Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which is impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends. On 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But, y ask a 2nd date? I replied "what you have in mind for sat?" he said i'm up for anything, we can do lunch?" If his intention is for sex, will he be disappointed if i tell him to meet on sunday instead? (i won't hook up).
2007-10-25 12:44:08 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That doesn't tell me enough to know what this guy is looking for. People are way more complicated than that, however, he clearly was trying to tell you that he isn't in a place where he wants to slow down with the partying. Is this okay with you? Remember, you can't start dating him and resent him for something he was honest and open about from the beginning.
2007-10-25 12:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it sounds like your brain is turned on here and I appauld you! Don't quit now, tell him he is attractive and you would like to do things together but your a christian and bedroom activities make for the kind of impersonal relationship your not looking for. Be upfront about you.
2007-10-25 19:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he is asking for a second date for sex, especially if he didnt try on the first date. he probably is just lonely and need a friend. good luck
2007-10-25 19:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by TE TE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk to him and asks him what he wants. Don't just assume the worst.
2007-10-25 19:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by mixedcurlyfries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably be disapointed, but it's okay. He doesn't deserve you. Find yourself a grown up, not a child.
2007-10-25 20:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go jumpin to conclusions when you have no idea what he really wants, give him a chance for gods sake
2007-10-25 19:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Beersch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋