So i work in a business type atmosphere. The women here dress in business type outfits, some are a bit revealing and a lot of the women are attractive just like most work places.
Anyways I was talking with female employee, she was squating near my work station, i could see down her blouse and I became slightly arroused. She asked me to join her for a smoke break. Well when I stood up I noticed I was actually very arroused. I don't know if she noticed, but I think she did, I had to sit down quickly and told her that I had an important email to send out and I would join her next time.
My question for you women is, does this happen often, and are you able to notice when such things happen.
2007-10-22 05:00:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I try not to wear low cut blouses or skirts to work. Some of the girls in my office do but I find that they get their way more often because the guys aren't paying attention to anything but their chest.
2007-10-22 05:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by rachel b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, unless it was right in her face, like you stood while she was still down, then she probably had NO idea.
most women, at least women i know and myself, well, we don't really look at crotches. we look at guys faces and bodies, but the middle of the pants is one spot that, unless it's right in front of our faces...or you're marky mark on a calvin klein billboard...we don't pay that much attention.
chances are she didn't notice. how did she act after you stood up and then sat back down?
in my life i have NEVER noticed a guy get aroused around me and i've been come onto by MANY guys in every place i've ever worked. a gal gets used to these things.
i think a hard on is more noticable to other men than it is to us.
we don't get em, so we forget that you guys have an instant 1-10 scale in your pants.
hope that helps! take care:)
p.s.
as for can we notice...sure, we are able to notice if we happen to catch it or someone tells us about it.
my husband has pointed it out to me before....like "honey, look what you just did...thanks:)" and then i see it...
my guess...she was clueless unless it was RIGHT there in her face.
2007-10-22 12:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she noticed she was probably pleased she was able to turn you on. Wow it didn't take you much to be aroused. If it bothered her she needs to dress more appropriate at work. I had a guy who was aroused just by standing behind me and it was a little bit of a turn on. Some woman would be upset, but, I feel good if I make someone else happy. That to me is a turn on.
2007-10-22 12:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by bigjuggies79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aroused men, from looking down your shirt or up your skirt is just another part of life...
It doesn't bother me, (kind of a compliment, actually)unless they start reaching for what they are looking at...
And yes, you notice most of the time, and no, you don't intentionally put yourself in that position...
Although, a woman in a short tight skirt, squatted down or bent over shouldn't complain about lookers, if she didn't want them to look she should wear pants....
2007-10-22 12:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't spend my time staring at men's crotches, but I do notice sometimes. If she was squatting, it makes it more likely that she saw. Also, it sounds like you were very embarrassed, which might have made her look.
I don't think it happens often, but it does happen, and if she noticed, she was probably just flattered (specially if she was flirting with you). Don't be too hard on yourself;p
2007-10-22 12:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Marie Antoinette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it doesnt happen often because i do not put myself in such positions or maybe im just not the hottie i used to be (boo hoo).
but yea you can notice if this happens to a man you are talking to. women look at men the same way men look at women. I will see a man and for a brief second wonder about what he is packing. so yea you can notice because women look there. just like men look at boobs and butts.
2007-10-22 12:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by neverlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she had the sudden urge to go camping. Of course she noticed man, women are always looking to see if they excite guys, especially the hotter ones. Next time it happens, just go with her, who gives a flying f uck?
Good luck!
Da King
Master of the Master Joker
2007-10-22 12:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, i will notice if a guy likes me, but i probably won't notice a guy being aroused by just an innocent gesture, unless i got caught sight in your lower part. Don't worry she might not notice you....
2007-10-22 12:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by G_Lahcim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never noticed it where I work....my department only has a few guys in it though.
2007-10-22 12:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a horney little thing aren't you? I really don't think women check a guys crotch out to see if she got him hot & bothered.
2007-10-22 12:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋