i went out with a guy for 4 months
and last week we broke up and decided to be friends.
but he told me that we were just taking a brake and we would wait and see what happend with us later. but he also said that
if we could see other people.
and know it seems like he wants to go back.
but alot of people dont want us together there happy that were not together and i still love him very much. but we've been through alot and he was acting different before the brake up he wasint the same he just didnt say i love you anymore and i had told him that he wasint the same and he said that he didint feel the same way about me and that he still didnt want to brake up cuz he still loved me.but know i dont know if i should be with him i want to but i dont want to get hurt so what should i do?
2007-10-22 06:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by [[S t e p h]] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go. It didn't work the first time. It's not going to work at all. Take it from experiance
2007-10-22 06:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes not the same and isn't willing to try to make you 2 work then i think its best to move on. its hard but it would be for the best and save you from hurting in the long run. waiting for it will just make it worse! trust me on this one. hes obviously not going to straighten up and that break shows he doesn't really care about you as much as maybe he did or you thought he did
2007-10-22 13:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because somebody says they love you that doesn't mean it is really true. I think you both seem to care for one another, and that's cool. Remember, you can love somebody and not have to date them. Love is a respect and admiration for somebody else. It doesn't mean you're stuck to them for the rest of your life. Good luck, hope some of this helps you out????
2007-10-22 13:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Toby T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your friends cuz they know better about brake ups cuz they know you better and feel the same and still want you to brake up cuz they know it is better since he stopped acting the same and not saying I love you back and you weren't really happy cuz braking up is bad and it hurt so much cuz they are your friends and don't want him acting like different cuz and brake up and be friends
2007-10-22 13:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list of the pros and cons (be honest), and hope that helps you decide. you can't make it work if the two of you aren't fully committed to each other, and to making it work. if your friends are glad that you aren't dating, determine if they have some good reasons (if he's rude to you, possessive, etc), not that they're jealous you spend time with him. they may see something you don't. good luck!
2007-10-22 13:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Alyse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just worry about yourself, go on with your life, and be happy!!!! If his feelings aren't strong for you then he's not worth anything to you and you can get better!!! Good luck!!!
2007-10-22 13:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by ambrosiasninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is abusing you or just an unemployed loser, you should be with him. Dont care about what everyone thinks.
2007-10-22 13:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-10-22 13:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋