Singles & Dating - 1 November 2007

i like the pattern. is that a bad idea to get a tattoo of it?

2007-11-01 16:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl in my music class that I have noticed but have started to see that she was pretty. Ok last week in class she gave me kinda long eye contact, she kinda had like a soft look with a TINY smile on her face. She was talking to another guy and she kept on looking back at me when she was talking to him. She defianlty looked at me, she did 3 quick glances Yesterday I was going to the parklot and she appeared out of nowhere. I don't think she noticed me but I wanted to talk to her, but I was scared. Today however in class she glanced at me and we left class around the same time however when she held the door open she didn't pay me any attention, like i didn't exist, she glanced over her shoulder at me. Now she completey ingores me even though she sits right next to me, and she is always figeting and leaning foward in her chair, a moving her head aroundin ever direction accept mine

2007-11-01 16:08:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy ive been seeing for a while now, we got into a fight last night- i ended up walking/driving away and i was so hurt. today, i was nice to him and he was civil to me- he told me he wanted to talk- i told him to keep me updated and to let me know when i could meet him tonight.
he finally answers me through text messages- he tells me he's on a boat w/some friends and its not a good time to talk. i write back 'thank you for letting me know. finally. have a good night'
& then he has to come back with something like 'now i have to check in with you? i dont think so'
its something small. its not a big deal. but he knew it would upset me
i know he cares about me
i havent done anything wrong- the fight we had was because of something else he said yesterday. for the past week he's been acting different & i think this is the end of our relationship but i dont understand why he has to be so nasty. im very easy going and sweet. im not a bi*ch. so why does he have2 hurt me even more

2007-11-01 16:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by *jordan* 2

2007-11-01 16:01:03 · 1 answers · asked by Blue Kiss 1

What do you think of girls that act like sluts? Would you rather date a girl that is nice, smart and athletic or a girl you know that your going to get some with and what is your age... Please be honest

2007-11-01 15:58:53 · 21 answers · asked by Sam B 5

im a sophmore and his a senior in high skool. we have health class together and he barly ever talks. but thers something about him thats so cute. i really wana tak to him and get to know him but he probly thinks im imature. what could i say or do to make him talk to me?

2007-11-01 15:55:56 · 14 answers · asked by what is it 5

When we first started going out like a month ago, he would always wait for me and give me hugs all the time, and write long notes. But since last week or so he doesn't write half as many notes and if he does, they're super short. he hardly gives me any hugs. he still waits for me, but he leaves sometimes without saying hes going and I don't know why. any one have any ideas whats going on?
and he used to say I love you all the time but now he rarely does.
and he almost never gets on aim, even though he basically begged me to get it to talk to him

please help!!
thanks

2007-11-01 15:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by haley 1

Shes going to a dress up party as a "sailor". the costume is basically a white mini skirt that pracically shows her butt, and the top is a button up shirt that shows A LOT of cleavage, and a little sailor hat. She says its cute but it looks so slutty. The party shes going to has alcohol, and no adult supervision (shes 16) and she plans on drinking and possibly getting drunk. I figure a drunk girl who is so scanalty clad around horny guys at a party will get taken advantage of or raped and she wont listen to me so I said ill tell her mom and she said she wants to leave me! I'm so worried about her weve been together 2 and a half years (i just turned 18) and i cant go to the party becasue of work. Why would she wanna dress like this? and why wont she listen to me about it? I didnt tell her mother but should I appologize about how I acted or stick to my guns? ALSO She said even if i got off work I couldnt go with her because "I wasnt invited".. whats up with that?

She doesnt usually dress like this.. but she said she wears mini skirts that short at school too and shirts at school that show cleavage and I dont go to her school so I dont see this. and she just told me and she doesnt dress like this around me

2007-11-01 15:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Sebastian 3

-He's 20, I'm 19
-I've known him a year & we work together
-he's always been shy around me, unless others are around
-he's NOT a player
-he started flirting with me over 2 months ago (he used to only stare)
-we exchanged #s and he began to call me often, but suddenly stopped
-he became distant at work as well, but still stares at me
-is he shy again?
-he invited me over to hang out with some friends one night
-as he dropped me off afterwards I told him I had to tell him something
-he turned the music off & gave me his full attention as if he knew it was important
- in very simple terms I said: "I really like you."
-he smiled & said: "Ok" that's it, but it wasn't negative
-the situation didn't feel awkward
-we hugged each other good bye & I don't see him until Saturday and we haven't talked since that night (a few days ago)
-Does he like me too?
-Did I shock him or did he not say anything so he wouldn't hurt me?
-he's obviously "okay" with me liking him

2007-11-01 15:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by iloveyou♥ 2

2007-11-01 15:39:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I were together for two years. He is an amazing guy with an amazing personality. I fell in love with him fast and grew a serious attachmet to him because we almost had a baby together. Half way through our relationship, I started to get suspicious and felt that I had to snoop through his text messages and emails. I found things that could have meant anything, but not to get too suspicious over. I eventually confronted him and he said he was not doing anything because he loved me; I believed him. Things were well for a while, but then I started getting weird feelings again. So then I did even more hard core investigating and found out that the whole time I thought things were perfect between us, he was taking different people out here and there; probably slept with a couple of them too. I feel so betrayed and hurt because I genuily love him and gave my all to him and he made me feel like I was the only person in the world that mattered, but it feels like the whole 2

2007-11-01 15:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl in my la class that flirted with me every day im not kidding she teased me and laughed when i said something funny and was really nice. but i had no courage and got my friend to ask her out. well she said no and after that she was mean to me not bullying but just kinda holding a grudge and ignoring me. but then she moved to the other side of the classroom and i think she might like me again. i swear she looks me straight in the eye during class when she thinks im not looking. does she like me again? did she ever like me? or is she trying to tell me something?

2007-11-01 15:38:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone of you had these certain feelings toward a person where you love them to death, but sometimes when you think about some of the stuff they've said or done it makes you Hate them so much. Of course the love overpowers the hate but sometimes you just wish they would get out of your life forever, but you know if they did you would miss them like hell. Am I the only person who has felt like this about someone or can you relate? How do you deal with this and who is this person to you?

2007-11-01 15:37:13 · 39 answers · asked by Toy 1

2007-11-01 15:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by Andrew1968 5

...a 28 year old, single male living at home. Women seem turned off by this when this fact per se is irrelevant. I have no need to move away from home. I love living with my family, it's close to work and it keeps me financially well off. I can save money if I decide to move one day, yet at the same time I can spend money on fun things that most people can't afford because they moved out prematurely. I therefore have no need whatsoever to move out, and neither do my other adult siblings. My parents are the biggest supporters of this decision. While most parents kick their kids out then regret it it due to their feeling alone and guilty, my parents can enjoy having the family together. After all, why have such a big house when none of your kids live there anymore? I get so much crap from friends, extended family and coworkers about my family's living arrangements. I also get crap from the aforementioned people because I never date.

2007-11-01 15:26:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 15:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men don't seem to have a clue about pleasuring me during sex, they just stick their dick in and pound away until they get off. I've only ever had orgasms when I've been with girls but I don't want to turn lesbian so what am I to do??

2007-11-01 15:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this friend whom i used to be really good friends with. we kissed once. after i went out of the country for vacations we dont talk as much, abd she told me to leave the past back. telling me that she didnt love me in some ways. aftrer that i started dating other girls. now she tells me that ive been hiding something from her so i told her everything ive done. she says its over, idk wat shes talking about. i wanna confront her but i dont know wat to say. im in love with another girl too

2007-11-01 15:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, i have been with my guy since i was 13 and he was 15(now 23 and 25). we barely talk or see each other. we both work full time and go to school. i recently moved back home to focus on school, now i see him less. he won't make any commitments or promises about the future. i just wanna be happy. i don't wanna wake up at 40 and hate myself for staying so long. i adore him and wanna be with him for life. i don't know if i stay cuz its comfortable and safe or why else. i'm afraid nobody else will love me. help i'm so torn!

2007-11-01 15:24:05 · 41 answers · asked by annie 3

I met my BF on blackgirlsconnect several months ago, and he said that he loves me and wanna marry me, i love him too, but i know so many girls around him like him very much, and even some are crazy, i wonder should i accept his proposal or not, why he is so excellent!

2007-11-01 15:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by BB 1

I went to a concert and while i was in the mosh,i met this guy, who was super cute & was helping me when i was getting thrown around. im 14 & in 8th grade but i said i was in 10th.. (he`s in 11th) he asked for my number & we talk on the phone all the time. & were hoping to hangout soon? should i tell him? ADVICE PLEASE :]

2007-11-01 15:16:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i'm like really shy and haven't been in a relationship in a long time

2007-11-01 15:14:27 · 24 answers · asked by ~C.b.~ 1

So here it is, we were really good friends before he asked me out but now we're going out we don't talk much because i can't think of anything to say and one of our friends told me he said the same thing. He's not the smarest guys ever so i can't ask for help and i know he love gutair hero but i have to wait until christmas to get it and learn everything, i need some frunny or cheesey ice breakers, help please!

2007-11-01 15:13:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 15:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 15:06:49 · 10 answers · asked by poppy vox 4

about 2 to 3 weeks ago i posted a question about a girl i like and then a few days later that she asked my friend out. Now I have another friend who is a girl and dosent have so much in common but we get along great and she says she likes me not because im cool or not cool but because of my personality and she dosent want me to change and i think she loves me. BUT the girl that i have had a crush on for awhile wants to go out with me now after she went out with my best friend and didnt like him... WHAT should i do and should i ask the girl ive had a crush on or a girl who has a crush on me...

please SAVE ME
S.O.S. SAVE ME :(

2007-11-01 15:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by Caboose 2

If so, why? What makes a person sexy to you?

2007-11-01 15:03:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked the guy I like if he wanted to watch a movie tonight, and he agreed to. But he didn't say if he was going to call me, I assumed he would because he did last time. But he didn't actually SAY this time that he would call. I am scared to call because I don't know if really wants to watch the movie and I don't want to sound desperate by asking him, then calling him about it later. What should I do?

2007-11-01 15:02:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay this is complicated so bare with me...i was dating this boy..who is best friends with my ex boyfriend who is still apparently in love with me.. its been three years. so i broke up with the recent boy and started seeing my ex boyfriend..then my recent ex came back to, then it was a massive mess for awhile.. then they told me that i had to choose. so i did i choose the ex not the recent one haha. but then i wasnt over the recent one so i was on a break with my ex and the recent boy and i had sex, now my ex wont speak to me and the recent boy is mad at me because i picked my ex over him. now my recent boy is talking to me again and wants to hang out, but says that he isnt sure about getting back together cause he doesnt want to get hurt...and my ex boyfriend will never talk to me again cause ive hurt him to many times but i still want to be his friend..i know its complicated...

2007-11-01 15:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-01 15:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous