Singles & Dating - 22 October 2007

I have a very dear friend, of 18 years, who is very deep into drugs. He smokes weed several times a day, takes shrooms, drinks a lot..He has done a lot worse in the past, but he "says" he doesn't do that stuff anymore. I absolutely love him to death. we have tried to talk about it several times and he says "I love weed and I am not going to quit! " then he turns around and tells me that I am the best friend he has. Sometimes I am able to "guilt" him into not doing things. I really want to help him, but I am not sure how. I only want the best for him. i want him to have a really good life and not live in a fog all the time. He wants to date me and I tell him that I can't because we are on different pages as far as drugs and the like. I do love him and actually would be very into us being together, but I feel a much stronger need to help him. For some reason I feel like I am supposed to help him--it's in my gut. I just don't know how or what to say. We are almost 30 now???

2007-10-22 14:41:21 · 27 answers · asked by pinkdog 2

My fiancee and I have had plenty of intimacy in the past but lately she seems to not want to even think about any type of physichal intimacy. She told me she didn't want to have sex because she fears becoming pregnant, and I respect that. But there are plenty we can do without getting her pregnant but she doesn't seem to want to do anything. She's not cheating on me, and she has told me time and time again that she is fine with having physichal contact as long as it's not sex. But, she keeps avoiding it and always has an excuse. I wont leave her because I love her to death, but do you have any ideas to help me through this? Intimate physichal contact is important to me in our relationship and this rejection has got me very depressed.

2007-10-22 14:37:24 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy Lee 1

2007-10-22 14:26:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy likes me and I show the signs that I like him too. It's been 3 (almost 4) months since we did that. I'm athletic, curvy, and pretty. Why is he taking so long?? I thought it was the girls who were like that. I'm pretty sure that he likes me because I gave him notes and he would reply and his friends say that he likes me.

2007-10-22 14:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this girl and I like her so much! But she’s only 14 and I'm 18 (I will 19 in May) I've decided to let her go and not to pursue a relationship, even though I like her a lot and shes pretty mature for her age. I like her more than I've ever liked anyone, she fascinates me. She’s just incredible.... Do you think I'm doing the right thing by letting her go?

Sometimes love sucks... if she was only a little older.... I hope I'm doing the right thing and I hope that I wont end of regreting this for a long time.

2007-10-22 14:24:03 · 20 answers · asked by John 4

I like 1 of the hottest guys in my school & I look good for him especially, every day, but he never notices me until this 1 day

[he was talking too much w/ friends & the teacher had him removed from his seat. now he sits next to me.

I was in a rush so I just forced out a "hi" and he seem surpriced, he gave me ackward "hi" back and shot me the do-i-know-you look and start to laugh really hard??

Later into the lesson he started to pull my hair with all his strenght really hard I was shocked and I started to cry.

he did that a couple times until the teacher got fed up and send him back to his old seat with his friends.....

so...he did that to get back to his buddies., is that understandable? and so... then, am I now more aproachable to him?

How do I stand a chance against all the blond girls who are totally throwing themselves at him?

2007-10-22 14:23:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy who i really like, but he has a gf (who he never talks to). don't get me wrong, im not the type of girl to steal someone else's guy but it always seems like he flirts with me.

1) whenever he makes jokes he always looks at me
2) he calls me Danielle even though he knows my real name
3) he always plays with my locker when we're at them at the same time
4) when i say something wrong he makes fun of me (jokingly)
5) in history, we had to switch and correct each other's paper. when we're done we're supposed to give it to someone else to correct. he spent the whole class on mine doodling all over it.
6) today he hardly talked to me at all. i think my friend told him that i felt like he didn't like me cuz he immediately started talking to me, being obnoxious and loud, and making jokes (yet again looking at me all the time)

does he like me or is he just being a guy? please answer this, i really want to know ♥

2007-10-22 14:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was reading a "Dear so and so" article today and this guy had two girlfriends at least and a fiance. What are these ppl's deals?

2007-10-22 14:22:54 · 42 answers · asked by ♥Celebrity Hotline♥ (Thumbs up!) 7

This girl started IMing me and telling me how much she loves me. She saw a few pictures of me on a site. My ex is on the same site so I thought it was her, playing a prank. I called my ex and she said it was not her. I even gave this girl my cell number because I thought it was my ex playing a joke. The IM's from her have intensified and now she is saying that she wants to come here this weekend to meet me. She lives in another state and said that she will call me with her flight number. Is this really my ex wanting to come back to me, or is there just some girl out there that is so desperate?

2007-10-22 14:21:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any songs that are about a person talking to their lover and the person is saying how their lover has changed for the worse. How they aren't the same person they fell in love with. Any suggestions????? Thanks in advance :)

2007-10-22 14:21:35 · 23 answers · asked by Little Lotte 3

i have a bf and i love him (or atleast i think i do) how do i know if i really love him or if i just think i love him or anything like that?

2007-10-22 14:19:04 · 29 answers · asked by BeautyVal 2

If so, how many?
Also, what can one of those girls (or any girl) do to grab your attention and be your #1 attraction?

If that makes sense. (:
Thankyooouu.

2007-10-22 14:18:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talkin 2 my new boyfriend 4 two 1/2 months now. But when I first met him he told me he just got out of a 7yrs relationship. The first thing came 2 my mind is that no way is he over this girl. But he told me they r. They have not been together 4 1yr now. But I think they r still hooking up or something because they are always talking 2 each other on myspace, I know this 4 a fact because I read his message she post up, then I turn around and read her message he posted up. And the message always talk about 4 instance 2 day they was talking about mondays 1/2 dk somewhere and she knew he had 2 many and said we r goin 2 have 2 do this again. How would she know that if they don't see each other. Kind of strange. But she never call his phone and he never call her phone i always check 2 make sure. I just don't feel comfortable that he is through talkin 2 her. But it could b me I can just be over my self thinking something is goin on. I need help. Some type of solution....

2007-10-22 14:18:04 · 20 answers · asked by Q T 1

2007-10-22 14:14:12 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 1

kissing is fun
but wen do u like to go farther then 2nd base?

wen eva u can?
after a few dates?
u dont remeber ever doing it cause ur always drunk?

2007-10-22 14:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf doesnt want to spend the holidays with me, should i be mad?
so we 've been dating for about a year now and this is the first year that i am living on my own ( my parents are diplomats and are living in another country now)
so i asked my bf if he is willing to spend the new year with me (i dont celebrate christmas) and he said : "i always spend holidays at home with my parents"
i feel mad, first of all because this is the first time i will be spending holidays by myself, 2nd i only have my best girlfriend in this country and him and no one else .
i am not asking him to bring me home to his family , but i want him to be with me, and so i am mad
he said he can come after the midnight, but its not the same to me...............

2007-10-22 13:52:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even when nobody sees them?

2007-10-22 13:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

"What are you looking at?"I asked in my best flirty voice.
"What are you looking at?"He replied in a flirty voice.I huffed like I was mad,and turned around.On the inside,though,I felt like I was going to explode.That had not just happened.Okay,just keep your cool.No one will notice,and at lunch,you can talk to Rachel and Molly about it.Right now,focuss on math.MATH...MATH...MATH,,,MATH!But Andrew`s adorable eyes kept popping up in my head.I drifted into an unknown world.I awoke to the substitute shaking me.
"Did you have a good dream?"she asked.
"Huh?"I asked and rubbed my eyes.I noticed everyone was staring at me.
"You`ve been asleep for half an hour.At recess,you can make-up the time,"she replied shortly.I groaned silently to myself.I started singing Hannah Montana`s "Best of Both Worlds".
"you get the limo out front..."
I was cut off by the lunch bell.As you can guess,I was first out the door.

2007-10-22 13:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The HIV virus does not seem to be a natural virus. It seems to be a man made retrovirus. If so, who could've possibly invented it? The HIV pandemic is less than 37 years old, which leads me to theorize that it was not naturally created, but possibly created by some kind of mad scientist or sick psycho. I would appreciate your help and your answers. Thank you.

2007-10-22 13:37:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

im going to the dance with this guy & ive been playing it cool & im afraid if i play it cool any longer he'll think im not intrested! can anyone give me little ways i can flirt without coming on TOO forward?

2007-10-22 12:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by cameron c 2

Run down of bills

I credit card bill a lil under 1,000
Student loan not exceed 20k
Car note and 350 a month
Bus card of about 85 dollars a month
lunch for work

How many people have had these expenses and still was able to afford a one bed room apartment in a top city (Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles). I am in dying need to move out. Paying 300 in rent already with no room to save. Must do it now. Thanks for all help!

2007-10-22 12:45:58 · 4 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3

ok so there is this kid... he is a geek like me... he is into wow and guitar hero... so am I... he seems to always make an effort to talk to me and be around me... I think I could really like him... I want him to ask me to semi but I might just do it... should I give him my number and ask him to hangout and does he like me?

2007-10-22 12:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by Justicana 2

You still have feelimgs for that person. You guys were young and now all grown up and this person comes to you say they still love you what would you do?

2007-10-22 12:36:52 · 2 answers · asked by sexykiki1739 1

Ok so heres the thing this guy is like totally awesome.!!
Hes like one of my best friends.!! My friends are all like go out with him hes so nice.!! Hes not the hottest kid around but hey Im not going to judge a book by its cover.!! He always sticks up for me and fights for my side.!! But I am afraid that if we go out and break up we wont be able to just be friends.!! What will happen has this ever happened to you.?!?!?!?!? I don't want to loose my friend.!! HELP.!!PLEASE NO NEGGITIVE.!!

2007-10-22 12:34:48 · 2 answers · asked by Awesomely Me! 1

My guy friend the other night asked me to pick him up. When i got there he stood outside my car for a few minutes and he said " I want you to know even though i don't show it often but ( pause) I think that your really awesome?" He seemed like it took him alot to say it. Is he trying to tell me he likes me more than a friend or was he just being random and friendly and just was really appreciative of a ride even thought i give him rides all the time.

2007-10-22 12:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Caroline C 1

2007-10-22 12:30:03 · 3 answers · asked by Mel 1

I'm currently in a relationship and this afternoon my boyfriend started asking questions about what I wanted out of our relationship. My response was, I wanted us to grow into a more serious relationship.

He was not pleased with my answer...

He brought up an earlier conversation and in that particular conversaton I said that I was not "in" love, but I indeed do love him and my feelings are growing stronger every day.

He later expressed to me that he feels he is already "there" and he is waiting on me. I told him that I never said that I did not love him, but I was not "in" love, but in time my feelings will change BUT I am not rushing it. My reasons for not rushing is because we are still a young couple, only a year, and I still feel like we are getting to know one another.

He began saying that if I did not know *now*, then... - and he never finished his sentence, so I got the assumption he felt like he was wasting his time with me. Of course, he wanted me to try and

2007-10-22 12:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some day's I feel real good when I'm around her and some days I feel all weird. Like today she came to my work and had lunch with me and she seemed kind of down. She said she was bored because she was home all day. Now she all happy and kissing me and sitting on my lap. It's like the feelings are going up and down. Is it just me or could there be something wrong?

2007-10-22 12:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by pramon0119 1

About Sex and Boyfriends

2007-10-22 12:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 12:18:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous