I am 22. I try to be a good girl and strict to my values by focus schooling, working, making my parent proud, being a virgin, being faitful to the one I love...
But it seems like the persons whom I love do not even acknowledge my values. Moreover, they end up hate me.
First..
This guy and I love each other for three years. I told him a long time ago --"I am not ready for a relationship because I want to accomplish my goals" He wants to wait for me. He waited for three years. Recently, he gave up. I have tried to explain to him, but he does not want to talk to me anymore.
Second..
This guy likes me for four years. I have been telling him many many times that "I just want to be friend" "You are my good friend" he did not understand and accept the facts. He tries to take advantage from me. When I defensed myself, he was angry. He did not want to talk to me anymore.
As a result, I end up being the bad person.
What can I do? What can I learn from these situation?
2007-10-22
06:37:09
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