So I have a great boyfriend. He's sweet (although he can be insensitive about certain things like most guys). He gets really jealous if I hang out with other guys, and loves to hang out with me constantly.Well, my gay friend just met my boyfriend of 9 months and he told me he thought he had gayface and it's been bugging me ever since that now I'm thinking, wow, could my boyfriend be gay? My gay friend is also cheating with a man married to a woman and that's freaking me out too. And now I'm starting to get this feeling that my bf might be too! And if you ask me why I think he might gay, I can't come up with one answer! Is that crazy? My boyfriend cooks me dinner (at the beginning). He flew to Europe to be with me, we have sex alot (usually me on top) and he watches me and plays with my boobs and only lasts a couple minutes. He loves video games and sports. He gets hard if we talk about getting married or having kids.
I'm so paranoid now that I would break up! What's wrong with me?
2007-10-25 09:11:43 · 4 answers · asked by KM! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you might have got freaked out from what your gay friend told you. Does your boyfriend have any fem qualities? Ever catch him checking out men? What does he think of you having gay friends? Does he get along w/them and is he comfortable around them? A lot of straight men are not. You need to let us know the signs he has that makes you think he could be. Why are u always on top? Please resubmit w/more info. I'm interested in hearing and giving advice. I have a lot of gay friends (male and female). Maybe you should check on his computer and see if he goes on to any gay porn sites. Give more info...I'm dying over here!!!
PS. It would also be a good idea to have your gay friend over and evaluate him a little better. He might have just gotten a mixed sign but if he hangs out longer and talks to him, he might get different vibes.
2007-10-25 09:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real reason you gave for thinking that he is gay is that your gay friend said he had a "gay face" - come on!!
2007-10-25 16:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by KiwiChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds pretty straight to me, Bring some guys around and see if you can catch him checking them out, then just sit down and talk to him about it.
2007-10-25 16:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm you have already asked this question...go to a phyciatrist and get on some anti anxiety medicine ..thts what i take
2007-10-25 16:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋