its only a few days after his and i had been talking about it like all week. i saidhappy birthday to him at midnight on his birthday and talkeed to him a lot that day ( i talk to him like all day everyday) then the day before my borthday he stopped talking to me... i texted him on my boirthday jsut to say whats up and he never texted me back and then the day after my birthday like at night he texted me whats up and i tried to show him i was a little upset by saying oh hey nothign.. we talked for a little and i got a little happier even though he didnt say anything about my birthday yet. he asked me why i was in such a good mood an di thought id give him a little hint say oh i guess im still excited from yesterday hoping he'd say yeah happy birthday how was it instead he was like oh what was yesterday and only after i said my borthdy did he say oh yeah how was it and happy birthday.i was really hoping he would rememer seeing as we talk a lot and stuff how do i let him know this hurtme?
2007-09-30 16:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by kels21333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't remember that stuff. This is not your boyfriend, he has no obligation to remember your birthday. You have no right to be upset.
2007-09-30 16:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its obvious he knows about your birthday, its also obvious he is avoiding the occasion for some compelling reason/s. One thing I know is lack of financial backup to support the greeting! We all know the day starts with a 'Happy Birthday' but doesnt stop there. The rest of the day have to be celebrated and this is where the man is separated from the boys. You have to find out the other 'compelling reasons yourself!
Belated happy birthday and,
Happy hunting!
PS. Relationship between boy and girl, man and woman is governed by two very strong forces - love and understanding.
If your purpose of letting him know you got hurt is to get even, will you be happy if he breaks up with you? Unity binds up relationships just as strife breaks it apart.
2007-10-01 00:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by coziamine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your birthday is a big deal to you, but not to other people. You shouldn't be mad at him. You were testing him and he failed your test. That's not fair. You should have told him before hand it was your birthday and not expect a guy friend to have it penciled into his calendar, because trust me that is never going to happen! Happy B'day by the way!
2007-09-30 23:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crap, I even skimmed over this question and will give you the direct answer. Men, boys in this case, don't think about detai,l as much as girls or women do. You could joke with him, like WAY TO FORGET MY BIRTHDAY. Don't take it to heart tho, that he was thoughtless. Girls are "generally" more in tuned with feelings. Girls are "generally" deeper thinkers and more thoughtful, then boys. Don't take it personally, that he forgot even tho you reminded him minutes before and even boasted about it a week before.
2007-09-30 23:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0kAy S0 i MUST ADMiT THAT iM A BiG FREAkiNG 0UT PERS0N WHE iT C0MES T0 My BiRTHDAy! i L0VE My BiRTHDAy S0 MUCH!
i W0ULD [AS WELL] GET UPSET iF THiS GUy THAT i W0ULD TALk T0 AL0T W0ULD F0RGET My BiRTHDAy EVEN WHEN i REMEMBERED HiS.
iTS TRUE THAT GUyS D0NT REALLy REMEMBER THiNGS LikE B-DAyS BUT STiLL!
i S0 AGREE WiTH y0U THAT y0U SH0ULD BE UPSET. AND iF HE'S A G00D FRiEND 0F y0URS HE SH0ULD 0F kN0WN THAT y0U L0VE y0UR BiRTHDAy && y0U RE UPSET BECUZ HE F0RGET AB0UT iT!
0H && HAPPy LATE B-DAy! =]
2007-10-01 00:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by MELy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make him read what you wrote here and it will hurt him so much, he'll never forget your "borthday" again (believe me, reading your question was torture.)
2007-09-30 23:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't want him to forget your birthday, and if he still does for a couple more times, just forget his.
just a suggestion =)
2007-09-30 23:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Adam S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go... its not that big of a deal even though it may seem like it :) as long he may be to busy thinkin avout u to remeber details like that *wink wink*
2007-09-30 23:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by superdupernick12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you remember his?
It's no big deal. People forget.
2007-09-30 23:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people dont have good memory.
2007-09-30 23:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋