I fell for my coworker and told my friend that this guy had been friendly, asked me to lunch on multiple occasions, made me laugh and feel relaxed in his presence, and that he even mentioned marriage (in general) during our lunch get-togethers. Anyway, I was telling my friend on my lunch break that he was interested in me seriously -- and the guy heard everything -- he was right behind me, and gave me a huge, knowing smile, and walked away. I am totally ashamed and feel like a dumb fool for having been played by a guy who ultimately turned out to be a jerk!
Now, he still tries to be cordial with me, but now that he knows he could have "had" me, he acts repulsed if I approach him, ask him for something, or when we're exchanging something like a pen, and happen to have our fingers or hands touch -- he gives a slight grimace
Can you imagine this guy? Guys, ladies, how do I cope with this? He told me I was attractive in the past, but I don't believe it at all by the way he now acts. Help
2007-09-30
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