Marriage & Divorce - 9 September 2007

It feels like everything is my fault and it hurts so bad that i cry every single day. My husband doesnt understand me at all and even though i try talking with him about whats bothering me or how im feeling he still doesnt take time out to communicate with me. I am currently 32 weeks pregnant with his child and Im going through many changes and dealing with mood swings and everything concering. I feel by myself in this pregnancy even though i have a husband and when i tell him this he just says nothing and i feel ignored. I wake up very upset and scared that he will leave me any day. Back in january or february he was about to leave me and then we found out i was pregnant then he changed his mind and stayed with me i guess. I cant talk to him about nothing so thats why i have to come online and talk to complete strangers about my problems because either he wont listen or just say im blowing things out of porportune.(word not spelled right.) Im just frustrated and he dont even know :(

2007-09-09 03:45:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

been trying to fill out paprer work but its hard and legal aid said they couldnt help because my house is invovled

2007-09-09 03:44:27 · 6 answers · asked by greatness364 1

This has to do with the woman you were with. Did she try to change you? Big changes or small ones?

2007-09-09 03:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6

I love my husband a lot. I'm married 8 years and have 3 kids. I fully trust my husband in everything. He is the most wonderful one for me. During my 3rd pregnancy , I accidentally caught him masturbating watching porn. I was shock , hurt, surprised. He could not give explaination but he knew I was hurt. After few days of can't stand it, I ask him again why. He said he doesn't want to request sex with me because don't want to disturb me as I was pregnant. I partially accepted the reason but started to loose trust. He reluctantly said won't do it again. Later down te road I found out he did it again. I felt insecure. I am pretty and good looking even given after birth. I never caught him doing it again for half year now. I forgave him but never forget it. I still not gain 100% trust back which I'm feeling very troubled occasionally. I don't know why I can't gain trust. He sometimes cannot perform halfway sex. He doesn't know why. He has a lot of pressure at work. Pls advise me.

2007-09-09 03:18:01 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things are OK but I'd like them to be a little better.

2007-09-09 03:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here's what I am asking. Women find a guy and he isn't perfect but he's pretty ok. well, better than nothing anyway. But it's ok, because I can change him into what I want.

they get married and he doesn't change. All attempts to change him fail and so now she wants the help of a professional. so she wants to go to counselling to "help their marrage" when in fact all she wants is help changing him.

2007-09-09 03:12:36 · 16 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6

is interested in you?or like you

2007-09-09 03:05:07 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Men Are getting screwed in divorce settlements, Why should they marry in these times ?

2007-09-09 03:04:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

they adamently refuse even tho you think it would be beneficial?

2007-09-09 03:02:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanted my marriage to work, but the wife counldnt decide what she wanted went to councelling and he was confused by her. i know there is plenty of fish out there but after this i think all women are the same. how can you date again and find happiness.

2007-09-09 02:56:47 · 19 answers · asked by paul m 1

what does this mean?

2007-09-09 02:41:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, it's kind of a long story so here is the short version:
I cheated on my hubby with this guy, and now I'm working in a clinic where there is a good chance I'll see him again. It was a bad break up with him when my hubby found out, my question is what should i do if he shows up as a patinet? how should i act? i don't want any problems all over again, but i don't want to quit my job. i love it. can anyone help me with some advice? also, should i tell my hubby if he does show up or that there is a chance that i will see him there? any advice would help, thanx!

2007-09-09 02:36:13 · 39 answers · asked by mireya_adame 2

I know someone who is already married with kids but finds herself more in love with her former boyfriend (who just left her 25 years ago) than her husband today.

2007-09-09 02:33:48 · 7 answers · asked by Mystic Victoria 2

We've been together 30 years. She looks great and sexy for 47 and I worship the ground she walks on. She says she loves me because I'm funny intelligent and kind. She says I look okay, but how can I make her think I'm sexy again?

2007-09-09 02:27:53 · 10 answers · asked by commicallyboring 1

I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?

2007-09-09 02:24:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 4 months ago, I cheated on my finance by sending messages through the internet, I never physically cheated but I'm still completely at fault. Now, I understand most people don't change, once a cheat always a cheat. But in order for a person to change they must change for themselves, not out of consequence. I've changed, for myself and in doing so, ultimately for us and our relationship. I'm torn, she relives the event almost every day, sometimes shes happier than she's ever been and other times she's depressed thinking about this.
I feel as If I let her go, she'll be happy now and maybe she'll find someone who wouldn't do this to her. But on the other side, I love her very much and 100% know I would never hurt her again. I feel as if I can make it work until I finally prove it to her I can make her the happiest girl in the world. If I didn't believe it so strong heartedly then I wouldn't still be trying to make it work.... Advice please. Thanks

2007-09-09 02:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by Jambiena 1

2007-09-09 02:22:43 · 7 answers · asked by Red Rose 6

his parents really doesn't like me because of our culture differences how can i get to his parents what will i do to accept me as daughter in law

2007-09-09 01:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by wyn 2

Why? Why do women always want to date or marry a rich man? That's very superficial.

2007-09-09 01:53:39 · 39 answers · asked by itguru5354 1

When your married and love someone how much is sex a weight factor in keeping your marriage together. How many times do you think is not enough. This is a serious question because my husband want's it all the time and I guess between working all the time and the kids I am to tired.

2007-09-09 01:09:00 · 42 answers · asked by ~~Just me~~ 3

A: Similar beliefs
B: Understanding of one another
C: Honesty
D: Trust
E: Communication skills
F: Other (please state)
eg. 1C, 2D

hi, im doing a relationship survey and would apreciate your help! thanx*

2007-09-09 00:55:42 · 19 answers · asked by nuhaa3 1

and why not change it if you are not? I'm not suggesting divorce but there are other ways for happiness.

2007-09-09 00:54:54 · 12 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

to pose for a porno website. That said, there is no contact but it's a picture superimposed. I ask this b/c on this category everyone says porno is natural so I'd like to hear it from the other side.

Thanks.

2007-09-09 00:49:50 · 17 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

my wife left me in may. she wrote to my lawyer stating she wanted her name of the title deeds now she is trying to force me to sell the house can she do this

2007-09-09 00:26:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for over 4 years and at times it feels like forever more. The reason for me feeling like that is due to many of things. 1. finances- he has total control over the money and will not even after 4 years have me put on an account with him. He can do as he pleases with it all, but forgive me if I need some money for food in the house.
2. step-kids- I have two kids from a previous marriage. Kids have needs and 400.00 a month for childsupport for both children does not cover those needs. Yet asking him for money to help out with anything, it's like pulling teeth out. Should I not be asking him for anything since they are not his??? And did I fail to mention, I'm not allowed to get a job, cause my job is to stay home cleaning and caring for kids 24-7.
3.- Last but least- he wants me to have a baby and I am in need of a hysteorectomy. What do I do ??? I am afraid of raising a third child on my own again. All he wants to do is work and stay gone.

2007-09-09 00:20:05 · 11 answers · asked by C&D M 1

Hi answer community! im doing a relationship survey and would apreciate it if you answer this! (i apologize and understand if you find it too personal/offensive) thanx*

2007-09-09 00:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by nuhaa3 1

sorry if this is personal but Im doing a survey on relationships and need the response! thanx*

2007-09-09 00:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by nuhaa3 1