Shes going to a dress up party as a "sailor". the costume is basically a white mini skirt that pracically shows her butt, and the top is a button up shirt that shows A LOT of cleavage, and a little sailor hat. She says its cute but it looks so slutty. The party shes going to has alcohol, and no adult supervision (shes 16) and she plans on drinking and possibly getting drunk. I figure a drunk girl who is so scanalty clad around horny guys at a party will get taken advantage of or raped and she wont listen to me so I said ill tell her mom and she said she wants to leave me! I'm so worried about her weve been together 2 and a half years (i just turned 18) and i cant go to the party becasue of work. Why would she wanna dress like this? and why wont she listen to me about it? I didnt tell her mother but should I appologize about how I acted or stick to my guns? ALSO She said even if i got off work I couldnt go with her because "I wasnt invited".. whats up with that?
She doesnt usually dress like this.. but she said she wears mini skirts that short at school too and shirts at school that show cleavage and I dont go to her school so I dont see this. and she just told me and she doesnt dress like this around me
2007-11-01 15:48:33 · 5 answers · asked by Sebastian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mayb shes realy a slut or just wants ur attention. Shes probably 1 of tho girls who wants her bf 2 worry bout her all the time. U sound like a realy nice guy and u care bout her alot but i think u can do way better than a girl like tht. How do u even kno wats shes doin in school w/ other guys. If she dresses like this @ school then she probably has a bad name @ school. Stink 2 ur guns ur rite and shes wrong. Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-11-01 15:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by musicluvrsammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns, If you address her Mother do it in a "oh by the way" It is better to get her upset, than hurt. If her Mother is smart she'll find a distraction, to the event and avoid a direct confrontation.
2007-11-01 22:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because stupid girls use Halloween as an excuse to dress slutty and act whorish. No she doesn't deserve an apology.
2007-11-01 23:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by luckyluckyia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all somethings wrong with the ending the dressing at school, and let her have fun but just tell he ryou have the best intentions at heart. but do apologize it'll make things better although i think that you are right, but you should let her have her fun and hopefully nothign wrong will happen
2007-11-01 22:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your gf is interested in exploring her options, Catch a clue. She's looking to replace you.
2007-11-01 22:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋