and why not change it if you are not? I'm not suggesting divorce but there are other ways for happiness.
2007-09-09 00:54:54 · 12 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dave, I think we may be 'husbands-in-law's' 'cause I thought I had the most wonderful woman in the world....lol
Marriage, I'm told, is "an unselfish act between two people who put the needs, wants, and desires of their spouse ahead of their own and expect NOTHING in return. It's all about pleasing each other unselfishly.
2007-09-09 06:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am very happy in my marriage and it's not because everything is perfect but it is because I work my butt off to be happy.
We let the little things go. We suck it up and talk to each other when things aren't going well...and we make sure to always reinforce each other for nice things, considerate and thoughtful things....We never pick on each other's weakness....we treat eachother better than we would treat a stranger...
Divorce isn't in our vocabulary....
Every night before we go to sleep we tell each other three things we love or appreciate about each other....
Finally, we never ever forget that being together is a choice...each and every single day. Marriage isn't a pair of handcuffs...it is the tie that binds.
2007-09-09 02:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by joellemoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 13:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by elza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not happily married right now- but I agree with John M "putting someone elses need before your own" is the best way to make a marriage work and it is also a sign of real love
2007-09-09 07:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am not happy in my marriage life...
I can't change cause I have kids who want their dad to be around whenever they need him...I have responsibilities towards my family that I have to abide myself to no matter what it takes..
There are times when happiness has different meanings..
it means that you should not be selfish and think of your own happiness without caring about others who you brought to this world and who did not commit a single sin but being kids of two stupid husband and wife ..
Happiness is in your mind.. its smth. you convince yourself with.. it is how you see things.. So, I guess I don't want to see the empty half. Do you?
2007-09-09 01:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2014-10-14 09:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am not, for many reasons and I do plan change but with 4 children anything I do will take time and money, I am up for the challenge I just have to be smart and have patience
2007-09-09 00:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change a thing Im married to the most wonderful woman out there xo
2007-09-09 03:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bored @ Work 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm happily getting a divorce...I love life now ")
2007-09-09 00:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes Iam happy in my marriage. There are problems as Iam very sensitive (also Iam too possessive about him) but that doesnt effect my love towards him. I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM. THAT'S IT. He too loves me more than any one else.
HE LOVES ME MORE THAN MY PARENTS.
2007-09-09 01:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by abina s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋