So lots of guys - especially in high school - (where i am now) date girls for a few weeks and then get vo==over them and dump them, sometimes for another girl.
why? what is going on in your guys'sheads? tell me please, how does a guy think in terms of girls....you know how sometimes, when guys are single they will hookup with a random chick every now and then? explain how you guys think. you obviously dont date every single one you hookup with, when you do date one, does that mean you did have some feelings for the girl? my situtaion is that ive just been dumped after only 3 weeks of dating and he used the classic "we really need to talk...we dont talk enough..theres no emotional connection...all we do is makeout and im not really into that stuff...its not working out." what a load of bullshit. im just really trying t ounderstand males... i know he kind of likes another girl and i am confused as to why he wouldnt jsut tell me that he liked someone else
2007-11-02 21:27:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if he didnt want to breakup by telling me that then why wouldnt he just say it later after we brokeup and are good friends (for about 2 days) that he liked this one girl. please give me every aspect of the male mind. thanks... by the way were 15 so the adult male mind might be a little diff. than the teenage male mind, fyi. :]
2007-11-02 21:29:07 · update #1
Problems
#1. You're trying to understand males.
#2. Not all guys do this. I have been in a relationship for well
over two years.
#3. You shouldn't be making out the first few weeks...
2007-11-02 21:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys look at girls with their eyes. Girls look at guys with their emotions. When you are a teenage boy, you really aren't looking for anything long term. It does happen, but not as often. Boys think logically, and logic would say that they need to get over her quickly so they can find another one. Girls make decisions more based on emotions.
2007-11-02 21:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are not design to be emotion creators. We "get over girls so quickly" because are attachments are not as great as women's.
2007-11-02 21:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by ChaRiaLer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dudes have the DNA of animals. All we look for his boom boom long time...get it or not we then move on. Why we get married is the biggest mystery of all time. Chicks are programmed to settle down and be monogomous.
2007-11-02 21:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by stgennesse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's male. He's in high school. Explanation good enough for you? =D
2007-11-02 21:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Trainwreck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how you like so many kinds of shoes. I think we arelike that.
2007-11-02 21:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Neil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....we arent as emotional as woman are...no offence....but in my personal opinion, that is rude and should be stoped....
2007-11-02 21:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by fairchildkid_93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess cuss girls just care more.
2007-11-02 21:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by skaxprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't, we just dont show it.
2007-11-02 21:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋