Okay so we've met three times now. Originally met him off myspace. We talked for 5-6 weeks before meeting the first time.
Anyway, I went to him on Thursday night after we talked for like 4 hours. He only lives 8 miles from me. Now, before we met Thursday we did a lot of "sexual" talk. We are both adults and he was talking himself up like how long he could last and blah, blah.
Anyway, I went down on him Thursday night as a "warm up" and he did his thing and COULD NOT get it back up! We tried and tried but he told me he had taken Vicodin. Anyway, I could tell he felt stupid after talking himself up. I left and yeah I was a little disappointed but oh well I like the guy.
I hear nothing from him Friday and when I get online last night he didn't say a god damn word to me! NOTHING. That's not like him at all. He always talks to me. I didn't say anything to him either but wanted him to.
So this morning I get on and his little IM icon was "offline" and it now says xxxxxmiller@hotmail.com
2007-10-28 03:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it usually just say his name "Benjamin".....
I think the sob deleted me or something and it's not the first time. Last weekend he deleted me to and added me back on Monday.
Dude, this guy is Bi Polar I think.
Did he feel like I'd reject him last night and is that why he didn't say "hi" to me?
We seemed close and like friends and it sure wasn't me who had a problem Thursday it was him.
2007-10-28 03:07:55 · update #1
Yes I realize it's not a good idea to meet guys online but I've already met him and I thought we were digging each other.
2007-10-28 03:12:03 · update #2
The problem isn't that you met him online, the problem is the rapidity with which you guys advanced your cause....that and the fact that his embarrassment about his lack of performance makes him just want to forget the whole thing ever happened (or didn't happen, you know what I mean). See, by being from cyber-space you're easily ignorable. The internet is as good a place to start as any, but you've still got to have a good idea of who you're dealing with before you become sexual with them. Sorry this happened.
2007-10-28 03:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably fells bad about what happened on thursday or he just wanted a one night stand. call him and talk up more sex with him and see what happens. i would feel real bad if my first time with a new person was really bad even though i knew that I can and have done better. when you cant perform with someone new its a lot different than if you guys were already in a long term relationship and you know that he can have really good days. let him know that you want to try again if you like him. if he doesnt respond to you calls then move on. good luck and be safe!
2007-10-28 03:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male pride, he's embarrassed. Leave him alone. Don't blow people when you first meet them. And keep the sexual talk to a minimum when you're first talking to a guy. Is that all you want him to look at you as: a piece of meat?
And if you do try staying with him, he'll just treat you like crap since he feels embarrassed about his "lack of manliness" the other day. He's a lost cause. Drop him.
2007-10-28 03:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Loving Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry and I would be pissed off too. In fact, similar things have happened to me. I'm afraid that all he wanted was to get his rocks off and that's it. Men have no problem whatsoever pursuing a woman for 5-6 weeks, talking for hours, telling you everything you want to hear, just in the hopes that he gets a 5 minute BJ. That's why I just choose not to date at all. They're all the same!!!!
2007-10-28 03:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-23 02:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels embarrased and what you did of meeting up with him is really dangerous. Be careful ya know? Just move along, that guy has definetly showed you he wants to move along and wants you out of his life. And did you seriosly try to do it with him without even knowing himn for a year and without being officially a couple? That's really nasty ya know? You don't even know where hes been!
2007-10-28 03:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be piss be happy.He had a problem not you.
Now that he have deleted you forget him he only wanted you for one thing and obviously he failed so be happy.
There are guys out there that will give you the respect you want.
But do me a favor stop looking for them at My space.
2007-10-28 03:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by scorpio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is embarrased after telling you what he could do and what not, and might think that your not interested in him because of what happened, id try and talk to him though to get a straight answer.
2007-10-28 03:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sense 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is why its usually not a good idea to date guys you meet online
2007-10-28 03:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he used you. he got what he wanted and dumped you
some guys are like that. be careful
2007-10-28 03:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋