My boyfriend has been acting.. different lately..?

Question

When we first started going out like a month ago, he would always wait for me and give me hugs all the time, and write long notes. But since last week or so he doesn't write half as many notes and if he does, they're super short. he hardly gives me any hugs. he still waits for me, but he leaves sometimes without saying hes going and I don't know why. any one have any ideas whats going on?
and he used to say I love you all the time but now he rarely does.
and he almost never gets on aim, even though he basically begged me to get it to talk to him

please help!!
thanks

Answer 1

I don't really know, but I think it could be a few different things.

1.) He's just getting comfortable in the relationship and maybe thinks you just know how much he cares now and doesn't have to show it as much.

2.) He's starting to lose the feelings he had a month ago.

3.) He overwhelmed himself in the first month and now wants to slow down a bit.

Answer 2

This is the way alllllll relationships work, dear. The honeymoon stage won't last forever. He's not going to write you huge notes for months and months. Take it easy and enjoy being in a comfortable relationship.

Answer 3

sounds like he's having online relationships that arent serious to him, but he is at least talking to someone else, my suggestion, is to ignore him for awhile, and see what he does next if the situation is getting worse, then it's time to call it quits. you might want to ask him face to face why he's acting the way he is, and you'll get either the straight answer, and hopefully proof, or he'll argue with you while lying to your face. either way, the only person that can answer your question is him, mostly by his actions.

Answer 4

Honey, sit him down and speak to him about all of this. If you don't speak to him then you will Never know why he is like this for. good luck =]

Answer 5

he got someone else sorry. try talking to him and asking whats going on