Singles & Dating - 22 October 2007

he says he is having problems with his gf..and has also told me i'm the one.. yet he hasnt left her..
am i stupid to stay, is it wisest to go?
what and how do i ask him to make a choice?

2007-10-22 18:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by mestizachinita 1

2007-10-22 18:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda C 1

over the summer, i was in a serious fling with a guy who lives in a diff state. we still like each other and actually are planning on visiting each other. tho he is very intense with me and sounds nearly desperate for me, on the phone.. he is inconsistent with his communication -- i think becuz he is trying to play games and is insecure with himself and worries that he won't keep my interest (well hes smart.. becuz he definitely has kept me on my toes). however i also wanna keep him on his toes while at the same time avoiding games. PROBLEM = he plays so many gamesss (So much so, i feel i should play back in order to keep him interested). HOWEVER he also has big trust issues, so i feel like playing these games back just makes him wonder more if he can trust me or not. im worried tho that if all of sudden i beome very persistent and become the one always calling him, he won't feel he needs to chase me/pursue me anymore and thus may lose his interest. how should i act in this situation?

2007-10-22 17:58:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 17:57:22 · 4 answers · asked by Dave T 2

I mean im 14, should 16,17, be checking me out. I mean It's flattering but all the time....and second im with my mom.why do older guys stare at me like a piece of meat?

2007-10-22 17:53:36 · 9 answers · asked by **lexus** 1

He was never so much like this before until now. Why? Is it to get a reaction out of me or what is it? I don't get it. All of a sudden out of nowhere? He teases me playfully all the time these days and it does get annoying. It's not mean, but here are examples: When we're walking or he has the door open for me, he'll tell me to "hurry up" or "quickly". He'll ask me what I ordered for lunch and I tell him what I got, he'll say that it's "sissy food". When I ask him what's up, he'll reply "the sky". He does all this with a smile. I don't get it!!! Then when I accuse him of being mean to me, he'll ask "how"? and reach over and touch me/hold my hand. WTF?????

2007-10-22 17:51:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so my ex and I were dating for about a half a year... I really liked her, treated her well, bought her gifts, made her laugh hysterically. We were away from each other for the summer, but kept in communication for most of the summer. When we got back to school, she dumps me and says she just wants to be friends with me. Obviously, there's more to the breakup, but is it too late to find out, and if not, how do I ask her? I've been dying to know for the past 7 weeks and have been in a lot of emotional pain. I really miss her, too... for some reason. She dumps me, yet I want her back. It's too weird. I really want to get on with my life, but I haven't been able to forget about her. I still care for her, and the girls I've been meeting don't make me feel like she did.

2007-10-22 17:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by Ben 2

2007-10-22 17:46:17 · 50 answers · asked by neha A 1

In the context of when some is said to have too much drama in there life’s.

2007-10-22 17:44:09 · 22 answers · asked by . 1

Okay, normally I wouldnt go to a site like this to get relationship advice but it's a quick easy way to get some ideas. I have been with a girl for 6 months and we are in college together. Recently she has made it clear to me that she no longer enjoys kissing me or touching me at all like we used to do. We used to make out regularly and it added some spice to our already great relationship. Recently she has been kind of mean sometimes and kind of moody. I dont know whether or not it's just something to do with the college atmosphere or whether or not there's enough passion. So she's decided to take a break from kissing for a while so that she can adjust and see if she will like it. I really dont want to break up with her but if things continue like this with no passion I think I will be forced to. She says that for now we will just act like friends and hook up on the weekends for dates. So I'm just asking for some serious adult advice. Thank You very much.

2007-10-22 17:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous 1

My boyfriend, and i have a long distance realation ship, he is 14 and im 15.
At the monent he is going through the state of depression, Last night he told me he is going to kill himself!!! last night i keept trying to change his mind, but he wouldd't budge.
Now he isn't awnsering my txt msgs , or he won't awnser his calls. He has already seen a therapst, and he bit there head off with in the first 5minutes of being there.
What do I do, PLEASE HELP!!

2007-10-22 17:36:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is a great guy, but sometimes he's really nice to me and sometimes he seems distant away. he admits that he's still in love with his ex, even though he does like me in a special way. we have great times together, but once in awhile something would remind him of his ex and he would only think about that.....even when that relationship ended more than 3 years ago....
i really like him, but i can't stand him thinking about another woman when he's with me. he doesn't seem to get better either. i just don't know what to do now.

2007-10-22 17:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by feb 1

I ve been waiting and I know my time is getting close. but what if i dont marry till im thirty? and what if he is not a virgin.

2007-10-22 17:20:35 · 26 answers · asked by Brina.B. 2

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago but he still calls me every other week to see how the kids and I are doing and to throw things in my face but my question is how do I get over my heart break. This weekend I found out he is dating someone new and it broke me in two. What can I do to get over him??? I already told him to stop calling me but I want some ideas how I can get over him other than time will heal the pain.

2007-10-22 17:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by Sammie 1

is it bad that e pnd my boyfriend have oral sex. whenever i hang out with him i always end up in his bed room, . he says if i dont have sex with him then i dont truly love him. what should i do??

2007-10-22 17:07:41 · 49 answers · asked by cutie pie 1

just a survey, let me know what your personal opinions are.. should PROSTITUTION be legalized in the united states?

me personally, i think it should, just curious as to others thoughts!!

2007-10-22 17:06:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm friends (for right now) with a young woman who is 26 years old and I'm 51 but I wonder if we should date or not?
(at least one good thing her parents like me) but right
now I see this relationship is more like Big Brother -little sister
but I;m slowly getting fond of her but my friends say her
parents would never let me date her!
(even though we have been to some event together)
am I robbing the cradle here?
we do have a lot in common though

2007-10-22 17:04:56 · 9 answers · asked by mobilemark 7

ok my x and are off and on but hes gunna ask me out how do i turn him down in the nicest way?

2007-10-22 17:03:01 · 4 answers · asked by Jojo 1

I wana dedicate a song to someone but i wana kno if its wierd to do that.
The song i wana dedicate to her is Roulette by System of a down. If u kno dis song tell me wat u would say 2 a guy if he dedicated this 2 u.

2007-10-22 16:56:28 · 4 answers · asked by wierdo 69 2

what would you do if your current boyfriend was talking to you about his deep dark past... and told you about how he was a sex offender.....
my boyfriend when he was almost 17 got charged and arrested for rape of a 13 year old... because he thought she was 16 because that is what she said she was.. they had a one night stand. he lost his virginity that night. didn't know what came over him.. but it happened... set off his life into Many other problems....
but say he told you all this... what would you do and would you feel differently about him? would you worry he would do that to you? i need serious help. please.

2007-10-22 16:56:16 · 15 answers · asked by My N 1

I am really in love with a guy that is 45yrs old, I am 23yrs old, I knew him since I was 18, I met him through my ex husband Gary, his best friend, well was. My ex and I split up 2yrs ago we did because his best friend got between us and I fell madly in love with him, even though my ex was controlling and abusive and had to leave the marriage, we have a 3yr old son together. his best friend told me while I was married that he wanted me and that he loved me and I should have went with him instead of my ex, so since then my marriage went down the drain. Anyways, he told me that he still loved me and cared for me, we had sex and then a week later he dumped me, and made rude remarks to me about my body, he begain to through other women's names in my face to get me jelous I guess, I called him once a week to say hello to him, to see how he was doing, he then changed his number on me. I asked him why he did what he did to me, he said '' gary told me to stay away from you and Kyle.

2007-10-22 16:52:53 · 2 answers · asked by Andrea C 1

so how do you know when your relationship will soon come to end

2007-10-22 16:50:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do we women put so much time and effort into trying to turn the wrong man into the right man? Why do we associate sex with feelings, while men remain emotionally detached? Why do we enter into a relationship looking to find our husband while men look to find a sexual partner with occassional conversation?

2007-10-22 16:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by lovililadi 2

This question can be for the married or the single. You still date when your married, don't you?

2007-10-22 16:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by Fancy You 6

what does that mean? And is it a ghood thing?

2007-10-22 16:45:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a small problem with 2 girls..

The first one is very sexy, long soft hair, blue eyes, nice body, and very smart, she's among the best in my university, but she has a very slutty personality which I don't like.

The second one is much less attractive and less bright, she's a little cute but she's not sexy, she has the most beautiful nose and lips I've ever seen in my life, she wears glasses and has weird eye brows and her face is round. However, I'm totally into her personality.

Both of them have a crush on me, but I'm looking for a serious relationship so normally the second one is much more suitable, but something keeps me away from both if y'know what I mean...

my friend says that I'm greedy, but I'm not shallow either.

2007-10-22 16:45:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lives with you and all, says he thinks its best you split, but when you ask him if he's sure this is what he wants he says he not sure, but for now he thinks its best? Obviously split,but, honestly, if YOU said this to someone that you say youre still in love with, what would you expect that person to do? How should I react, move on completely, or move on with expectations, that we may get back?

2007-10-22 16:40:57 · 9 answers · asked by dnk0717 3

I love this show. Someone talk to me. That is not a question, but ya..

2007-10-22 16:35:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 16:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by lupita 2

I'm thinking about asking this woman out from the gym I go to and I've never been on a date.(go ahead and laugh). What would be a decent place for a first date. What to do or go do?
A decent restaraunt? We're both level headed people.

2007-10-22 16:33:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous