I love my boyfriend so much. We've been going out for a while and I like how things are going. He's had a lot of girlfriends, broken up with them. But he and I are meant to be. But my friends hate him and they're disliking me cause i'm going out with him. People are making up rumors and they say I shouldn't go out with him because he'll end up breaking my heart which he's done to all the other girls. But this love is true and I don't know how to make them see that. He makes me so happy and it's like i'm having to choose between my happiness, and the happiness of my friends.
2007-10-28 02:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by tobelovedx32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have said it ALL . . .
Only you can choose, if that's what your 'friends' are indicating you must do. . .
Best wishes in your luv adventures, and learnings . . .
2007-10-28 02:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an age-old problem..... dear, you are not the first to have this problem. let me tell ya!!! Ditch the man, if it is causing that much trouble. But , I went through the same thing, when I got married, 11 years ago. HIS friends were keeping him from me, and I was pregnant!! I left him, went to my granny's to have my baby,and she was 85 years old! It was in Wash,. I lived in utah, and went on my due date. When I came back, I gave him an ultimatum: his friends, or me and OUR baby. He chose us, and I had it out with his so-called friends. To this day, they won't associate with him. Because of me, but he is a great father, and a good hubby. When I ask him, he will tell me, I miss them, yeah, but if they were truly my friends, and not using me for gaming stuff, ( they were REALLY into D & D, and werewolf/ vampire role-playing games) they woulda included you and made friends with you, not kept me to themselves. Which is more important?? Your buds, or him?? Which will be there for you when it is all over??Ask yourself this. You will know the answer then.
2007-10-28 02:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will break up with you, but that's no reason to try and make your friends happy!
It's not love dear! It's lust. Big difference.
Your so called friends aren't really friends if they turn on you. Their suppose to be there for you when he does dump you saying "we told you so".
2007-10-28 02:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just worried you'll get hurt and dumped like the other girls, and it is possible she's right. You said he "had lots of girlfriends that he broke up with". You could be one of them. In the mean time, enjoy what you have right now, and who knows, you may be the "one" for him.
2007-10-28 02:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) if your happy with your boyfriend, just tell your friends that you are thankful they are looking out for you, and you appreciate the fact that they care :) assure them that IF he breaks your heart, you are strong enough to recover. be sure to keep your friends tho, you'll need a social-support for all sorts of things (problems with family, school, work, etc)....good luck :)
2007-10-28 02:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by rainbowboi777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose touch with you gal pals! Make sure you still hang with them regularly.
If they keep saying stuff to you about your guy, say something like, "I know you're not big supporters of my relationship with _____, but I'm happy now and I want to try to make this work"
2007-10-28 02:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Football Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to your friends about it. Tell them that you are truly in love with this boy and you both have something special. If they're good friends then they'll accept it.
2007-10-31 20:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by some chick. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just face the facts that your friends are jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend. I have the same problem; just ignore them.
2007-10-28 02:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋