What would you do? Which one?

Question

I have a small problem with 2 girls..

The first one is very sexy, long soft hair, blue eyes, nice body, and very smart, she's among the best in my university, but she has a very slutty personality which I don't like.

The second one is much less attractive and less bright, she's a little cute but she's not sexy, she has the most beautiful nose and lips I've ever seen in my life, she wears glasses and has weird eye brows and her face is round. However, I'm totally into her personality.

Both of them have a crush on me, but I'm looking for a serious relationship so normally the second one is much more suitable, but something keeps me away from both if y'know what I mean...

my friend says that I'm greedy, but I'm not shallow either.

Answer 1

You should go with the 2nd girl. You already said yourself the 2nd one is better for you. You are both still maturing and changing. The problems you see with the 2nd girl sounds fixable to me. She can get rid of her eyeglasses and get a brow wax job. She can style her hair to complement her round face. You definitely want to have a serious relationship with someone you enjoy being around with and are friends first.
Some people are book smart but not street smart. Knowing how to act and how to handle other people is far more important in life.
Start to like yourself for who you are. Then you'll stop worrying about who you're seen with and whether they're hot or not.

Answer 2

You decide! Here is only my personal opinion. Time and tide waits for no man. They may be all ugly after several years. I mean looks are not the most important. Maybe the article can help you more or less(http://www.agematch.com/blog/agegap) You'd better choose a suitable partner to lead your real life in the long run.

Answer 3

You know, leave the slutty. You don't want "sloppy seconds" if you know what I mean. I think you would do well with the second chick, I mean it's fine if she is not gorgeous, she is still cute and has beautiful facial features. Glasses on girls make them look sophisticated, that's nice and eye brows styles can change, I mean its not like her nose is big and ugly or something...Good luck.

Answer 4

Tell them both what you feel.

Also be sure you don't label the one that has a "slutty personality". That may be an act because she is very self conscious or unsure of herself.

Looks are not everything, some 40 years from now your both gonna look like a prune. It natures way of telling you looks are not where its at. Looks don't make the Alpha wolf the leader do they?

Answer 5

why do people always assume that when yu can't decide between two people, a third or fourth or fifth attempt to find the right one is out of the question
the answer is neither, keep looking, and yu'll eventually meet the right one and you'll know

she won't be perfect either, but you'll both feel the same way about each other, and that helps a lot

Answer 6

I think that maybe you should get with the brunette only because if you say that the blonde is slutty then well huh there you go u answered your own question the blonde might cheat on you especially if you are looking for a serious rekationship

Answer 7

Reading about the second one, and the fact that, to me, it seems like you've already made up your mind. The "Slutty personality" line shows that you aren't into that type, and it shows that you are willing to accept #2's flaws.

Answer this on your own

You already have

Answer 8

Go with the second one unless you want to be cheated on, slutty personality's are never a good sign of morals.

Answer 9

well as a chick i would go for the less smart/sexy girl as when you into someones personality there looks can grow on you, it is unusual to have the vise versa.

if you not prepared to put your whole heart and soul into the one you choose to date, dont bother

no offense

Answer 10

the first one, you'll probably have problems with. she maybe immature yet. you can try to date her but see if she strays. the other one, you probably never have that sexual spark with. but you can also try and see where it goes. sometimes you fall inlove with the person and then the attraction comes later. its no biggy try both. but i learned that when the right person comes along you will know for sure. it takes two people to be ready for such a comitment. really it took me 37 yrs for it! lol. then i was ready for my beautful boyfriend i have now. and we bought a home together and we are talking about having a child. aaa then marriage later. lol