I saw my good male friend flirting with other women - slightly touching them and stuff.
I was around at this point - and then I went all quiet and left.
He seem concerned and called me asking me if I am okay because Ive gone all quiet (left a message on my phone as I didnt answer call).
Then he text me saying ''I have to go my friend. No doubt Ill talk to you soon xxxx''
Does he have feelings/care for me? I really like him - more than a friend.
And why doesnt he Ever flirt with Me? We talk a lot and he trusts me a Lot.
2007-10-25 23:50:37 · 8 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm guessing he likes, maybe even loves you, AS A FRIEND.
Start flirting with guys when you go out and see if that changes his mind -- if you want him to be more than a friend.
2007-10-25 23:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lars 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you have fallen into the friendship trap. Since you two only interact with each other on a friendship level, he may see you as nothing more than being a friend. He might not have flirted with you because of this. He may have feelings, but might be afraid of jacking up the friendship. It could also be that he got quiet because he might not be comfortable flirting around another woman.
2007-10-26 06:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He certainly loves and cares for you as a friend otherwise he wouldn't call you to see if you were ok. He obviously doesn't know how you feel and is still just treating you like a really good mate. The question is, does he feel the same as you? By telling him how you feel could ruin your friendship if he doesn't feel the same, so you could try asking a mutual friend to ask the question for you (without telling him your feelings). If he likes you then you can tell him yourself how you feel. If he doesn't then you can carry on with your friendship with him whilst searching for a guy who can love you in return.
Good luck!
2007-10-26 07:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Chucksey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't Slap him, but yea, he probably sees you as only a friend right now, and doesn't know that you want more. Let him know, you should make the first move, and ask him out.
2007-10-26 07:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Stuart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not your b/f, so you don't have to get all jealous. Have you told him that you like him. It sounds like you do! Tell him how you feel. Mabey then he will get the big pic and start being flirty/touchy with you...
2007-10-26 06:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by supermanno4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt know ur interested in being more than friends.... slap him hard !!
2007-10-26 06:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
normally, guys will try to avoid the girls they like more obviously that other girls. cos they sorta wanna "prove" to other ppl tat they are not actually interested in the girl... ya. he likes you but jus not ready to annouce it to the world. be patient if you like him.
2007-10-26 07:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seems like he has lost interest in you.
2007-10-26 06:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by yash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋