Singles & Dating - 2 November 2007

.... and she flirts back. And neither of them know you like him, as you're too scared to say anything because you're insecure and worried he'll feel disgusted

2007-11-02 04:20:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

its very early in the relationship but im unsure as to where we stand. i met him at a party and since then we've been hooking up on the weekends (3 times thus far - no sex). hes very sweet and respectful but due to the fact that hes gorgeous and older and has a lot of school work -> its VERY possible this is JUST a hookup. i love hanging out with him just as friends (i don't just go to hook up wit him, we hang out a lot as friends before we make out) and i worry that if i make this awkward and start scaring him with thoughts of a serious relationship he'll probly say 'im not looking for that rite now' and then we'll probly not hang out as friends anymore - just cuz it'll be awkward. how can i find out where we stand and wat he wants without putting him on the spot and making him think im ready for some serious relationship. i know they say the girl should never ask the guy about this cuz it scares him away.. what should i do to figure out where we stand and what he wants out of this?

2007-11-02 04:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 03:56:49 · 22 answers · asked by Rita 6

Dont we all Behave the way we
Dress , the way we look ?

If we make our personality like a
Goat / cow / buffalo - Meak ....we will behfave meak.....

If we make our personality like LION ...
we will behave ...like Lion -Strong , Royal , powerful

Now My question is
Do you want your man to be

Weak like Cows and goats or
Strong like LION ...

As God has Created Man like

Do u want God Made Man or
Do u want Barbar Made Man ??

Do u want Ur father to be Strong ? or weak ?
Do u want Ur brother to be Strong or weak ?
Do u want Ur Husband to be Strong or Weak ?

Iam perfectly fine .........
this is a serious Question

As Globally we face threat
from every corner of the world

and we all have to be strong and Not weak

UR comments?

2007-11-02 03:54:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or would u feel insecure he might leave u enventually for someone younger?

2007-11-02 03:53:43 · 6 answers · asked by amygrl 2

i love my babys dad but he has another life now but everytime we see each other we cant keep our hands off we have a baby so we have to see one another i really love having sex with him but i want to stop because its keepin the feelings between us

2007-11-02 03:43:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

real men

2007-11-02 03:40:54 · 4 answers · asked by 5050 1

16
female
likes all kinds of music (exept classical, country and rap)
green eyes
dark brown hair
loves people and makings friends
gets bored easily (hence why i'm here)
loves going out but ends up staying in

do i seem annoying?

2007-11-02 03:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by bumblebees666 1

I do karate and I am an instructor's assistant. So, like a year ago a guy came in and started learning with us but only recently I started teaching him like 6 mos. ago one on one even though Iv'e known him this whole time. Anyway, this guy is really nice, but kindof delayed a little, lifewise, NOT mentally. Like he still has a really low-paying job, not married, lives with parents, etc. Anyway, but he's been really friendly to me over the past few months. Like he holds doors open for me and offers me rides (I don't), and he always wants to be my partner at karate, and he will come over and hit me playfully, and like flex his arms and tells me to feel them. I don't mind at all, I just think he's kindof old to be playing like that with a 15 year old. Anyway, do you think this guy has a crush on me? Please tell me anything you think I should know. Oh and its not like everyone's mean to him so he warms up to me, everyone is nice to everyone there. And he's never talked about a GF. Thanks!

2007-11-02 03:39:26 · 27 answers · asked by somebody 2

when she says "whenever you see me you say that you want me back and I tell u it dont mean jack no it dont mean jack" ........................it dont mean jack???? what does it mean???

2007-11-02 03:24:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been single for nearly a year now and I'm fed up with it an really desperate how can i get a boyfriend really quick ??

2007-11-02 03:21:32 · 8 answers · asked by phoebe n 1

IM FREAKY

2007-11-02 03:19:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

together 7 years.

2007-11-02 03:09:07 · 11 answers · asked by baby_rost 3

I know there are too many questions like '' Does like me?''...or '' will he call me?''...theres a lot! But I guess it just proves how '' the game'' ( How I hate that game) Is complicated and doesn't make ANY sense to ANYBODY. To get to my question....There is a man that I felt very confident about giving my number to...so I did....Wednesday......(Today=Friday)....and ever since I gave him my number my gut feeling tells me he won't call....Darn gut feeling....Is my gut feeling right? How long is too long to expect a phone call? What do you do when you face rejection?

2007-11-02 03:06:35 · 6 answers · asked by SolarSoul 4

2007-11-02 03:03:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Call me old fashioned, but I think that when a guy puts the moves on the girl, he should do so slowly and respectfully.

I've hung out with a guy 3 times so far. I'm coming off of a bad relationship and I explained to him, I wasn't ready for anything...I'm still very hurt and trying to mend myself...

We watched a movie the last time we hung out. He kissed me. Which was fine. But he kissed me and then asked if I had a condom. I kind of shot him a look..like..."There's no chance we're going to have sex." And he proceeded to try to take off my shirt. I stopped that. And he tried for my pants. Not once, but twice.

I'm not going to lie, I felt a bit offended. I'm 23 so maybe it's not that big of a deal. But it is to me. I was kind of into him until this happened. I guess I just expect a guy to be respectful, gentle, and slow with me. I didn't feel that at all with him. And now, I don't really want to see him again. Am I making too big of a deal of this?

2007-11-02 03:03:36 · 18 answers · asked by autumn 1

Ok the details are like this. This is a girl I had a crush on in the 6th grade but of course never revealed it although she was always pretty friendly with me. I didint see her for another two years until the 8th grade but only briefly. Now Im nearing the end of the 10th grade, and the formal came up. One of my friends asked her through a text message to come to the formal, 4 days no reply so I asked her instead and she said yes! (over the phone)

Obviously I was so happy afterwards, but i now realise its been 2 years since Ive seen her. Ive got her myspace and everything and shes got mine, but I wanna meet her. Im thinking of asking her to the mall then to watch a movie or something, discuss things over lunch or something. Im also gonna ask her friend little things she likes so I can buy a present maybe?

Please gimme some advice, I know to act myself and everything, but please give me more indepth things. I think she had a BF already, but this is my first date lol. Help in anyway ty

2007-11-02 02:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The length of time since the relationship has ended is not, in my mind, long enough to move on and start dating again. But apparantly he has no problem doing just that. I find it insulting that he started dating right away, and feel like it kind of degrades the relationship that we did have, but I don't want to turn into one of those psycho ex-girlfriends. How would you handle this situation?

2007-11-02 02:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 02:41:07 · 14 answers · asked by LA 1

I have a boyfriend and im actually a really responsible person and they have no reason not to trust me. But they wont let me go to the movies with him. He's not a bad guy. My parents have met him and they like him. Anyone know why they might be doing this?

2007-11-02 02:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by blondiebabe4ever 1

and self confident , but it is not always in my hands. can anyone help me ...

2007-11-02 02:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by halaz2005 1

we were sleeping together for 18 months, never discussed commitment but I assumed that since we are " involved" and since it has been this long the man would feel some level of commitment to a woman. I found out that he was looking online and meeting other women. I loved this man and now my word has turned upside down. Could not sleep and eat for 3 days. I broke up with him and asked to never contact me again. Now, 1 months later I feel numb inside and trying to move on with my life. ..I received an unexpected email from him. He said he wants to talk. I DO NOT want to see him but my friends tell me to go and see what he is gonna say.
I'm 36, he is 47and divorced twice.
Should I go and listen to his BS tell him one more time how I feel and how much he hurt me or just to email him back and say that I do not want to see him anymore ?
I cannot forgive him.

2007-11-02 02:27:21 · 9 answers · asked by L. L 1

Yesterday it was a very windy day and many of my neighbor's thongs, or bikinis flew into my backyard along with a shirt of hers.
My problem is that I feel ok to give her back her shirt but feel really wierd in going to her house>>>ringing the bell>>> and them giveing her 4 thongs back.
I am 24 but am still a little bit shy when talking to girls, and cant even think about handing her the thongs...
I picked up one and sniffed it and it seems they are clean, so it might be newly washed laundry.
They are still in my backyard, but I think that she might not be able to see them through her backyard...

WHAT SHOULD I DO ??? :-(

2007-11-02 02:25:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

one night, my crush and I got kinda drunk and flirted(more so me, he does this thing where he has 2 drinks and then "pretends" to be drunk) he kept tryin 2 subtlely touch me. our friends encouraged us because they knew I liked him and when i said he doesnt like me they all said i think he does. The people there that night meddled in the situation, pestering him about me afterwards and called him oblivious. my friend who is close with him (and is NOT lying) said "he said he doesnt have feelings 4 for, the pestering didnt help a huge amount." Im shocked he doesnt like me because after that night when I randomly left he left me 2 voicemails, one saying "hope u got back 2 your room OK, ill IM you tomorrow" and he did IM me right away the next morning, and he asked me questions. he was sober while doing these things. He didn’t tell his friends he did this and my friends response to this was “hes stupid trust me, didn’t mean anything by it.” He has been told Ive liked him since last year.

2007-11-02 02:24:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 20, and have been dating a really sweet, down to earth girl for the past few months. I see her several times a week, and we almost always have a really good time.

We've made out, petted and passionately kissed almost every time, although I'm not sure how to go to the next level without offending her or moving too soon. I don't have too much experience at all, and am dying to undress her, lick and kiss her all over.

She asked me what the first thing was that I wanted to do with her when I saw her the other night. I didn't know how to really respond, as I know what I'd really like to do with her but didn't voice it. I offered some lame excuse like hugging, and she joked is that all? She also invited me to spend the night tomorrow, and hold her in bed. What should I expect? On the other hand, I haven't even seen any real skin or put my hand down her pants (or vice versa.) I just can't tell how far she wants to go.

2007-11-02 02:21:30 · 11 answers · asked by ColoradoRed 1

One time I was writing my friend a private email about him while he was sleeping on the bed (stupid I know). I got up to use the bathroom and saw he had gotten up and was reading the email.

He kept ignoring the fact I was mad my privacy had been invaded and was like, "Well why did you write what you wrote".

Another time I wanted to go to my friend's bday party instead of driving two hours to VA to visit him (which I've done the last two weeks in a row).

Again he won't admit it's shady to get mad about that. He kept saying, "But the army is going to station me in Nebraska in December. You should want to spend as much time as possible with me while you can".

2007-11-02 02:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with her about a year now, she is in her thrid year of University and obviously has alot of work. I Dont get to see her often and she seems to be giving me the cold shoulder now aswell. Doesnt seem like she wants to talk to me at all and when she does, its usally me tring to speak to her and her giving one word answers and has no interest in me at all. It was about last May where she left me for another guy and then came back to me.We had a great summer together and i took her on hoilday with all the money i had just before she left for Uni. 4 weeks later, shes flirting with other guys, i think she might have done somthing already. Im worried sick that she is going to leave me any day now, with some crap excuse. The thoughts plague my mind, thats why i think im paranoid. Ive asked her already if she is interested in other guys and she says im gettin it from no where but ive been shown some things.So im at home going crazy, while she doesnt seem to give a crap anymore. (repost)

2007-11-02 01:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 01:45:44 · 11 answers · asked by LIS 1

There is this guy that I really like and we have gotten to know each other in the past week. And we were talking last night and he was telling me how glad he was he met me and that I give the best hugs and that he wants to hang out sometime. He KNOW'S that I like him I have told him twice because he asked me twice. So I naturally asked him if he liked me. His response:
"hmmm I don't think I can tell you."
and then I get another message from him with the subject "well dear" and it seems like he likes me. But his best friend is my ex- and the guy is having a fit about us being friends and calling me a slut and a bunch of crap. Why won't he tell me? and do you think he likes me?

2007-11-02 01:39:31 · 10 answers · asked by limestuff45 2

we where at a nightclub i was drunk , she went to the loo and when she came out she saw me kissing her friend, how do i tell her i am sorry ,and i did not mean to do it

2007-11-02 01:35:21 · 24 answers · asked by dazza 2