He has a few classes with me so he always walks me to my next class
I'm pretty sure he likes me and I'm trying to make it clear that I'm not interested but I don't think it's working
its gotten to the point where ive ditched him a couple of times but still not working
he even follows me when i got to talk to some of my besties and my ex
what do i do?
2007-09-30 17:29:43 · 11 answers · asked by OneTrueQueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This from a guy who has been "ditched" way too many times for it to be funny anymore....
Please just tell him honestly how you feel. That single action will help you both so much. And, if I may suggest, a little kiss on his cheek when you tell him your honest feelings. And then walk away.
He'll be fine with that and he will feel great that you told him. I'm serious!
2007-09-30 17:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by AK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to stop it before he gets up enough courage to ask you out(speaking from experience). If you wait for him to ask you out then say no it is worse because then the guy loses lots of his self confidence and it takes some time to get it back. The way I would have liked her to tell me would have been something like, "I am getting the feeling you like me, but I just want to be your friend." you can add some things if he looks sad and you feel bad like "maybe in the future something could happen but right now is not good."
If my experience would have gone like this, I would still have her as a friend and I would not have had my confidence level smashed into the ground for the many months that followed. Maybe you can think of some more idea's based off this, every guy is different and if he still acts the same way, you may have to be more blunt and tell him to get lost.
2007-10-01 00:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by applebeer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know,, talk to him directly,, ask him if he likes you,, i know it's kinda wrong but it's better to tell him now (for it not to be too late), directly and in person..if he says yes, then tell him that you don't like him,, directly,, straight to the point,, coz in rejecting,, there is no such thing as you won't hurt,, it will surely hurt him,, maybe not today because you are not yet telling him,, but in other ways you will surely hurt him,, and it might even cause him much more pain.. so telling him directly and NOW and straight to the point is the best way.. the truth hurts,, and there is no other way to make it not hurt, because it's meant to be like that... hurt him now,, than make him hurt more later,, because he will be developed to you more as time pass by,, and letting him do what he does, he might think that you actually like him too... go girl! i hope i helped yoU! i'm supporting you.. go girl! hehehehe >:)
2007-10-01 00:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you appreciate him walking to class with you, but you do not need an escort for everything that you do. Tell him that when you are talking to your friends and such, you feel uncomfortable with him around because you can't talk freely.
2007-10-01 00:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you then there is no possible way you can let him down without hurting him. just make sure you do it soon so he can move on with his life.
2007-10-01 00:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy this "sorry but im not interest in u" or tell him to back and move on with his life.... if u have to go that far
2007-10-01 00:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by BaNdGeEk_410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there no easy to let some body down with out hurting them. but
if you truly dont feel for him as he does for you. then you need to be honest with him and let him know how you feel. some time you just have to just say what you need to say,
2007-10-01 00:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
date him and broke his hearth go straight to the point and don't feel bad just tell him that he is a nice person but not for you it will work
2007-10-01 00:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Juan mym 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start really avoiding him.
if it doesn't work, your gonna have to tell him.
just say something like, "hey, i dont think im interested in you the same way you are with me, so, im really sorry, but i dont think it would work."
that would probably give him a hint.
good luck :)
xxx <3
2007-10-01 00:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Then all of a sudden you like him when he doesnt like you anymore....
2007-10-01 00:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋