Singles & Dating - 22 October 2007

What can I do about my mom not liking my boyfriend??? She liked him and was cool with him up until saturday. We went to homecoming, and got drunk, the police searched his car, then searched us. We got cited...and now ihave to go to court, i screwed up, and I know it...but now she doesnt approve of him. After this all happenned, he came to my house, and appologized, gave his number to my mom and asked her to please call him when everything cooled down. Besides the drinking fact, my boyfriend is a really good and respectful person, I just wish my mom would get over it. Im almost 18, and she somehow someway finds a way to put the guy i love down...any suggestions on how to get her to like him again????

2007-10-22 05:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Des 2

So there is this girl who lives with me (she is my room mate) and we have been hitting it off really well. Whenever her ex calls she never tells me who it is and then today we were sitting on the couch watching tv and she said she needed to stretch so she gets up and before you know it her ex shows up. They keep talking for about 45 mins and then she comes downstairs sits next to me and continues like nothing ever happened. What's going on here? Is she playing me...

2007-10-22 05:36:35 · 12 answers · asked by Tix 2

At a friend's little get together, there was this girl I haven't seen in a while that i knew and she was asking me where I worked and said she lived close to there randomly and was hugging me a few times saying "I haven't seen you in such a long time", then started convos with me and stuff but I just chalked it up to her being friendly.....I didn't ask for her number or make any moves because some guy that she dated before was there and they had private talks, and flirted with one another a bit and slept together in a tent outside. I know they're threw, but im not desperate. She is really cute, though, but why are women so confusing. She had her foot on his leg?

What does it mean if a girl strokes her foot on a guy's leg that was her ex?

2007-10-22 05:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why will a girl who knows you, and knows you like her give you her cell number, but when you call she first talks like she doesn't know who it is, and tells you to call back later, because she was somewhere where there is too much noise.

2007-10-22 05:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by niceguy 2

Meaning only by thoughts exchanged textually.

2007-10-22 05:32:09 · 29 answers · asked by morning breeze 1

so heres the problem, our parents, my mom and his dad married about a year ago. We now go to the same school and I spend most my time around him. I think he's an amazing guy, he's funny and smart and exactly my type. Part of me thinks he may like me by the way he treats me and acts around me. But are these feelings okay? I mean, he's my stepbrother. We're not blood related though so my guess is that its not completely wrong to like him. I just dont think my mom and his dad would go for it, or what our younger sisters might think. What do you think? I'd really like if I had some help.

2007-10-22 05:31:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 05:30:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dating a man...after 6months with him I had to break up with him due to his temper a week later he told me he was going to seek help for his anger issues, something did not set right with me....long story short....I found out after I broke up with him he moved back in with an exgf.....he was living with her and wanting to get back with me after he got his act together, he would say he loved me and missed..and all along he was living with his exgf...which by the way I found out from her that he was living with her when he first met me...and she also told me that now they are having sex....I just can not believe there are such cruel people in this world to hurt so many.........I am not sure now what love is or how it is suppose to be..he made me dinner and brought it up to my work and we ate together, gave me his tshirts that I loved made me nice gifts..ect so much ....and friends tell me now I was PLAYED!!?? so very sad, exgf said he cheated on her before and she took him back.

2007-10-22 05:28:29 · 14 answers · asked by ggggggg 1

2007-10-22 05:26:25 · 31 answers · asked by Barbara S 1

a good reason, why not just live a bachlors life....

2007-10-22 05:25:15 · 49 answers · asked by V C 2

2007-10-22 05:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by lincoln9057 1

My girlfriend is offering me a chance to get out of the strict agreement of sexual abstinence in the chastity belt for a year, it is an opt out agreement after a month in the belt. I can choose to get out now and never have to wear the belt again or I can choose to remain locked in it with the possiblility of release after 11 months. My girlfriend hopes that I can continue to wear the belt to prove my love to her until 11 months later when we register as civil partner, she will be really sad if I choose to stop wearing it now. I love her and would love to continue wearing it but I am not sure whether I can commit to wearing the belt for another 11 months since I am really desperate now after a month in the belt without intercourse and masturbation. Should i choose to get out now or wait for another 11 months facing the propspect of uncertain possibility of release?

2007-10-22 05:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my bf is the jealous type i cant talk to any other guy with out him getting mad at me and he knows that they are just my friends what should i do?

2007-10-22 05:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by ash 2

I went to visit an old gf who lives far, far away. When I got back home, I got a Fed Ex package from her containing a pair of her scented undies...I didn't request this....And, yes, I am serious--this did really happen....What do you think?

2007-10-22 05:19:53 · 26 answers · asked by nakedtruth 3

I've been with this guy for 3 weeks now.And we would hang out everyday.He said that he wanted to give me the world.He did so much to make me happy.But I am in the middle of a blackmail and I fear the drama isnt helping with our relationship.He said that he was going to be tied up this weekend and it wa nothing personal.I sent him 3 emails 2 were love letter types and one was concerning the blackmail.He only responded to the blackmail email and that was cold and blunt.I called him saturday at least 10 times and sent him 2 or 3 texts.I really regret it.Now i can get a hold of him at all. Did I scare him away?

2007-10-22 05:15:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mmy boyfriend makes me go on to diets and tells me to wear heaps of make-up because he says i'm too ugly for him. I tried to brake up with him but then he gets on his knees and begs for forgiveness!
I even caught him cheating!
I'm not miss perfect and i'm afraid if I lose him I will not find another one!
HELP!

2007-10-22 05:13:57 · 27 answers · asked by Laganasita 1

theres this new guy in school who i know likes me.. but we have nothing in common and i dont even want to be in a relationship at the moment! But he keeps trying to talk to me and all that in school and on msn and myspace... first i thought that maybe hes just trying to make new friends but everyone said that he never did that to them and that its so obvious :S well anyways, howw do i get him to back off? i dont want to tell him to just back of cuz its kinda rude and he never did anything to me to deserve that.. so any ideas?:S thanks

2007-10-22 05:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short I met this guy a month ago, we had relations after 2 weeks. Things were going fine until a conversation came up about oral u know what. After that he started to become distant and he was always telling me I'll call u back and never would. I really liked him and thought the feeling was mutual but I havent heard from him in 6 days. Should I let it go or send him a text/ phone call to see whats up. The thing is Im not that kinda girl and I dont want him to think I am. I'm actually hurt by the situation and I'll regret it if I just brush it off? What should I do...or say?

2007-10-22 05:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by violet83 2

My boy's best friend is a pervert! He has 2 kids from 2 different girls, he cheats on his girlfriend, and he hits on me! That is why I actually quit talking to him, cause at one point he was my friend. He also talks sh*t about my guy to everyone! It is almost maybe a jealousy thing? He looks for "tail" anywhere it is available.. he is just discusting! But my boy won't just end it with him! They have been friends for so long, I know it is hard to give that up, but I would have no issues giving up my best if she treated me that way! At some point, you have to put your self respect ahead of toxic friendships, I think. Being that this is how his best friend acts, should I be worried about how my boyfriend acts when he is alone with him? How should I deal with this issue? I don't want to try and tell my guy what to do, but I have seen "toxic" friendships, and I think that this is one of them...

2007-10-22 05:07:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This sounds contradicting...but is it possible? Would some girls like/be interested in you but at the same time would not go out on a date with you? Possible? WHY? Opinions please.

2007-10-22 05:06:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i work in a business type atmosphere. The women here dress in business type outfits, some are a bit revealing and a lot of the women are attractive just like most work places.

Anyways I was talking with female employee, she was squating near my work station, i could see down her blouse and I became slightly arroused. She asked me to join her for a smoke break. Well when I stood up I noticed I was actually very arroused. I don't know if she noticed, but I think she did, I had to sit down quickly and told her that I had an important email to send out and I would join her next time.

My question for you women is, does this happen often, and are you able to notice when such things happen.

2007-10-22 05:00:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean when a girl says i like you but im not ready

2007-10-22 04:53:33 · 26 answers · asked by saifu 2

me ill say about 7 times a week lol almost everyday lol!!!!! but im young i need it!!! RAWR!!!

2007-10-22 04:52:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 04:44:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf of 6 months and I recently broke up (we're both 25). We had backed off a little a month or so ago because he felt like we should slow down, but we were still intimate and still hung out and talked all the time. I foolishly thought that meant something. Finally when I talked to him about getting back together he said he's super attracted to me and has a great time with me, but doesn't want a serious relationship right now. (He's going to europe for a few months and loves to just hang out with the guys) He said he can see himself getting really attached to me and isn't ready for that.

WTF. I don't get it... if you are attracted to someone, have great chemistry with them, and enjoy spending time with them, why would you back off like that? Is not wanting to be in a serious relationship a real excuse, or is it a cop-out? I'm sad and I'm taking it very personal. Do you think if it really is a commitment thing, or is he letting me down easy?

2007-10-22 04:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by Leah 3

i went out to eat saturday night and my waitress and i talked for awhile, by the end of the night before i left she said let me give you something. and she gave me her number, without me having asked for it, and said maybe we can go out for lunch sometime. ok well i texted her later on, just saying its me, and this is my number so you will have it. no respond. well i called around 7ish on sunday left a message, just saying just wanted to see if you wanted to get together this week and do something, give me a call back. well its monday morning obviously and i was just wondering what the deal is. i know she works alot, but to not have time to return a call or text. i mean why would she give me her number and not return the phone calls? any tips on what i should do?

2007-10-22 04:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by Josh 3

my bf spent the night at another girls house. it was late saturday like 11pm we were parting ways, he was goin to a bar and i was goin to my bros apartment to drink(since im under 21). he was at the bar with two male friends and a female friend of theirs, which was fine..... another friend was supposed to show(a girl) but she never went. so he didnt leave the bar till about 2 or 3 that morning. so... he decides to call this friend(girl) that didnt show and ask why she wasnt there. he was drunk, and she was like "you know i live real close to where youre at? you can stay at my house" so he goes there. i dont know if he drives or she comes for him, but he went. he said they drank for a bit and talked for a while, him, this friend(girl) and a friend(girl) of hers. then slept for like an hour, when he got a call from his mom telling him he had to go to work.... then he went to work and didnt tell me any of this (he had chances to) untill about three in the afternoon sunday. ....

2007-10-22 04:34:46 · 16 answers · asked by para_servirle 2

ok soo i just posted a question. i said that i didnt like this geek and he asked me out. i also said that im a cheerleader and hes a in the band. people r calling my a bi**c and it really hurts. they think that just cuz im a cheerleader im the meanest person ever. i just dont like da guy u know. and i did feel srry for him. big woop. watever well why r people sooo mean?>??

2007-10-22 04:30:03 · 14 answers · asked by Cheerleadingkutie 1

he just had a birthday and i dont know what to get him. he is coming to my house for thanksgiving to spend a few days with us and meet my family. What is a good gift for him. he loves to hunt and fish. and he says that he is a redneck

2007-10-22 04:29:56 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

im trying to forget about somebody i have been frinds with him fo r awhile and i started to like him as more than just a friend i started to like him more after we made out one night we were just hanging out and then he pulled me close and just started to kiss me after that he told me he wanted to get a little more physical but since he is 18 and i am 16 he wanted to wait till i was 17 he said that last tuesday and he hasnt said anything to me since i have tried to talk to him cuz i really like him and i wanted to talk to him about it but he hasnt responded i wrote him a message on friday night i know he has read it but he hasnt said anything back and in the message i told him that if he didnt want to respond i would understand but lately i have been really down whenever i think about him and wat happened that one night i was told that if i did the chasing i wouldnt get anywhere so i have been trying really hard not to say anything to himbut its really hard i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-22 04:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer 1