if a guy has feelings for a girl will he not tell his friends?

Question

The guy I like, we flirted when we were a bit drunk.I know.but people there that night said I think he does like you.This guy has never had a gf and doesnt have a whole lot of confidence. I almost told him I liked him but backed out and left.He left me a voicemail sayin"Hope u got back 2 your room ok I'll IM u tomorrow" and he did,kept asking me ?'s and if I was in headacheland. Ppl there that night pestered him afterwards, I guess nudgin him on to do something about me. They also did that "that night" but my crush didnt get mad then.1 of my pals there that night told me "He doesnt have feelings for you, simple as that, a 1000 ppl meddlin didnt help alot" He didnt tell any1 about the messages but my pal said "hes just stupid" He now knows Ive liked him since last yr.He keeps randomly sayin hi 2 me when he doesnt even look my way. 1 night when hangin out, he said hi 2 me when he entered the room.I wish if he didnt like me back he would ignore me.cHe doesnt know my pal told me that stuff

Answer 1

Guys don't talk about "feelings" with their friends, be that feelings for a girl or how hurt they were when they were passed over for a promotion. It's just not in their nature.

If you want this guy, try talking to him ... while you're both sober. Leave friends out of it; it's not good to involve other people in your business.