2007-10-25 16:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by samantha_smith_vt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your BF about it.
Why don't you try spicing things up? Get a really good book on the subject.
Or, you might need to visit a therapist with you BF.
2007-10-25 16:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 1/2 years, and you're not married yet? How old are you? If you're 20's 30's or older, and you've been dating for 7 1/2 years and not married yet, your relationship is a dead end.
Sounds like it might be time to end the relationship or fix it. If the sex is terrible, you obviously didn't get together for the sex. Try to find some of your boyfriends good qualities...if there are none, dump him!
2007-10-25 23:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Clarid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you care for him? I mean can you talk to him about it? Don't wait until you blow up and do something hurtful, try to find a way to let him know that you would like to do something different or with a little more love in it. He may not know how you feel or he may be feeling the same thing. Try to work it out. Good luck
2007-10-25 23:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest about it with him, but don't say that it makes you sick to have sex with him, phrase it in a more tactful way so it doesn't hurt his pride. maybe get him some help from one of those sex therapist people if you think he needs serious help. tell him what you want him to do differently.
2007-10-25 23:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if you are nauseous at the thought of having sex with him, then your relationship isn't looking so good. It is time to get some help or get out.
2007-10-25 23:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Teha4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where's the love sweetie???? if the relstionships is there only because of Sex its not healthy...talk to him both of you must be honest how you feel for each other...if there's nothing more intimate other than sex better go on separate lives...
2007-10-25 23:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by avagurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be it's time for you and he to sit down and talk about it,he may not be aware of your feelings,have an honest heart to heart talk,may be even try counseling,do every thing you can to make things better.
2007-10-25 23:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you two have reduced your love life to SEX, and SEX, and again SEX, and once again SEX, and again and again SEX and only SEX.
Try to do things other than SEX. Abstain for a few days!
2007-10-25 23:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just leave it will not get better,it will get worse.better to be alone than to wish you were alone!!! good luck.
2007-10-25 23:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋