Singles & Dating - 30 September 2007

Im real paranoid about my boyfriend, not that hes cheating, but i hate the thought of him watching porn etc as we are apart alot due to work and uni. I also have trouble with self confidence i know that. Im really trying to keep my mouth shut and not question him anymore as i know that that ill just drive him away, and weve been together for five years. Its so difficult though! I hate to think that hes lying and theres a whole side of him that i dont know about when im not there! I know deep down that porn shouldnt really be an issue, though i just cant get it out of my head that he would do that if he loved me!
I really want to make our relationship as good as it can be, i never used to be this paranoid though i cant pin point whats made me this way.
Any advice that might make things better for me so i can get things back to what they were?

2007-09-30 02:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by SweetLikeHoney 1

i m in love with a celibrity...i hv almost become mad for her...her name is hansika...i have seen her fan-response on the net.i am really working hard for her.i need her e-mail plz...if only i can talk with her once ia am sure we are going to be good friends...plz help...i am totally lost.....

2007-09-30 02:54:36 · 27 answers · asked by luckydude_raj 1

I cant ask him out.he shld ask me..there r reasons behind this niot becoz i'm feeling shy! pls help

2007-09-30 02:53:39 · 29 answers · asked by kewl me! 2

They really don't like me and I've tried to get along with them but their real pricks

2007-09-30 02:49:52 · 8 answers · asked by jdainchrist 1

My boyfriend turns off his phone for days on end without telling me that he's going to do it, or make spur of the moment weekend trips without informing me or (worse) inviting me. Since Wednesday, he has been incommunicado (its Sunday night). I would have been fine if he'd just sent me an email or text saying "My cell phone will be switched off for the next few days, I need to get into my book/some space. Please don't worry." Six seconds of his life, vs. hours of mine lost in worry

I needed him today when I got stranded somewhere, and couldn't get in touch. Last night he sent me a paultry text (after three days of trying to get in touch) to say he was "all right". I wasn't alright today, when I needed him. I'm at my wits end with this behaviour. I find it so offensive: he thinks I overreact. My worry is that he knows how much it upsets me and does it anyway. I think I should walk, even though I love him. Would that be an emotional overreaction?

2007-09-30 02:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by TryingHard 1

2007-09-30 02:34:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked him why and he said for his own sick enjoyment. We had sex, but I felt weird with the camera there. He told me to ignore it. I told him it better not go up on the internet. He promised it wouldnt.

Why did he tape me!?

2007-09-30 02:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by clarissa 1

My boyfriend doesn't like that I have guy friends, but he has girl friends. Last night he was supposed to come over but he canceled on me, and I ended up having a bunch of friends over and a lot of them crashed here. Well when we went out to get food and drinks and stuff we stopped by slackers where he worked and I had one of my best guy friends Keenan with me and my sister Brittany, and then at 2:00am he's like. "can I see you" in a text message, and I pull a line that he always gives me "it's up to you" well then he's like "**** that" and starts going on about how I'm cheating on him, and he won't listen to anything I say, and then he's drunk and driving to Alabama and I don't know why. He wouldn't answer his phone only text and now he isn't even doing that. What do I do? I love him so much. How can I get him to stay with me? Please help me!

2007-09-30 02:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy who I use to like in middle school and I want to say it to him when i visit my old school(i moved to a new school) but that could ruin our relationship.What should I do?

2007-09-30 02:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by Sakura Sohma 2

i got mad at her cuz she threw out a pair my sneakers that i paid $300 for...im a sneaker collector so of course i got pissed off...then she got mad cuz i was trying to watch the football game and she brung her stupid little friends over...so i turned the volume on the tv up after i asked them if they could hush..now she said "we dont know how to communicate" so we need to talk more often...now she always wants to talk to me and i dont really like talking that much..there are times when i just wanna be left alone...like this morning...i was eating breakfast in front of the tv and then she just sat down and started talking to me...and she went on and on about what her friends were talking about last night...it was really hard trying not to turn the volume on the tv up again...

anyways...i just wanna know why does she always wanna talk..what should i do??

2007-09-30 02:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm almost 19. I had sex with a 47 year old man that I dont even know. I met him at my friends party a couple weeks ago. I loved having sex with him. I love giving oral. I loved the sensation of the pressure. I want to do it again. I liked it with older men. What do you guys think?

2007-09-30 02:08:44 · 36 answers · asked by clarissa 1

Once men realize that I've got an opinion they are totally not interested..its like they think all women are supose to just smile, nod and agree..what the hell...I personally dont wanna date a doorman, so why to most guys...And why are they in control and f-in way?!

2007-09-30 01:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2

I have one class with this guy and i really like him, we talk all the time and he can never stop looking at me, it's a film class so we sit in the dark theatre for an hour and a half, every minute or so i see him looking over at me. we sit with two seats in between us. i really want to find out if he's interested in me HELP PLEASE!?!?!

2007-09-30 01:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by Cadi C 2

would you actually kiss a girl if you didn´t have any feelings for her? I mean if you didn´t fancy her,, you wouldn´t kiss her, surely??

2007-09-30 01:14:25 · 24 answers · asked by Loli 2

2007-09-30 01:12:07 · 8 answers · asked by Georgia B 1

The sweet type.
The maternal type.
The raw sexual type.
The shy, quiet type.
The crazy kind (just joking).


No bad comments please.

2007-09-30 01:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sweet
Cute
Cuddly
Mean
Lazy
Distant
Affectionate

Or your own word...

But just know that if you leave a bad comment, I'm not going to believe you at all, so it's no use. Just cool people please. I want to know what feeling I bring to a woman by my look. Do I bring a fuzzy feeling, nauseating (lol), maternal, etc. What should I expect from women who actually like me? I mean, if they like me because they feel a certain way about me due to my appearance, then I should know what kind of women are attracted to me. Hmmm...I think I'll ask exactly that in another question. Anyway...

2007-09-30 01:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

guy than me). Is it natural?

2007-09-30 00:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by Like 2

I was walking to my locker with my group of friends and I saw him beside me so I said hi, he said hi back and smiled. But then I was talking to another guy at the time and he walked past me alone and didnt bother talking to me at all. Is this an ego thing or he just doesnt like me? We sit in same lunch tables from time and time and when we talk he is quiet friendly always laughing and smiling and talking. But he only ask questions about me from time to time. My friend thinks all guys have ego no matter what and our chemistry (although started out strong) needs to be built slowly over time... I'm being patient here... making everything casual. Am I doing this right?

2007-09-30 00:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous