I've been with my bf for two years and until 3 months ago have been very much in love. We were planning a trip together, were saving for a house and had spoken about marriage. But, a few months ago I fell for someone at work. I had always had a bit of a crush on him, but never had any intention of pursuing it. At my work dinner we had a party pash, and I told my bf, who forgave me. But after this, I starting feeling really strongly for the guy from work, and eventually slept together. I broke up with my bf, saying I was confused and needed a break.
Since then, it looks like the guy from work was just using me. My bf and I am back together, but I am really heartbroken about what happened with the guy from work. I feel like I shouldn't be with my bf if I have such strong feelings for someone else, even if they are unrequited. I dont want to throw away something really special for a silly crush. But if I really loved him, how could I have had such strong feelings for someone else?
2007-11-02
21:40:11
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