Some stuf happened at work and disciplinary actions will be taken against my boyfriend.. He's all upset about it and I understand how he felt... I probably would feel that way too if the same thing were to happen to me..
Thing is it's more than a week and he hardly spoke and don't want to meet up with me.. He only text message me to say good morning and called me to say good night..
I'm not angry that he's upset... I'm angry that he choose to drag this feeling instead of moving on... I'm angry that he didn't want me to get involved in times like this..
And this is not the first time he's doing this to me..
I tried countless times and ways to cheer him up... It makes me sad everytime, there seem to be little or no change in him..
I have spoke to him about my concerns.. He only apologised and sank back into his silence..
I don't want to leave him.. I love him and want to stand by him especially in his bad times.. But if he keep this up, I, myself would fall apart.. Help
2007-11-01 18:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by (C)T Heartz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him space and let him work things out. The fact that he calls you speaks volumes. Because he obviously still cares. Don't suffocate him by worrying so much. Just tell him you're there for him if he needs anything, and let him work it out.
2007-11-01 18:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats his way of dealing with things. Maybe he doesnt want you to help him. Give him the space for now & work on it over the long run.
2007-11-01 18:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel him that the key to a good relationship is to communicate. If he is not willing to make that effort, the relationship is doomed already.
2007-11-01 18:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋