She used to not be jealous, well atleast she didn't show it, but know she's so jealous. Everytime I hang-out with my friends she gets jealouse and starts saying, "are you guys going to break necks, holla a chicks??" "go on and get 7 digits." I get so mad because she knows I'm not like that.
(on the side note)
I don't tell her anything like that when she talks or hangs out with her friends.)
Her Aunt and her female cousins after the first week we got together told her how I used to be when I was single. First they said that I was a nice guy and that they like me alot. I don't know what happen but they got mad at me like half a month later and they began to say that I used to be with girls and more girls and so on, which is not true. My girl knows how I am, but all of a sudded starting like two months ago she has become very jealous of me talking with friends or just people that talk to me out of nowhere.
all I know, is that I can't really take it that much anymore
2007-11-01 19:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by mr2Ricky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all girls get jealous. but it is cos she loves you. i'm not siding girls. i just wanna let you noe most of the time we hope we can not be so jealous and be more cool with things of sort. but it is really hard. and we feel very upset ourselves as well after those agrument and everyone longs for a good relationship. a happy, a lovey dovey one. no one want to be upset, cry and agrue every one or two days. the reason why we get upset is cos we loves and cares. if we are fine with everything and has 0% jealously then guys should start worrying cos you don't hold an important position in her heart. whatever you do doesn't seems to affect her at all. however, too much of a fight is not healthy. it spoils relationship. so should really talk to your girl. reassure her. tell her you love her all the time. gives her lots of hugs and kisses. be generous with it. she needs a lot of it. bring her out to meet your friends sometimes. know your friends and have great time together. once she noes your friends, then she is more comfortable cos she noes who you are with. cheers.:)
2007-11-01 20:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by cheer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My finance had a bad reputation years before we started dating. The phrase once a cheater, always a cheater is really not true at all. Its about finding the person you are meant to be with, and obviously if you were cheating you were not meant to be. I'm not saying thats what you did, I'm just saying we are not products of our reputations. Now I know my fiance would never cheat on me but early in our relationship I was paranoid about his past. We have had many MANY talks and I trust him very much. I trust the friends he has and the choices they make when they are around him. I guess it's something you may have to just sit her down and have a talk about. Tell her you can not leave to your friends house with this feeling of forced guilt everyday. You should not be uncomfortable when you are with your friends. Its hard to have a good time when you are worried about being in trouble later on. Let her know that the most important thing to you is your respect for her. Now, it will never be perfect. Good relationships are hard work and a constant give and take. Be open and honest with eachother at all times and you will make it through what ever people may say about you or your past.
2007-11-01 19:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by makenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it happens with most of the couples. When i was with my girlfriend we used to have the same problems quite often. But now our relationship is finished and guess what! It was probably the best time of my life man! I really miss it because i realised too late that i love her the most.
You need to talk to her frequently and tell her that you don't like those jealousy. As you mentioned that she know you are not like that meaning she may be jocking of deliberatly playing with you when she does that.
I hope your relationship will get better. Good luck buddy
2007-11-01 19:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by Akash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you might just have to let her know you do and let her know that you care that it upsets her. Just comfort her alittle. Because I'm married and I get jealous some times its just women we're insecure sometimes. But if your not really like all into her maybe you should back off from the relationship, because maybe she's not mature enough or like extremely insecure.
2007-11-01 19:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that one of the main ingredients in love is trust. If she feels that she can't trust you, then she must not be in love with you. Just tell her that you can't take any more of the badgering, and if it continues, you are going to call it quits.
2007-11-01 19:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Reassure her she's the only girl for you. But also tell her that the jealousy thing doesn't fly with you, and that it's going to hurt your relationship if she keeps doing it.
2007-11-01 19:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you should not have to take that either. She (your g/f) might be very insecure, letting her family control her, g/f and family are listening to otherpeople that are jealous of your relationship.
2007-11-01 19:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude guess what? thanks to Ne yo, you can sing her the song "when you're mad" that should explain everything and i bet she would love it too. hahahaha o well i hope you could sing.
2007-11-01 19:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kinno Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel her this stuff see if she stops. good luck
2007-11-01 19:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by n.s. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you dude.....
2007-11-01 19:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋