theres this girl in my la class that flirted with me every day im not kidding she teased me and laughed when i said something funny and was really nice. but i had no courage and got my friend to ask her out. well she said no and after that she was mean to me not bullying but just kinda holding a grudge and ignoring me. but then she moved to the other side of the classroom and i think she might like me again. i swear she looks me straight in the eye during class when she thinks im not looking. does she like me again? did she ever like me? or is she trying to tell me something?
2007-11-01 15:38:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sadly this was at the least 2 weeks ago
2007-11-02 07:49:41 · update #1
sounds like a tease to me. wants you until she knows she can have you.
and the fact your friend had to ask probably plays a part.
2007-11-01 15:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe she's shy or something. You'd better not waste your time with her-she could be one of those who can't decide what she wants. If she did like you in the past she said no b/c she was shy or something probably. If she likes you now, I don't know. Some girls just stare at people not cuz they like them just because. Move on and find another girl. If this girl in your class likes you then she will flirt with you more and stuff. Too hard to tell now and you shouldn't worry about it. Everything that is meant to be will fall into place.
2007-11-01 15:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1: NEVER ask someone to ask another person out for you! They will say NO IMMIDIATLY!
#2: My guess is she used to like you and was flirting with you sbecause she wanted you to ask her out and she's probably mad at you because of #1.
#3: If she's gotten over #1, then ASK HER OUT! Trust me, I used to be SOOOO scared of asking a girl out, but now ive been in a relationship for 13 months!
#4: If you dont have the courage to ask her out, ask her to a school dance, or a movie or something, and you can ask her out there.
#5: She may still be mad at you and not like you anymore, so if you like her, you need to rekindle her crush on you by getting to know her better.
#6: When you ask her out, dont forget to say" Im sorry i didn't ask you out myself, and I think that was a stupid idea, and hope you can forgive me and i can be your boyfriend.
That's about it. If that doesn't work, nothing will.
P.S. If you need relationship advice, ask me. I'm a successful boyfriend
2007-11-01 15:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by A face in the crowd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess she might had a crush on u...
but the reason why she said no
is because u asked ur FRIEND to ask her out
she probably thought u are not serious enough
and should ask her out face to face or sth
if she still stares at u once in a while
she might be still interested in u and want to give u a second chance
2007-11-01 15:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE WANTS YOU TO BE ASSERTIVE alot of girls hate when a friend has to ask them out confront her and be like "look i don't care what you have to say why are you ignoring me?!" then give her a complement but keep control. she needs someone to be more assertive your acting like a deer whe what she wants is the hunter. -haha sorry for the stupid analogy.
2007-11-01 15:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by johnny_girl1001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was grumpy when your friend asked her out for you? She's kind of mean... maybe she was just annoyed you wouldn't ask her out yourself. Try asking her yourself this time, it's worth a shot, and it's the only way to know.
2007-11-01 15:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anniekd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably the fact that you had ur friend ask her out for you. I personally like guys that know how to get what they want and just GO for it, and that might be her thing.
2007-11-01 15:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is just an attention whore, when she got the attention she was just over you..start engorning her again for a couple of days she will be all over you.
2007-11-01 16:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time-don't ask her out right away, talk to her more often/get to know her some more & maybe things will work out. (maybe she will show she's really interested in you in the future)
2007-11-01 15:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had your friend ask her out or you had your friend ask her out for you?
If friend asked her out-she may be thinking that you are a)don't like her and encouraging a friend to ask her out or b) you are immature
If a friend asked for you-a) she's playing with you.
2007-11-01 15:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~BC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋