is the problem. By the time I leave, if everything keeps going the way it is going now, we will have been together about six months. And then what? It is not long enough to make any major decisions, but I don’t know if I can bear such a distance between me and someone I am dating. Even if he wanted to come to the US to see what happens, he could only stay a few months without a visa. Our options are so limited. We can maintain the distance, but never really get a chance to be together and know if we have a future, or we jump in head first to something I am not ready for. Really the only way for us to be physically together, because we are citizens of different countries, is to get married, which is ridiculous, and not an option I would consider so soon. It’s so hard because I feel things for him I never expected to feel again so soon, and I’m trying to keep my head straight and not make any rash decisions. Ugh…

Any thoughts? Again, sorry so long, if you made it through the whole thing, thanks!

2007-10-28 01:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by Flygirl 2

again....curiousity.

2007-10-28 01:49:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was on the verge of becoming a widow and she liked him early on, of course, everything being professional.

2007-10-28 01:45:24 · 6 answers · asked by franj 2

last year i started a relationship wid a guy roughly a year younger dan me,i'm just 17 myself lol,.he is lebanese n his english isnt perfect,so in a way we had problems cause he wasnt open enough to ask me to explain some things he didnt get,other dan dat i really love him...so we brok up beginning of dis year,got back 2gether again n broke up again,because we were arguing non stop....we are good friends now,we have lots of fun together,n i kno we both still have feelings for each other,but i'm leaving the country in january,n because of dat i dont want us to get back together,i think it would be really unfair to him,although he doesnt even kno bout this,n i'm feeling miserable myself cause am not sure if i should let him kno,n give it another go,or just let him live his life n forget,...i'm not going far,my parents will still be here so i'll be visiting every 4 months or so...so am i doing the right thing keeping it in a close?

2007-10-28 01:19:10 · 7 answers · asked by Hmmmmm 2

we becouse vary close he say he love me missing me at lot and thinking about me all the time and he want me to caome there soon to meet his family but he call me sis why he want me to meet his family

2007-10-28 01:11:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i went off on him because i heared alot of crap he been talking about me. my friend told me he was talking bad about me behind my back. so i went off and idk. cuz i still have feeling for him but not soooo much but i just want us to be friends. but im not really sure if he did :(

2007-10-28 00:50:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous