there is a girl i like but not sure if she likes me back. We have been good friends for the past few months and she says she likes talking to me because "Im not like most guys" but the thing is she sends alot of mixed signals.
I am very good at being the "friend" to girls but i seldom go past that.
I really like this girl and don't know what to do. If i tell her she might reject me and our friendship will be weird along with the chemistry with our group of friends. But getting rejected by her may be the only way for me to move on. On the other hand I could tell her... and wonderful things might possibly hopfully happen.
What should i do? wait? tell? bury it within me? help
2007-11-02 20:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HER. Hiding your feelings inside doesn't work. It just makes you want to die when she--or in my case he--is with another guy--or in my case girl--and you have to WONDER if that could have been you if you only had the guts to just tell her how you feel. Do it man, and GOOD LUCK.
2007-11-02 20:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by amyjune289 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better strategy rather than just telling her you like her would be to show her through your actions and in turn she may find she likes you in that way too.
Pick some activities that may spark interest, such as going out just the two of you. Sometimes more active choices like mini-golfing or paddle boats can help create some sparks. Make sure you couple it with a more quite place to eat or grab a drink afterwards where you can snuggle up in a booth.
She'll be more likely to reciprocate your feelings that way than if you just throw your feelings out onto her.
2007-11-03 03:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Alot of girls are too shy to give straight flat out messages saying they love you, and girls dont ask guys out alot...I myself, would be very annoying to like, because, i like this guy, and i want him to like me and to ask me out, so sometimes i flirt a little and stuff, and then other times iact like a really good friend, and keep it there, because i am scared that if i show him how much i really care, he will stop being friends with me...
I think if you tell her, and she feels the same about you, you could have a really good relationship. and if she doesnt feel the same, then you can move on, and obviously it wasnt meant to be. But if you dont tell her, think of all the things that could happen, and not happen, it would be worse.
So take a deep breath and be brave! :) I hope i helped ^_^
Tazzy<3
2007-11-03 03:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Timtam735 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bury it within. if she has fed you the "youre not like most guys" line, she does not want you as anything more than a friend. chances are that she knows you like her too thats why she keeps giving you mixed signals (she likes you as a friend but when she realizes she is playing you too hot, she goes cold). If you don't want things to change or get awkward, don't say anything. just let her be one of those people in life that you wanted but never got. we all have those people buried inside of us.
2007-11-03 03:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by **California** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try flirting some with her and reading her feed back, if you think that there is some sorta chance, tell her when the time is right. Hopefully you are not in the dreaded friend zone forever. Best of luck to you.
2007-11-03 03:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. Tell her she's attractive and you care about her and want to get to know her more.
2007-11-03 03:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this hey lets give this relationship a shot and if this doesnt work we can be friends again
2007-11-03 03:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by metalheadmortal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should put it out in the open and go on from there. she may like you and may be scared to say so because she may feel like you may reject her
2007-11-03 03:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Deliela W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out already!
2007-11-03 03:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Eisley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have to go and tell her about your feelings, and i really hope that she likes you back !
good luck dude =D
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2007-11-03 03:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Someone... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋