Singles & Dating - 30 September 2007

Why are men not rated fairly in picture ratings.

This guy 8.1
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RURQE8K-VGL

This guy 9.9
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RESQKZO-CCB

2007-09-30 16:11:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't I am the type of girl if you say another girl looks hot I'd slap you on the butt and be like yeah she is. Why get mad over something stupid like that? He is coming home to you and it's not like you do think other guys are good looking. It's a part of life.

2007-09-30 16:08:03 · 8 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

My bf and i dated for almost 2yrs. We had a very good relationship but I had a lot of issues to deal with. only issue is i took out a lot of my anger on him bc of things from my past. He finally blew up at me and said a lot of hurtful words. At first he asked 4 some time but i kept trying to fix things quickly I made him more angry. I thought if i kept holding onto him it would help but he said he didnt want to see me or talk to me yet. He said he eventually wanted to be friends but for now it was too hard to talk. i told him id give him a month and he said he would think about giving me another chance. I dont know how sincere he was..but thats wat he agreed to. Right now, i hear hes keeping busy, doing things w. the guys. i dont know if that means hes moved on. Cuz im so sad but why does he seem so fine going out having fun w. all the guys. If he missed me wouldnt he have called me by now? Does it even seem like we have a chance. i am trying to change. wat can i do? I realized so much

2007-09-30 16:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so their is this girl that i have dated before and i messed up.i didnt do anything bad it was just a stupid mistake and about a year has past of us not talking to each other she dosent hate me but every time i walk past her she mostly shyly looks away. and sometimes she lightly smiles at me. anyway i still have feelings for her but i am too nervous to tell her how i feel or to even ask her out. any advice

2007-09-30 15:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

when they say they want a woman to submit to them?

i'm asking because i grew up without a father/father figure, so i don't really understand what a healthy (?) relationship looks like. there are many, many women out here like me. we don't understand what "submit" means... to us it just sounds like "beat on me, cheat on me, take all my money." but is that really what it is?

how does a woman let a man be a man?

i hope this doesn't get ugly or childish.

thanks

2007-09-30 15:47:03 · 24 answers · asked by Jazzy 1

For the past 1.5 months I've been spending every spare moment with this girl and I've fallen deeply in love with her. I have never had such strong feelings before, I don't know what to do. This situation is complicated by a boyfriend who lives on the other side of the country. I'm usually very respectful of relationships but when I first met her I thought she was single so it was regular dating. Her and I are so close and share very strong connections and chemistry, it's like fireworks when I'm with her and I sense that she feels the same way when I look into her eyes. I mentioned we spend every moment together and even sleep together every night but no sex. I give her massages and keep her warm at night; we are basically just "cuddle buddies." She does not want to cheat on her bf, respectfully, but she makes a lot of sexual comments (dirty minded girl). I'm going crazy, I want her for myself. can anyone give me some suggestions. Thank you.

2007-09-30 15:41:54 · 3 answers · asked by KnowinG 1

Im 16 and im a shy girl and i know im not ugly at all, if fact ive heard from people that im really cute... but why dont i have a bf then!?? i know im shy but geez... im think ill just give up and wait until after high school and college to try to get a date... whatever.. :(

2007-09-30 15:36:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

him. how do i stop thinking about a boy. how do i fall out of love?

2007-09-30 15:33:34 · 1 answers · asked by playglass 1

ok so i am a field hockey player, its my life, and i would die with out it. but there is these girls that i fell like i cant stand up to. there pretty and funny. i really want revenge on this guy because he like broke my heart, and i feel like hes only noticing them and not me. HELP ME! i need ideas for revenge on this guy that number one will get him to notice me and number 2 get him to regret what he did to me, but i dont wanna get back together with him.

2007-09-30 15:33:04 · 1 answers · asked by cutiepie36 1

I waited too long to make any moves with a girl that I was dating. I was so worried that I would mess someting up I didn't really make any moves and I ended up in the friend zone after a couple of dates. This was very unfortunate because she actually approached me and asked me on a date and she had been very interested in me. I have dated a couple of other girls since then and have learned a lot about dating. I know that if I could get her to go out on a date with me again that things would be different. If I were to get another shot I would definitely not make that mistake again. I went the entire summer without seeing her and I barely talk to her in school. Do you think we have been out of contact long enough for me to escape the friend zone or is a lost cause.

2007-09-30 15:32:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my so called "girlfriend" have been going out for 2 months and still havent meet eachother. Should i stay with her or break up?

2007-09-30 15:32:07 · 3 answers · asked by J 2

Meaning: When a friend or ANYone for that matter askes how many people I've slept with, should I chalk it down to something smaller like 8? In the sake of saving my reputation? Or is 14 OK do you think. (And for everyone that wants to say "SLUT" or any other slanderous comment, please...save it, I don't need your negativity and neither does this world.)

2007-09-30 15:30:37 · 32 answers · asked by Katherine H 1

Me= brown hair with blond highlights, hazle eyes, glasses, medium height
with
Kyle=dirty blond hair, hazle eyes, tall
or
Delean=brown hair, blue eyes, short

2007-09-30 15:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by hisbabygirl95 2

i think im going to lose my virginity next weekend :o
he has a girlfriend right now
but when we were talking about this condom this guy gave me
he said
"use it on me"
i said
"no. thats called cheating"

{we dated about a week before he began dating her}

he said
"not if i dump her"

i said "okay then"

and he said "so its a date!"

i said "yep!"

he'ss all "next week"

i said "alright!"

and we hung up


is he serious about this?
if so..
help.
i dont know what to do! hha

2007-09-30 15:28:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am sooooooooooooooooo happy cuz ! well lots

my bf asked me out! we went to the movies tonite and it was awesome!!!!!
but im sad cuz my step dad found a wet spot on the rug the smelled like cleaning stuff and he "assumed" it was me or my brother and thinks it was ME~ (i didnt do it!!!) and now im grounded for 2 weeks... no computer... no phone... no going any where!! = ,,( im so sad! yet very happy!!! hbu???

are you sad and happy??
or just sad??
or just happy??
and why?????????????

2007-09-30 15:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by Bethany 3

Name some qualities about girls that drive you crazy (in the good way!).

Name some qualities about girls that drive you crazy (in the bad way!)

2007-09-30 15:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked this guy that i casually date if he wanted to hang out the other night. he texted me back saying that he was hanging out with a "dude" friend. i found it kinda weird that he just had to mention the gender...like i'd be mad if he just said friend or girl friend. does this mean he sees me more than someone casual? comments?

2007-09-30 15:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

I'm in 8th grade, and I'm pretty academic. I'm a straight A student, follows the rules, blah blah blah. the whole she-bang. I made a policy for myself that I wouldn't go out with anyone till 10th grade. However, I find myself really liking a guy in my grade. It's the classic love/hate relationship. He's the guy that doesn't pay attention in class, sits in the back and makes sexual innuendo, and has a bunch of gfs just to make out with. I used to hate him a lot, but lately he seems to be really funny and what not. I don't know if he likes me or not, but there seems to be some kind of chemistry between us. I don't want to become one of his one day gfs, in fact I don't know whether I should just ignore him or not, and hope it'll blow over.
What the heck should I do?

2007-09-30 15:24:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i met my ex it was amazing i thought i would never love anyone more than him, well i lost my virginity to him and i got bonded with him even stronger. But some problems happened we kind of stopped talking to each other and we broke up. After that i tried dating new people but then my ex was upset about me leaving him he wanted to move to his dad in Ohio, i really did not want to loose him so i was crying and begging to him not to, he would even ignore me!! so i would always hang out with him and talk him out of it. Then bad things started happening, whoever i dated i would cheat on them with my ex! yes i do admit i love my ex yet i dont want to go out with him because im afraid what if my actual soulmate is out there! i dont wanna take a risk of getting back with him, finding the guy and dumping him AGAIN! and im tired of cheating on every1 with him and its wrong, but when i would date sum1 he would avoid me saying its for my own good, and that makes me run to him even more.

2007-09-30 15:24:00 · 2 answers · asked by pussicatpuk 1

2007-09-30 15:22:39 · 1 answers · asked by Marley W 1

before. I am very shy but still. I notice all the girls my age have boyfriends. I rarely meet guys, Im always stuck on assholes who dont like me. I am not looking anymore, but Im so lonely. Not desperate

2007-09-30 15:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is from my other question. Just check out some of these ratings. I mostly used pics of guys, because I'm a guy, and because I know that women might get offended. Us guys can brush this off though right? Anyway... Look how some people are rated.

This guy is rated an 8.1 (yah right!!!)
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RURQE8K-VGL


This guy is 7.2
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RRAEBRS-PNR

7.7 -
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BLEQEQR-TDN


This woman is "9.3"
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=AZS8RUO-HNQ

But this sweetheart is 7.1
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=ASAZHUB-UST

This guy is a "9.9"
Compare with the first guys.
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RESQKZO-CCB

2007-09-30 15:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-30 15:18:42 · 20 answers · asked by Marley W 1

Okay

this guy is my love. please watch him in his music video and tell me is he your type or not , am I silly or not. he is so talented and full of passion. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmLuT3aJw9E

2007-09-30 15:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by fedup 3

why do girls get better than guys paul d in sneads ferry

2007-09-30 15:16:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think she will be mad if I tell her but i need help,have any ideas ???????/

2007-09-30 15:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this boy have been talking for a few weeks. While most of the time we just hang out together by ourselves. The other day his best friend was over his house when I stopped by and he acted really funny towards me because his friend was there.

2007-09-30 15:11:58 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1

Went to a friends party and she let me know a guy at the party liked me. She was on the phone talking to him and he wanted my number but I really wasn't feeling him so I declined. Well he added me on his myspace and I saw pictures that looked like he was a big partier and turned me off. About a month later I started to think I might have made a mistake and I emailed him and gave him my screen name. We have been talking online and he seems nice but there is just something about him I don't like (not sure what). I think maybe I am being too shallow. I am not sure if I am too critical and expect too much. I think I'm a pretty good catch and think I have high hopes for a boyfriend. He wanted me to go out with him and my friend his weekend but I lied and said I was busy. Should I agree to go on a date with him? I'm just so nice and I don't want to go out with him just having one date and having to end it from there.

2007-09-30 15:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

2007-09-30 15:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a senior and i am SUPER shy. i dont want 2 be fowrard though,i just want to know the new kid on campus

2007-09-30 15:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous