This guy gave me his number and never told me he was married with six children. His wife called my phone and told me all the true information about this guy I just happen to call and text. He portrayed himself to be single when he wasnot. She called my phone 11 times yesterday and once today. They are in the middle of a divorce and trying to reconcile. She wanted to know if he was flirting and gave me his number. He lied and told her that I was asking everyone for his number and they gave it to me. When she called I act as if I was a friend of the person that called. Now she wants me to give the information to that person (which is me) to call her so that she would no whether to go on with the divorce or stay in the marriage.I personally dont want to be involved in that.After today, I was going to ignore the call and if continues go to the police and file harrassment charges for obscene phone calls, which is a misdemeanor.But, I really feel sorry for her and dont want to do that.
2007-09-30 14:08:23 · 21 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her your not getting involved and ignore her phone calls
2007-09-30 14:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by pink_kisses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This joker has so many irons in the fire -- there's hardly room enough for the flame !!
You see how one lie calls for another -- and so on and so forth --- You need to come completely clean with this woman about the whole sorted thing !! She needs to know -- not that she doesn't already have PLENTY of experience with THIS guy already (six kids you said ?) ---- but, the part where you are saying that THEY (?) are trying to put the relationship back together again ?? I DON'T THINK SO !!!
You need to clear YOUR conscience over this issue --- She needs to know the exact truth about the whole thing between you and "her guy" --- and then and only then will YOU be able to cut from this cleanly and walk !!!
But, if by any chance in hell --- I hear of you giving this guy a single minute more of YOUR time ----- I'm going to send the Yahoo Police to put cuffs on YOU for ignorance !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-30 21:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her calls, stay away from both of them, and don't get involve with their troubles. Also forget about harassment charges-- because it might get back on you. The wife has every reason to file charges or complain about you for your involvement with her husband. Your reason for not knowing he is a married guy isn't valid enough. Remember, ignorance of the law excuses no one.
2007-09-30 21:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to involve the police. Just don't get involved. When she calls just say, "Look, I am sorry you are having problems. However that is between you and you husband, it is none of my business, I am not going to get involved so don't call anymore." Then hand up don't give her an opportunity to ask questions. After that, if she calls, don't say anything; just hang up.
2007-09-30 21:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by John 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a prize. Kick him to the curb quick. First he is married, cheating on his wife and he is already tellin you lies. Run fast, run very fast. This guy wants to have his cake and eat it too. Make a clean break but be prepared-- I foresee a sob sorry from the man to keep you sorry for him and as a result continue to see him.
2007-09-30 21:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put yourself into her shoes at this point. Would you want to know if you were her? Would you want to know that your husband had been lying to you the whole time? You need to call her and tell her that you did not know and you will not be contacting him at all in the future. She will decide from there and it will have nothing to do with you. It will have everything to do with her husband and her ability to deal with how he is. She deserves to be able to make an informed and educated decision though. You should call her and tell her and not call her in for harassment.
2007-09-30 21:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time she calls, tell her, very calmly, no matter what she says, remain calm, that you are no threat to her relationship, that he misled you, that you have no desire or intention of seeing him, that he is not a person you would like to associate with, that you want someone far better than the cheat and liar he is for yourself, that she has no reason to fear that you will ever interfere in her relationship and to, please, not call you anymore. If she calls you again, have the phone company change your phone num. or block her calls .
2007-09-30 21:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by toybreaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever it takes to keep these two people out of your life and forget about feeling sorry for anyone other than yourself. I know this seems cruel but there are times when self-preservation is the "only" order of the day.
2007-09-30 21:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is have her number shes calling from blocked off your phone, check with the telephone company about this. the woman seems distraught, she knows her her husband is a cheater, she wants the hurtful proof. but dont increase her pain. stay out of it!
2007-09-30 21:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by carrie ann 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes the women is probably desperate and is trying to save her marriage don't make it worse for her, tell her you never knew he was married and some one else tried to hook you up with him or something.. the guy was a jerk lying to you but seems to me he is also trying to work things out with his wife and that's why he lied to her. so try to be understanding and think of a simple answer
2007-09-30 21:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by fab cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would a married man with.6. children give his wife your number to start with that wouldnt make much sence on his part you might end up in court over this matter . my opion?
2007-09-30 21:14:07 · answer #11 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋