Singles & Dating - 30 September 2007

Alright. So my best friend at college has a little sister that just came up to school. He doesn't want me to have anything to do with her, but she is So Hot, and she keeps texting me and sending me messages on Facebook. What should I do? I would like to try and get to know her better, but I don't want to lose him as a friend. Also, their dad is my landlord, so it complicates things even further.

2007-09-30 20:25:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf of over 5 yrs will not have sex with me anymore. i know it's not supposed to be as often anymore but i dont remember the last time we had sex!! i know he watches a lot of porn and i KNOW im not ugly... !! he says he just doesn't feel like it... wtf. it's been over 3 months!

2007-09-30 20:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anna 2

My ex broke my heart time after time and I cannot learn to forgive her. I've tried prayer, talking about it with family and friends, and even research. Nothing seems to be working. Does this mean I am a bad person. My description of forgiveness means, " It doesn't hurt anymore ". What more can I do, cause I just don't know how to let it go......

2007-09-30 19:50:01 · 9 answers · asked by babydaddy 1

I live with my boyfriend - it has been 1 year and 8 months since we started dating but living together for the last 3 months only. Before that I was studying at uni and living on campus because of the hostel proximity with uni. I just started a job (high pay for a fresh grad), very happy with it. Thanks to the busy schedule for both of us, we have time to recuperate on weekends only - in other words, catching up with sleep. Weekends are not free from work, there may be things to do as well. Last weekend I was so tired that I fell asleep after reading part of a book that I have to (undergoing training on the job, and reading is part of it). He asked me whether I could help buy lunch, so I said half-awake that I wasn't hungry and then dozed off again. When I woke up, he had come back with packed lunch. So I suggested eating together, but he just said 'leave me alone, everyone treats me like a slave'.I cried silently outside while he took time to cool down alone in the room.

2007-09-30 19:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by bronzedgal 4

the signs that you are really into a guy like playing with your hair biting you lips shaking your legs or something? just wanna that is all. just want opinions please. thank you.

2007-09-30 19:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3

I'm and English guy, fed up with miserable, winging English girls.

2007-09-30 19:29:20 · 12 answers · asked by Christopher G 1

you found you were dating a 17 year old instead of a 19 what would you think and this is in regards to about my friends from before kyle and marisa cuz she lied to him and us and its getting out hand she said she wanted to kill her mother she really needs mental help and therapy. whats you take on this?

2007-09-30 19:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3

I need help with this

2007-09-30 18:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do u usually figure out ur spouse is cheating?what do u look for?(body language, excuses, signs) really anything that comes to mind.

2007-09-30 18:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

My friend told me about his single friend who was coming to our college as a freshman.He(the freshman)and I started flirting online a lot,before school started.Then,he started text-messaging me to ask me to hang out,but I was too busy for the first 2 weeks of school.Then,he invited me to his friend's frat party.I went with 3 guys(my girlfriends were busy).During the party,he seemed interested,and even sent me flirty txt-messages after.However,for the next few days,he stopped contacting me completely.I found out from my mutual friend that he was turned off bc I brought "rude"guys to the party.Anyway,after a few days,he contacted me again,and finally we spent some alone time together when he came over to give me guitar lessons.We ended up making out heavily.Before he left,he told me to call him the next day.However,I wanted to see if he would call me first.He didn't contact me till 2 days later,through AIM!recently,his laptop broke down,so now he barely talks to me unless I do first!

2007-09-30 18:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is always so quiet in real life but he becomes chatty on msn. He often tells me that he likes me and he misses me. He also tried asking me out. When I ask him whether he really miss me or like me he would say he was just joking with me. What does he behave in this way? Do you think he is into me or just flirting?

2007-09-30 18:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously.. what is the big deal? I don't know why everyone thinks that you should wait until marriage..

I'm 17 and in a relationship.. so why shouldn't we be able to have sex? Although I'm almost positive he is not the guy I will be spending the rest of my life with, we are in love and sex is based on natural urges and an expression of love.. so why not?

Opinions/thoughts?

2007-09-30 18:32:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m 20 yrs old, 5’7 130 and HAVE NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND. I try and play the game but the rules keep changing. First it’s personality over prestige, so I try to let go of inhibitions, not leaving reality completely, and I’m ignored for not being more concerned with the latest fashion or a nice car, so I slightly tilt the scale to prestige over personality, and buy a new mustang GT and plan my wardrobe like a chess move and then I’m ignored for lacking personality. My god, am I that repulsive, do I sound like a cement grinder, do I smell? What the hell am I missing? I don’t get it I don’t try to “hook-up” I try and ask if they would like to go get coffee or ice cream, instead of what seems to be the modern first date idea “Can I get you drunk sometime?” A lot of women will do horribly disgusting thing on film for the whole world to see for a pittance of a paycheck, yet coffee with me? My god, what would my family think? I’m not just trying to get laid or find someone hot, a girl can be hot yet not attractive to me, I’m looking for some one else who falls somewhere near me on the spectrum of life.

2007-09-30 18:23:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been out of the dating scene after a 3 year relationship. Finally ready to date again... I've been seeing this guy and we seem to really click. We aren't having sex or doing anything sexually - he's really respectable. But how many dates til I should expect him to ask me out officially? I'd really like him to be my boyfriend. Is there anything I should say so I know what he wants? He's a very shy guy. Thanks!

2007-09-30 18:20:58 · 3 answers · asked by Danielle M 1

we are just classmates..he did not show any interest in me before..but last week we came across in the hallway and he asked me out for a movie(very casual)..

then at a party, he said to two female mutual friends: hey L(my name), did you tell them we went to see a movie together yesterday?

and my female friend said: you and P(his name) went out for a date! I responded: no..it is not a date..just hang out...

then he said: L(my name), you can not say it does not mean anything...

what does this mean?!?

then today we met in the cafeteria..he invited me to his new house for thanksgiving and also house warming...(of course there are other friends...)

so I do not get him...is he interested or just I think too much?
be frank..thanks!!

2007-09-30 18:04:58 · 1 answers · asked by x x 1

I left his house at about 10 pm and walked 4 blocks home in the dark in this rural community. I helped him unload 3 boxes full of shelving from his truck and carry his groceries in. He offered to walk home with me, but he already had gotten ready for bed, so I declined the walk along. I didnt really want him to think it was going to turn into a sex thing, so I left quietly. I figured he would call to see I made it ok and to tell me goodnite, but he didnt. Is it wrong to expect him just to check up on me. Am I wrong to think he should be a little considerate since I didnt encourage him to walk me home?

2007-09-30 17:47:13 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6

He has a few classes with me so he always walks me to my next class
I'm pretty sure he likes me and I'm trying to make it clear that I'm not interested but I don't think it's working
its gotten to the point where ive ditched him a couple of times but still not working
he even follows me when i got to talk to some of my besties and my ex

what do i do?

2007-09-30 17:29:43 · 11 answers · asked by OneTrueQueen 3

there's this one girl at my high school, we dont talk but she kept on staring at me but when i look back she seems to start looking away. When i passed by her in the hallway she seems to give me a glance and started to scream her friends name.
If she is a shy person then how come she scream her friends name and sings in the halllway when im around. But when its me and her in the hallway alone she seems to just stare at the ceiling or the wall

2007-09-30 17:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my high school, there is this girl I talk to. We get along pretty well, and I would like to ask her out. In order to find out if she likes me back, I need to know if she was or is flirting. How can you tell if a girl is flirting with you?

2007-09-30 17:12:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like a total ***** which I really am not. He was at my friends party and he told her that he liked me and she asked me if I would date him and I declined. Well he added me as a myspace friend and I saw pics of him partying which was a huge turn off. A month goes by I think I made the wrong decision so I email him my screen name and we start talking. I should have been clear in the beginning I wasn't sure how I felt about him and just wanted to be friends. I think I can be a bit of a tease. I have some great qualities like I'm funny and sexy. I think the topics I talk about are a turn on for guys like the fact that I love jessica simpson. Well he asked me out tonight and I had to decline. I told him I didn't want to but can't we just be friends. We had just gotten through talking about if we had been in love and he asked me if I was looking for love and I said yes.

I feel like an idiot and that I have turned into someone I hate.

2007-09-30 17:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

How long do people usually last before an orgasm? Is this different depending on whether you're masturbating or having sex?

Sorry if this sounds stupid but I'm only in ninth grade!!! And I'm not really planning on doing it soon.

2007-09-30 16:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by N4Y4 2

What do you think?

2007-09-30 16:52:09 · 29 answers · asked by DJ 5

Girlfriend was cheating on him. Now my girl is spending time with him, consoling him (according to her). Also, I am in Calif. and they are in Canada, so my question again is, Should I worry?

2007-09-30 16:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

its only a few days after his and i had been talking about it like all week. i saidhappy birthday to him at midnight on his birthday and talkeed to him a lot that day ( i talk to him like all day everyday) then the day before my borthday he stopped talking to me... i texted him on my boirthday jsut to say whats up and he never texted me back and then the day after my birthday like at night he texted me whats up and i tried to show him i was a little upset by saying oh hey nothign.. we talked for a little and i got a little happier even though he didnt say anything about my birthday yet. he asked me why i was in such a good mood an di thought id give him a little hint say oh i guess im still excited from yesterday hoping he'd say yeah happy birthday how was it instead he was like oh what was yesterday and only after i said my borthdy did he say oh yeah how was it and happy birthday.i was really hoping he would rememer seeing as we talk a lot and stuff how do i let him know this hurtme?

2007-09-30 16:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by kels21333 1

What should I do to make her expirence with me the best of the best. PROS ANSWER ONLY!!! :)

2007-09-30 16:45:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a friend's for an 18th birthday party over the weekend, where there was quite a bit of drinking, l8 into the night, me and a girl friend of mine were dared to be the streakers for the evening, we both agreed, got undressed,gave our clothes to a couple of friends, and did it, i had to go from the side of the house, struggle down through the backyard full of people, over the back fence into an alley where my friends should've been waiting with my clothes- they weren't.so what started as a 10 min nude run, ended up as a streak and half hour waiting in an alley, before i finally swallowed my pride and went back in wearing bupkis, i pushed through the crowd, looking for my mates, and some people poured booze allover me before i finally found my clothes draped over a deck chair,mates nowhere to be seen.I just picked em up in a bundle, pushed through the indoor crowd, until i found a spare room to dry off and dress in.so embarrising but Its funny now, :).But what would you have done

2007-09-30 16:43:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do girls and sexy chicks pee out of their vaginas or their anus?

2007-09-30 16:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 16:39:20 · 2 answers · asked by Ryder 1

I recently started seeing a guy that I go to school with. It's been a long time since I've been in a relationship, and this has the potential to turn into something great. My only problem with him is that he is racist and against gay people. My best friend is black and is gay.

My best friend is not too offended, but it does bother him a little bit. He wants me to pursue a relationship with the guy, but is still feeling a little awkward about it all. The guy is amazing, and I have strong feelings for him. Do I give up the opportunity for something great, or having things be awkward between him and my best friend?

2007-09-30 16:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, well me and my bf broke up today because he called me dumb and retarded, it wasnt the first time he called me that but it always hurts me and makes me cry and he knows that, anyway we had been together for a year and six months, should i ask him to get back with me or not....???

i really neeed help and i dont know what to do.......♥

2007-09-30 16:11:49 · 12 answers · asked by cute as a button!.♥ 6