last year i started a relationship wid a guy roughly a year younger dan me,i'm just 17 myself lol,.he is lebanese n his english isnt perfect,so in a way we had problems cause he wasnt open enough to ask me to explain some things he didnt get,other dan dat i really love him...so we brok up beginning of dis year,got back 2gether again n broke up again,because we were arguing non stop....we are good friends now,we have lots of fun together,n i kno we both still have feelings for each other,but i'm leaving the country in january,n because of dat i dont want us to get back together,i think it would be really unfair to him,although he doesnt even kno bout this,n i'm feeling miserable myself cause am not sure if i should let him kno,n give it another go,or just let him live his life n forget,...i'm not going far,my parents will still be here so i'll be visiting every 4 months or so...so am i doing the right thing keeping it in a close?
2007-10-28 01:19:10 · 7 answers · asked by Hmmmmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the one who can decide what's best for your life. Not us.
Just relax, go to a calm place and think well. You will defenitely come up with a good answer for your question. No one here can know your life better than you.
2007-10-28 01:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Manoj S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing in ending it. Long distance does not work on average. You have a great freindship there is no need to ruin that. Lady your making it too dificult & hard because your a lady. Walk on, walk tall, stay freinds, your still young & in true love always leave that fire burning. In time your both meet someone else & your forget all this pain. You seem v.level headed your destined for success.
2007-10-28 01:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by A . Z . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just stay as friends as you can and stay calm. Keep it that way. i guess. A friends give us the courage to lift the blinds on our hearts, to open up and show what are generally keep hidden from the rest of the world.
All the best for both of you!
2007-10-28 01:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why secrets with friends. Not like u are going steady. He is not engaged to you or married, you are just friends. He has not commited to you. So why worry. You are 17 and he is 16 and you are both very young, you will all find your sould mates later in life this is just infatuation.
2007-10-28 01:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why start something you can not finish. Just stay friends that way when you leave and come back the relationship is still ok.
2007-10-28 01:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, tell him you will be leaving the country soon and let hm decide what he wants to do. I wouldn't get back with him if you keep fighting, staying friends sounds the best option to me.
2007-10-28 01:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you are.
2007-10-28 02:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋