i like this girl. she does not like me. she told me i'm cute and sweet, but i thinks she wants more of a badass. she talks dirty and she likes emo boys. if you look at her you would think she is shy and innocent. do you think i should move on or pursue her? i also think she has a high opinion about the way she looks. i'm really not sure people. what should i do?
2007-10-25 22:31:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you answered it yourself already. She does not like you. Move on, find someone else, be happy
2007-10-25 22:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by sden2616 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look for other girls. You can't make anyone like you. If she wants the bad boys, then it is her loss and not yours. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but at this point you are living in a dream that eventually she will come to her senses and see you for the great guy you are. Not going to happen.
Usually it is the sweet and shy ones who tend to go for the bad boys. Usually upbringing has something to do with that. The first man in her life, her dad was probably cold or abusive towards her. As a result, she thinks being a bad boy is what men are supposed to be. When good guy enters her life, she looks down on him as being less of a man than he is instead of being high in character.
Usually these types of women have to be in and out of many abusive relationships with Mr. Bad Boy before they come to the realization that he is not worth the time nor trouble. Sadly some never do come to ther senses. By the time they give Mr. Nice Guy a chance, then they bring into a relationship with lots of emotional baggage. And do you really want that?
Do yourself a favor and move on. In fact if you want to increase your odds of finding someone, date as many ladies as possible until you find the one. You do one of two things. You get to interact with her and see if she is worth spening more than a dinner and a movie with. You also find out that what her little quirks are and see if a pretty face isn't masking a world of trouble for yourself if you were to enter a relationship with her.
2007-10-26 05:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep bothering her you are just going to scare her off and she will get to the point to where you are going to freak her out so much she is not even going to want to be friends with you. You need to move on. Be with someone who wants to be with you, for who you are. Never change who you are for someone else. If you and this girl are meant to be it will happen someday, but for now. Move on, before its too late..
Good Luck!
2007-10-26 05:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by angelalee76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should let that go if she is looking for more of a badass then she could be trouble she might like the drama of it all u know what i mean!!
2007-10-26 05:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by ladyteelovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In our country there is this saying "if you don't talk no chance getting what you want" it is better in our language any ways your point is very easy what you have to do is spell it out. thats it everything comes after that. believe me you get relieved after that. Just her that you love her and want to be with her.
2007-10-26 08:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by zeru_gunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like you; I know it's hard, move on... :~)
Why waste your time on A girl that will only be your friend...?
Don't you want A gf. If you don't move on, you could be missing something that you would've wanted :~)
2007-10-26 05:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by shastacat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't change yourself so she likes you. move on sense she doesn't like you. i sure your a good guy and your to good for her. so don't be sad find someone better for you.
Good Luck and Hope this Helps
2007-10-29 10:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by kodie4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you like her? From what you said I think you should have to change yourself for her to like you. being yourself should be good enough and if she can't appreciate it then find someone who can.
2007-10-26 13:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by op 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste anymore of your time on her, she doesn't sound like a nice person to me!!
2007-10-26 05:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by sparkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't like u. so move on, live life and be happy.
2007-10-26 06:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋