sorry if this is personal but Im doing a survey on relationships and need the response! thanx*
2007-09-09 00:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by nuhaa3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did get married for WRONG REASONS.....THE REASONS ARE: FINANCIAL SECURITY, SEEKING STATUS & I WAS PREGNANT...now i am divorced because if you get married for the wrong reasons it will never ever work out even how hard you try to save the relationship.
2007-09-09 00:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to get married in the first place I just hated the idea of housekeeping or cooking food for a stranger .... I mean outside my family, but I was an illegal alien in Japan and during that time immigration officials are becoming strict in deporting us so I proposed marriage to the best potential candidate and we've been married for almost 7 years now. I think there is still no love for him but he is so nice, so loving and a perfect husband, father and he is supportive of my relatives too.
2007-09-09 07:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Myla O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
2007-09-09 07:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction was part of it. Don't know if it was love though because I didn't know my partner well enough before we tied the knot.
Loneliness was a big part of it. Plus the social expectations of " you're supposed to be settled by this age".
Another thing was the appeal of having a double income (we're both working) & a more comfortable lifestyle.
Love only came about later - after living with one another for some time.
2007-09-09 07:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage 1 - I was prego
Marriage 2 - Love
2007-09-09 10:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, a bit for love, a bit for her big t*ts, a bit for her child-bearing-hips, a bit for the fact that she was a nice and hard working girl. Just a real class act. And she was slightly chubby with a Jayne Mansfield type of slim waist and she just floated my boat.
She wasn't film star good looking; she just looked like a normal woman. But that floats my boat.
2007-09-09 07:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely love!
2007-09-09 07:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by fiona1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
security inititally b/c I didn't really know what love was, but it's turned into love for the past 10 yrs together.
2007-09-09 07:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For love. If you build it on other things it might not work out as well.
2007-09-09 07:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married because people get married . and i wanted to have a family
2007-09-09 07:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by stranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋