Marriage & Divorce - 9 September 2007

were there ever any days that you ever doubted that they were your soulmate?

2007-09-09 14:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5

My husband and I am staying in different places because of our job. This might continue for some time like another 4 months. We recently got married. He told me yesterday that i dont listen what he syas, i dont love him and this that. I got upset and angry, I said i do and why is behaving like this. We had a upsetting talk, as I was hurt by that and I guess he was upset too. Then I had to cool down again and asked why he is doing like this to me, he said he misses me so much that when he go outs he feel bad looking at other couples. I said then he should not come and talk to me like this rather he shd say he missed me. But I am upset the way he behaved or talked. I do love him, but I am not able to handle him when he behaves like this. Plz help if this is normal in marriage. How shd I handle him? Wht shd I do? I cant really leave my job noe he. We both r in very very good job and well settled in our career. What shd I do? Plz help? What shd I tell him? At the end he said he loves me.

2007-09-09 14:50:22 · 9 answers · asked by jenni 1

Like just got divorce and she was the one that left him and last night a kind of made out with him. I just talked to him and everything seemed fine. I do think that this is a very slipper road I'm walk on. What should I do? I can't help that I like him. Believe me I have tried really hard to stop.

2007-09-09 14:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by lex83201 3

Just curious....

2007-09-09 14:47:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normally before university/ collage or some time after or is it like a long time after highschool, or after highschool...? When is it normally?

2007-09-09 14:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-09 14:41:03 · 30 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

How can I deal with very annoying mother and father inlaw???

2007-09-09 14:32:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just thinking about this so I decided to post this question do you think that some couples get everything handed to them a quick courtship a home material things an easy life? Where there are other couples had to wait a very long time to get married and earned the right to be married and also struggle?
Do you think everyone struggles in marraige including Christians?

2007-09-09 14:19:18 · 5 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 months.. I live about 40 minutes away from her, about to get a job in the same town as her and everything. It's not long distance, easily driveable.. she works nights, I work days. I see her on weekends, and as much as possible.

Well tonight I asked her to dinner.. and she said "I don't know... no more until you are moving down here.." and I go, "what does that mean?" And she says.. "Oh, Nothing." So I press the issue and she goes, "I just want you to move down here faster.. did it work?" The job starts in a month or two.. nothing else I can do really.. and I really like this girl A LOT.. what do I do now??

She said, "I know we can work it out.. I just want you here, now & forever with me.."

2007-09-09 14:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by aa 1

Would you stay with your husband after he has had 2 affairs and is in love with the other woman? Worried about the kids and money.

2007-09-09 14:11:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 33 years he told me he never love me ,but we have 3 children ,what i did wrong?

2007-09-09 13:59:59 · 33 answers · asked by Marie T 2

How do you cope when you guys feel bored..and when your apartment, home gets real quite...does tv watching help you feel less lonely and what others things help you cope.

What advice do you have for people who are living by themselves for the first time?

2007-09-09 13:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by B 2

Just for fun only! So that the husbands can see how many guys are drooling all over their wives and to see what type of guys would approach them. It feels so damm wierd for other men, drooling on my wife...lol hahahaha Just looking at her and checking her out at every angle!!!!

2007-09-09 13:48:36 · 6 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

I enjoy watching my husband having sex with other women. I allow him to do so and he can only do it when I'm there. He tells me that he loves and cares about me and we have a very secure and trusting marriage. For some reason it turns me on to watch him with another woman. Am I crazy to be this way or this normal? I'm not sure what it is, but it really turns me on.

2007-09-09 13:44:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and husband are separating and the house we bought only have his name on the deed, am i intitled to half,if so can i make him sell or pay me off.

2007-09-09 13:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by SHARON 1

My boyfriend is very smart 3.9 GPA (going to law school), tall (6'2''), sporty (college football player), good looking, etc. ...

Well, he has his problems. He does not like to show his feelings (to me), very egocentric, very stubborn, very short temper, and act baby sometimes, etc.

In the past 3 years, we don't get along very well. We almost break up two times. The only thing that keep us going is we have a very strong physical connection--We took each other breath away when we first met and there is so much chemistry between us.

I am tired of all the dramas and want to leave him. To be honest, I am hanging on because I afriad I could not find any better guys.

I know, I am stupid.

What do you think? Thank you so much for your help.

2007-09-09 13:38:02 · 23 answers · asked by Hope 4

Why do some people feel like there should be something more? Larger house, newer car, shouldn't we be content with what we have?

2007-09-09 13:27:36 · 32 answers · asked by grace 2

what a blumpkin is.......my fiancee wants one but i have no idea what it iss...please dont laugh.

2007-09-09 13:17:38 · 27 answers · asked by Christina R 2

ok I'm going to try and make a long story short; my parents are divorced and because of issues that my mom has with my dad (him not giving her money to help take care of me) she wants to put a restraining order on him so that I cant have any contact with him at all even though I am 18 years old (he still has to pay child support because i am disabled, and he does but she thinks he needs to pay more, blah blah blah) so i'm just wondering if it is legal for my mom to get this restraining order???

2007-09-09 12:47:48 · 21 answers · asked by amk51789 5

Well I AM married and I have a wonderful wife and she confronted me and told me people latly have been giving her dirty looks when she a the super market or target when out 3 year old son say mommy and i learned to ignor it but my wife cant seem to ignor itits not that she cares what people think of her!
im 18 and she 17 and we have a son what would you think
we are on birth control no and we DO love our so!

2007-09-09 12:41:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

AND SOME OF US WHO HAVE LOOKED AFTER OUR HUSBANDS ,GET A CRAP DEAL

2007-09-09 12:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6

I have been a work from home mother for the past 5 years. I have 2 precious children. 3 yrs ago when my son was born, my marriage started to fall apart. It has since gotten MUCH worse, much to my own poor decision making. I want a divorce, the only thing that keeps me in the marriage is the fact that I cannot stand the thought of my husband and his parents (unfortuantely the umbillical cord was not cut at birth from his mother) raising the children. I cannot afford an attorney and I doubt HE would go for collaborative law divorce.

2007-09-09 12:03:30 · 14 answers · asked by pebbles 1

Do you really know when they are the "one" you want to spend the rest of your life together forever?

I mean do you really know?

2007-09-09 11:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married, but I really like the neighbor guy upstairs. We have a little "relationship" going. I've never touched him sexually, never kissed him. We hug each other but that is it. We flirt and talk about things we would LIKE to do but never can do because i'm married. I fantasize about him alot. Is it really technically CHEATiNG to do this? I think of it as just for fun, he knows it is just for fun also. We make each other horny but that is it.

2007-09-09 11:56:10 · 28 answers · asked by ~The*Sexy*Girl*Downstairs~ 2

I asked the only woman standing near if she had lost her money . she thought I was trying to get her to open her purse to mug her the way she looked at me, and said no. I walked about all day thinking I should take it back to the store I found it in front of , So I did . I asked the girl serving if I could hand it in and if its not claimed pick it up . She laughed and said keep it , the store owner will thats for sure .
I spent it on a treat today I feel bad should I.

2007-09-09 11:50:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

for free...at least advise..i know it cost alot of money to get a divorce but im a full time student and mom of 5 year old and 7 month old..i just recently split up with my husband and he said he would make sure things were alright, but i just dont trust him and need to protect myself...but how....

2007-09-09 11:44:05 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4

Wev'e been split up for awhile,than he just moved someone in our house from our past that we hadn't talked to in almost ten years.He has it made.great house,truck,good job.and now this person shes attractive and smart.and is going out of the way to make it feel like they are a family.As though i didn't even exist.And if i screw up over anything,he cusses me out,calls me names,says i'm stupid,dumb,that someone(or he)needs to knock the crap out of me,it's as though he suddenly hates me.And i'm the one that doesn't have it made,but i haven't bothered him for anything since they moved her in?Why would he be so mean all the time to me,like I"VE committed some crime.I didn't even try to make him feel bad for hooking up with her,i wished them well.Even though it's been really hard to deal with.I just get tired of never being able to win with him nomatter what and can't understand "WHY?"

2007-09-09 11:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by eve- 2

We have been on the east coast 4 years and haven't been back home (west coast) for any holidays. Its just me, husband and son. I finally told him that I'm flying back this year because he wouldn't make up his mind I bought 2 tix for me and son. Everyone is asking why he's not coming. He doesn't like flying and he said its going to be cold. Both his parents are dead and he is somewhat estranged from his brother and sister. I am extremely sad we won't be spending Chrismtas together and he says "that's life". How would you interpret this? I mean should I just accept this...should I just not go and continue missing out on Christmas will all my relatives and my son not seeing his cousins? Advice on how you would handle but spare the insults please; I'm only human!

2007-09-09 11:22:38 · 12 answers · asked by Wonder Woman 3

2007-09-09 11:16:13 · 10 answers · asked by cajungirl305 1

IVE GOT A REALLY BIG HARD ON

I said where did you buy that from...now he wont speak to me :(

2007-09-09 11:14:14 · 32 answers · asked by Tesco Value 1