my wife is 21 and has a few male friends whick is ok with me. There is one friend that is 43 years old and has been her parents neighbor for about 11 years. They have recently started to meet up at some local clubs on Thursday nights. They are never usually alone they meet up with some other friends. My question is that I am worried why they are friends. i asked my wife why she is friends with him and if she is attracted to him. She says that she seems him as a brother and that it would be gross to hook up with him since he is so much older than him and since he saw her grow up. I am friends with this man too and do not get any funny vibes from at all. He is currently in love with another woman and does not date any woman under 30 and he only loves ethnic women. Why am i so insecure about this and am i wrong for thinking this
2007-10-22 08:57:36 · 6 answers · asked by iamconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, I see no reason why they can't be friends. Good luck. 2D
2007-10-22 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just worried that since her family is ok with their friendship and they have known each other longer and that he is older, he could probably provide more for her than you could. Its natural to have a bit of jealousy there. But I say a easy way to get past this really is by focusing on the fact that she loves you and is married to you. This man is obviously only there to support her and has his own love interests and pursuits. I would say its only time to worry when and if he didn't. And was calling your house at odd times of the night, wanting to see your wife. But if he isn't doing any of that then I think he is a safe bet.
2007-10-22 09:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meetsingles
2015-02-04 09:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by Derrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making something out of nothing. It appears as though you don't trust your wife or your friend. You need to either learn to trust them or risk becoming your own worst enemy.
2007-10-22 09:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just trust your wife ... and it will be a good start ..
maybe you and him become friends too ...
Good Luck.
2007-10-22 09:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something about it bothers you.
get honest about what that is and then you'll start to be able to answer your own question:)
2007-10-22 09:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋