Singles & Dating - 1 November 2007

2007-11-01 23:55:31 · 23 answers · asked by SR 1

she wants me to go to salon with her and get facial , pedicure and manicure

should i do it

and any idea why does she want it , do other girls do the same

2007-11-01 23:19:43 · 12 answers · asked by ajay 1

Am not able to tell until it’s really certain. But I mean the grey parts...
and what is the parameters for the guys level, I mean uglier guys then me are with girls that are way over my level.
This last girl I liked and tried to get close too I found out she was really... wanted by many guys and considered really high level. Naturally I failed. All I saw is a person I like.
So now their is another girl and before I even try any thing how the hell do I know what level she is compared to me?
i just see a person but i guess other people dont see the world that way.

2007-11-01 23:07:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right off I’m going to let you all know I am loosing sleep over this (why I’m up at 3:30) so please take this seriously...

I have been dating this girl for only a week, she’s nice cute and funny she is the first girl I’ve actually been in love with, I’ve had other relationships but they were never as serious... But on Halloween I was invited to go to an all girl (except me) party, now i could never cheat its just not me but me and this girl did a considerable amount of flirting I feel bad because I haven’t even told her I’m taken but I’m very attracted to her, she is EXACTLY my type and i cant stop thinking about her....

I’m not sure what I should do I feel actual LOVE for them both but I just cant say. I just want some advice from a third party here.....

2007-11-01 22:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ve been hanging out with this girl and talking hours on the phone. when im with her Im always upclose with her I grab her she does not move away.I grabbed her hand one day to look at a picture she never let go. I tell her I miss her and text her good night. Then one day we had dinner had some wine went back to my place and almost had sex telling me she like me so much.. The next day in the morning she told me I didnt know you like me.Do you feel rejected? I was not trying to lead you on.Im not ready and telling me she still talks to he ex and saying hopfully in the future they will find each other. She also told me she only likes me as a friend she did not have feelings for me like that. I have gave her the cold shoulder lately she told me she wants to start having lunch with me cause shes working dt. whats up with this girl. We talked previous online she was telling me shes sorry so sorry. I dont understand why she wants to keep this friendship so bad. We only been friends for 4 month

2007-11-01 22:26:16 · 2 answers · asked by buddy 1

So there is this cute guy from drama, i think he really likes me but there is a problem, there is this other guy from PE and he is such a cutie too ! And guess what, he likes me too ! But they dont like each other and they want me to hang out with only one of them, they are really great guys, how can i choose one of them that's really stupid ! cant i just be friend with the one i like less ?That the guy from PE bytway ?!!!!how can i make him understand that i dont feel that kind of stuff for him, and how can i tell him i like the guy from drama ?


sorry cant tell the names, so ?????!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 22:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys who like like you ? Umm sorry :D y'know not on the outside but inside, cos in school, all i can see is pretty girls have boyfriends, hot girls have boyfriends, but not a little overweight girls, and girls with glasses . İ mean cant a guy just date a girl for her character? i know that they dont want to date an ugly girl but cant they just give a chance ?
And the same goes for girls too .

Please dont write anything bad i just wanna know .

2007-11-01 22:11:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys what do you think of women who agrees to have sex on first dates or meetings?

2007-11-01 22:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by charlotte 1

at other beautiful women and seem to fall in love with them too. He tells me he is falling in love with me, but I'm afraid it's lust, not love. Can I trust that he loves me like he say he do ?

2007-11-01 21:57:28 · 19 answers · asked by . 1

Some people tell me to make it as normal as possible, as if i never told her. Confidence or something.

2007-11-01 21:23:25 · 14 answers · asked by Dabidu 4

2007-11-01 21:21:28 · 12 answers · asked by LEAH 1

He told me the reason why he was cheating on me was because I wouldn't perform oral sex on him. I just wasn't comfortable enough to do that.

2007-11-01 21:14:18 · 17 answers · asked by Sassidancer 2

me and my boyfriend had been together for a year, but I feel that he tends to carry on with his friends a lot more than me. I mean, when ol' boy went to jail, the only person that would write to him was me, not his friends. and I guess he had been out for a week already, and the first people he called was his friends. I don't get it. It seems as if his friends are more important than me.I know that it's okay to have friends because they'll "always" be around, but why is it so different with me? I never hurted him in any type of way, nor do I cling onto him as if I were desparate. can you help me???

2007-11-01 21:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by miss girly girl girl 2

what exactly is he thinking? we went out for 3years and he broke up with me a year ago, we cut off all communications. Out of nowhere he comments a picture of a car on myspace. I deleted it, put up another one and he comments it again! All of a sudden, he puts a picture of his gf (which he got with 2months after we broke up) in that same car. I dont believe it's by coincidence he decided to do it. I haven't done anything to him, why is he suddenly trying to get me jealous? if that's the case. thanks in advance

I'm trying to get over him slowly and it just makes it more difficult. But i still love him.

2007-11-01 21:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by LT 1

he knows im still a virgen we love each other very much but he started talking about it he has expierence and oviously i dont he has two kids i feel like sometimes he wants to go at me but i dunno if i should do you think if i back off he will go to his ex?

2007-11-01 20:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by my 3

good thing
or
bad thing
we;ve been friends for awhile

2007-11-01 20:34:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 20:25:23 · 40 answers · asked by lefty 4

when i see pictures or think about her being there for me i miss her and want her back, but in reality i dont give an f about her. i saw her with another guy and i felt nothing. i broke up with her about a month ago. i dont care she is sleepin with other guys, i dont even want her around because i know things are not the same. the sex wasnt even good i use to watch porn after she left my room. i couldnt climax without thinking about a hotter girl, sometimes my ex before her. but its still bothering me.

2007-11-01 19:58:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever since i met my guy friend, we have been told that we were very 'chummy' around each other. i had noticed that over the year, he did treat me different than everyone else, and we became really good friends. he would constantly flirt and compliment me, and it felt great to finally meet a guy i really liked and had fun with. but when he graduated, he moved far away, and we became more and more distant. i finally asked him if he ever had feelings for me, but he said no he hadnt because he had never thought about it. that confused me, but i ignored it and just accepted that he didnt, even though i knew something was weird. one night, after not talking to him for a long time, i finally asked him why he was so distanced from all of our friends, and he told me he's gay, and that was the reason he didnt go out with me. he said he had to tell me 'that dumb reason' because he didnt want to tell me the real reason(understandable) could he have had feelings for me?

2007-11-01 19:47:23 · 2 answers · asked by billys_talented77 2

when he loved me, i didnt like him more than a friend.
once i started to, he had already started seeing another girl. even so, we went out but he decided he wanted to be with her. i was devastated.
now hes saying he's made a mistake, that he loves me but only likes her..but he wants me to wait for them to break up. he says: "i dont wanna be with you and have feelings for another girl but i dont care if im with her and i have feelings for you, i like u more." during all this, he says that its ok if we kiss and stuff (even tho he has a girlfriend) and its ok because we have something special.
whats he doing? hes one of my best friends and i really wanne believe he loves me but i cant be sure..
should i wait for him?
should i try and get over him? does he even love me??
please help me!

2007-11-01 19:46:39 · 12 answers · asked by Vertigo 3

I don't think ill ever understand what women are thinking, or why they do the things they do.

2007-11-01 19:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what will u think of when someone mentions 2 pingpong balls and a hotdog loves 2 slices salmon?

2007-11-01 19:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Tan Boon Hwee K 1

I find myself liking boys more if I spend more time with them. I might not think their cute in the beginning, but overtime they become cute. It might take awhile (like a year), but if we stay friends, I become more attractive to them. Is this normal? Have you had the same experience? I wonder if anyone that you hang out with can someday be your crush. Even though you might not think of them as a possibility right now.

2007-11-01 19:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by sgrag3003 2

sometimes i feel like i'm having anxiety attacks when i can't see or talk to my bf. i dont even know why it happens and i tried to talk to counselors on campus but one was "in training" and pretty much made me feel worse, and the other one had a waiting list of over a month.

why do i feel so anxious/nervous when i'm not talking to or spending time with my bf? am i really just that dependent on him? any tips to not be so dependent on my bf to be happy?

fyi we're 21 and 22, at different colleges 3 hours away...but next semester we'll be in the same town.

2007-11-01 19:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by niugirl1114 3

I went out on a 2nd date with this guy and during the date, we planned to see each other 2 weeks from now b/c I have to go on a trip this weekend. Tonight he asked me what day i'm coming back from the trip. I asked why, and he said "Was hoping to see you sooner?" So i replied "thought we couldn't, i'm coming back on monday." I now realize he probably meant he wanted to see me this tuesday, Election Day. I feel like my reply sounds dumb. It was obvious that we couldn't hang out during my trip, but i didn't realize he meant tuesday. Will he think I'm dumb? Also, I'm trying to play hard to get b/c i don't want him to think i'm easy and always available.

2007-11-01 19:10:46 · 15 answers · asked by Mei Wah W 1

A couple of weeks ago an older women ( she's 35, I'm 22) gave me her number after working on a project toughter. She came over twice, but nothing happened between us, even after she told me she likes guys to take charge. I went as far as too ask for a kiss, but she said "no", and gave some lame excuse for why she couldn't kiss me. So, a 35 year old women, wants a 22 year old as a friend? Anyways, I was confused after she left and haven't felt like calling for another rejection. But today out of the blue she called me " too see how I was doing" Which I thought was weird, because why would you want to hang out or even talk too someone you rejected? Do you think she was just plating hard to get. It's not like I really want her, because I am just getting ouy of a relationship of 2 years and don't have the energy for another women. What do you think I should do regarding this older women? I it was you, what would you do?

2007-11-01 19:09:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She used to not be jealous, well atleast she didn't show it, but know she's so jealous. Everytime I hang-out with my friends she gets jealouse and starts saying, "are you guys going to break necks, holla a chicks??" "go on and get 7 digits." I get so mad because she knows I'm not like that.

(on the side note)
I don't tell her anything like that when she talks or hangs out with her friends.)

Her Aunt and her female cousins after the first week we got together told her how I used to be when I was single. First they said that I was a nice guy and that they like me alot. I don't know what happen but they got mad at me like half a month later and they began to say that I used to be with girls and more girls and so on, which is not true. My girl knows how I am, but all of a sudded starting like two months ago she has become very jealous of me talking with friends or just people that talk to me out of nowhere.

all I know, is that I can't really take it that much anymore

2007-11-01 19:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by mr2Ricky 2

My boyfriend lies about little things.. like what time he goes to bed, what time he wakes up...what he did last night/yesterday..what he ate that morning..like the smallest little things that don't really matter...(i know he's lying because i've caught him many times but we just shrug it off cuz it's about stupid things anyways) but now i feel like everything he says can't be trusted and that everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie... even when he says "I love you"...it makes me really sad and why does he even lie about small things!! what should i do?

2007-11-01 19:02:18 · 2 answers · asked by JS 3

If so, I would suggest being smart and pretty is quite a combination, I have a decent IQ of 130 and it's really hard to find women who are intelligent, I know some women are smart but think that looks are a bigger priority and being smart as being undesirable especially some women with a larger cup size I've noticed feel like they have to play the part of cute and clueless, I've even had women say they act like they don't know anything about subject "x" because they want the guy to feel smart telling them about it

2007-11-01 19:02:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some stuf happened at work and disciplinary actions will be taken against my boyfriend.. He's all upset about it and I understand how he felt... I probably would feel that way too if the same thing were to happen to me..

Thing is it's more than a week and he hardly spoke and don't want to meet up with me.. He only text message me to say good morning and called me to say good night..

I'm not angry that he's upset... I'm angry that he choose to drag this feeling instead of moving on... I'm angry that he didn't want me to get involved in times like this..

And this is not the first time he's doing this to me..

I tried countless times and ways to cheer him up... It makes me sad everytime, there seem to be little or no change in him..

I have spoke to him about my concerns.. He only apologised and sank back into his silence..

I don't want to leave him.. I love him and want to stand by him especially in his bad times.. But if he keep this up, I, myself would fall apart.. Help

2007-11-01 18:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by (C)T Heartz 3