the guy ive been seeing for a while now, we got into a fight last night- i ended up walking/driving away and i was so hurt. today, i was nice to him and he was civil to me- he told me he wanted to talk- i told him to keep me updated and to let me know when i could meet him tonight.
he finally answers me through text messages- he tells me he's on a boat w/some friends and its not a good time to talk. i write back 'thank you for letting me know. finally. have a good night'
& then he has to come back with something like 'now i have to check in with you? i dont think so'
its something small. its not a big deal. but he knew it would upset me
i know he cares about me
i havent done anything wrong- the fight we had was because of something else he said yesterday. for the past week he's been acting different & i think this is the end of our relationship but i dont understand why he has to be so nasty. im very easy going and sweet. im not a bi*ch. so why does he have2 hurt me even more
2007-11-01 16:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by *jordan* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People hurt the ones they care about because they can get away with it. That person will forgive them, so why not hurt them?
And, of course, most guys are selfish, so they don't care about anyone else getting hurt.
In this case. Guys hate when a girl does the keeping tabs on him thing. So it's east for a guy to lose his cool over this.
2007-11-01 16:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its either a defense mechanism or he just doesnt care about you
2007-11-01 23:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by K J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋